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izzybeth
April 3rd, 2015, 10:00 PM
Okay, So I get this weird feeling sometimes where i want to be with a girl is it bad
NickTheStar
April 3rd, 2015, 10:09 PM
Nah. Your just going to have to spend a ton of money at John Hopkins.
Elysium
April 3rd, 2015, 10:58 PM
Puberty for Girls :arrow: Teen Sexuality and Gender

Nah. Your just going to have to spend a ton of money at John Hopkins.
If I understand you correctly, that's not helpful.

In response to you izzybeth, no, that's not bad. It's totally normal and you're not alone. Act on those thoughts if you want, or don't. Up to you. As long as you're not repressing yourself or somehow harming yourself or others, you're absolutely fine. :)
NickTheStar
April 3rd, 2015, 11:00 PM
Its very helpful. John Hopkins is the worlds leader in sex change surgery and has conducted many surveys about transgenderism.
They have put millions into studies of sexuality as well.
Elysium
April 3rd, 2015, 11:01 PM
Its very helpful. John Hopkins is the worlds leader in sex change surgery and has conducted many surveys about transgenderism.
Then you evidently misread the OP... She's talking about being with a girl, not becoming a girl.
NickTheStar
April 3rd, 2015, 11:01 PM
Oh shit sorry
Elysium
April 3rd, 2015, 11:03 PM
Oh shit sorry
It happens :) But yeah, no reason to visit doctors and hospitals for a little exploration of sexuality. :P
NickTheStar
April 3rd, 2015, 11:05 PM
No its not bad at all. Experiment. You want to live the happiest and most fulfilling life you can. Its absolutely normal.
kanine
April 4th, 2015, 12:45 AM
Nah bro be who you are, love has no boundaries.
Living For Love
April 4th, 2015, 05:15 AM
Mod note: let's stay on topic and focus on helping the OP. Some posts have been deleted.
Meh Guy
April 4th, 2015, 06:56 AM
Totally normal. It's not a bad thing at all, it just means you may be lesbian, or bi curious. If you want to act on these feelings just make sure you understand not all people are as accepting of same sex relationships/love. But I encourage you to act on your feelings, don't repress them because you feel they are wrong.
ShelleyCA
April 6th, 2015, 10:52 AM
I've thought about experimenting too ;) i think its pretty normal..but now all of us admit to it, or talk about it.
DoodleSnap
April 7th, 2015, 08:34 PM
There is absolutely nothing wrong with being attracted to members of the same sex, in the same way that there is nothing wrong with being attracted to people of any gender. Accommodating and being comfortable with one's own sexuality is a lot better for health, and as denial simply breeds hate.
SethfromMI
April 7th, 2015, 09:39 PM
yea it is normal, nothing for you to worry about