View Full Version : what do u find attractive in a guy? (girls and guys)
Collinsworthington
April 2nd, 2015, 06:44 PM
The title pretty much says it all
Hideous
April 2nd, 2015, 07:55 PM
Appearance wise, a man who cleans himself up. Groomed.
Personality, genuine, open minded, trustworthy, loyal, make me happy, make me feel beautiful, sweet, charming.
Luminous
April 2nd, 2015, 08:11 PM
Puberty for All :arrow: Relationships and Dating
Abhorrence
April 2nd, 2015, 09:16 PM
I don't know really, I just love eyes. Really cool eyes are always nice to have.
NickTheStar
April 2nd, 2015, 10:38 PM
Muscles. Muscles. And more muscles.
kanine
April 2nd, 2015, 10:40 PM
It's generally pretty nice when they aren't over forty.
That's about all I can think of.
NickTheStar
April 2nd, 2015, 10:58 PM
Idk I like a little sag kanine jk
joestug2
April 3rd, 2015, 09:24 AM
Tall, medium long dark hair, light eyes, slim/a little built, lightly tan, nice personality.
Bull
April 3rd, 2015, 09:29 AM
Personality, well groomed, very neat dresser, great eyes, lips, upper body. Someone who is fun to be around.
Wafflenado
April 3rd, 2015, 02:43 PM
Muscles. Muscles. And more muscles.
I will agree with this somewhat, but there's a point where muscles go from being attractive to kind of gross lol
Personally, I like fit guys. I like guys that share my sense of humor and don't take life too seriously. I don't need someone to share all of my hobbies and opinions, because honestly that'd be kind of boring, but he needs to at least be open minded to new things as I will do the same. I do think a little over confidence is cute though XD
NickTheStar
April 3rd, 2015, 02:50 PM
Not body builders where there arms are so gigantic that they can't wipe their ass. Lean no bigger than 210 lbs. of a lean muscular frame and have a v-line.
Axel_
April 3rd, 2015, 03:49 PM
Handsome, nice, sweet, funny, easy to talk to, affectionate, honest, loving, andtakes care of himself and body. I'm not too picky but I think a guy like this would be perfect.
xXoblivionXx
April 3rd, 2015, 05:05 PM
taller guys, facial hair (as long as it's well groomed), someone who's intelligent, funny, compassionate, and understanding
LiamC
April 5th, 2015, 12:10 PM
Looks: Tall guys, quite well built, big thighs, maybe facial hair but not always
Personality: Witty, open minded, generous, caring, not too serious but serious when it's needed
Abhorrence
April 5th, 2015, 12:26 PM
I also like it when they're not flamboyant as hell, that pisses me off.
NickTheStar
April 5th, 2015, 12:44 PM
Personality: cocky, understanding, willing to take control
Has to new groomed and have a lean body. Cannot look like what my grandma calls a ragamuffin.
Cognizant
April 5th, 2015, 03:25 PM
Appearance wise: Clean cut, slim (being muscular is a plus), tasteful fashion - doesn't just throw clothes on and hope it looks ok, well-kept hair that's on the shorter side, decent dental hygiene, and I absolutely adore glasses. ^_^ I prefer masculine looking guys to feminine guys.
Personality wise: Easy going/mellow, trustworthy, has some mutual interests with me (idc if it's a hobby, sport, TV show, artist, band, food, opinion on something, but we need to have some stuff in common that we can bond over), slightly dominant, tries to cheer me up when I'm in a bad mood but will give me space when I ask for it, and diplomatic. Also they don't have to be super athletic or always preoccupying themselves, but I don't like couch potatoes (even though I'm one myself hah).
Misc: money doesn't hurt (even though I have my own income it's nice not having to pay 100% sometimes), nor does having a car, friends/family who accept me, having a job, and lives close to me. They don't have to live in my city per se, but I'd rather not have to drive 35 minutes one way just to see them. My mom would drive 3 hours one way to see her ex-fiance, but I don't see the point in dating someone so far away. If they live far away, they'll be the ones coming to visit me :P
Danny_boi 16
April 5th, 2015, 06:51 PM
Cosmetically care about your apprentice and be a little fashionable. But most importantly have a great personality.
agfc99
April 9th, 2015, 05:26 PM
I also like it when they're not flamboyant as hell, that pisses me off.
Cosmetically care about your apprentice and be a little fashionable. But most importantly have a great personality.
Snap! Although I'll likely never find either since I'm uber shy IRL :mad:
Anastaysha Marie
April 9th, 2015, 07:33 PM
I like the guys who dress like they're preppy, all nice and all, but still know how to have fun and how to BE fun. If they can make me laugh, then that's huge. Also their SMILE is a big thing for me. It has to be an amazing smile.
Anastaysha Marie
April 9th, 2015, 07:34 PM
Personality: cocky, understanding, willing to take control
Has to new groomed and have a lean body. Cannot look like what my grandma calls a ragamuffin.
oooohhh my goodness I laughed so hard. What's a ragamuffin?
NickTheStar
April 10th, 2015, 05:17 PM
oooohhh my goodness I laughed so hard. What's a ragamuffin?
rag·a·muf·fin
ˈraɡəˌməfən/
noun
1.
a person, typically a child, in ragged, dirty clothes.
hyperdude
April 12th, 2015, 02:26 AM
i see a lot used the word that he has to be "groomed". whats meant by that? (sorry not english as first language) i thought groom was something from a wedding.
NickTheStar
April 12th, 2015, 02:34 AM
hyperdude groomed is another word for hygiene and good appearance.
hyperdude
April 12th, 2015, 02:38 AM
oh.
so its just washing and not looking like a hobo?
Vermilion
April 13th, 2015, 01:08 PM
hyperdude, yeah, so washing, hair cut / styling , good looking clothes ect.
hyperdude
April 13th, 2015, 01:55 PM
hyperdude, yeah, so washing, hair cut / styling , good looking clothes ect.
Do I have a GROOOMED hairstyle?! :metal:
Vermilion
April 13th, 2015, 02:08 PM
Do I have a GROOOMED hairstyle?! :metal:
Yeah I guess everyone has there own hair style. Yes your hair style suits you and it looks well groomed :).
Ridonks_CB
April 13th, 2015, 05:45 PM
Personality wise, I'd like a guy who's funny, sarcastic and mean sometimes like me xP, likes to have fun and travel, open-minded, has an interest for reading/stories, politically active, and doesn't feel that he has special priveleges over me just because he is a guy. As for looks..I just look for nice eyes and a beautiful smile :)
akselj
April 25th, 2015, 11:20 AM
I like tall, blonde girls who are smart and easy to get along with. I've been dating my current girlfriend, Maja, for three years now, and she's 6'2'' (which is still pretty short compared to me, since I'm 7'1''), blonde, is really smart, funny, and has blue eyes. There was only a four inch height difference between us when we started dating, but I've grown since then and she has not.
WanderingHeart
April 25th, 2015, 01:13 PM
An accepting, open-minded guy that believes everyone is free to make their own choices. Free spirited, in a way. Confident, funny and interesting. I don't care if he's a gamer a nerd a band geek or whatever. And a guy that isnt just after sex, body shape, etc. And helpful too, cuz i need those kinds of people in my life :'D. As for looks I'm cool with whatever, just be clean and fairly groomed xD.
MeliWelli
April 27th, 2015, 03:20 AM
Nice, respectful, funny, fun, and comfortable with who he is and what he has. Physically having muscles is nice, but not a deal breaker for me. Don't have one type, but being well groomed (as has been explained :P ) is always good.
MeliWelli
April 27th, 2015, 03:21 AM
I like tall, blonde girls who are smart and easy to get along with. I've been dating my current girlfriend, Maja, for three years now, and she's 6'2'' (which is still pretty short compared to me, since I'm 7'1''), blonde, is really smart, funny, and has blue eyes. There was only a four inch height difference between us when we started dating, but I've grown since then and she has not.
Wow, you're tall!!
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