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Erotic cake
April 2nd, 2015, 01:56 PM
Well, there's this girl and she is constantly being treated like shit by her friends and not only she can't see it, but she refuses to, always assuming they are just trying to be nice, and everywhere she goes somebody is dealing a problem onto her table, its overwhelming her and really having an affect on her physical and mental health. I've been trying to tell her for so long and nothing seems to work. She is too kind and caring for her own good.
What can I say or do to show or convince her that some people are not worth her time, that she needs to learn to let go?
And please keep in mind that she is extremely fragile at this point.
Btw we are both 15.

Mil1dreded
April 2nd, 2015, 03:56 PM
Man you just need to be there for her, every time she feels like crap you need to be there picking her up and being a great friend. If her friends are such asses they'll eventually go too far and she realise and do the right thing. But whatever happens you really need to be there for her

Erotic cake
April 3rd, 2015, 03:56 AM
Yeah, my thoughts exactly, it's just hard watching her constantly in pieces. I'm just wondering when it will ever stop. But hey, I can only do what I can do. She will get it sorted one day. Like you said, be there.
Thank you, heaps, it's good to know I'm not failing as a friend.

xXoblivionXx
April 3rd, 2015, 08:53 AM
^^ I agree being there for her is key. Hopefully, she will realize that not everyone is worth her time. But it's important for her to have support becasue if you think about it. she is supporting everyone else... who's supporting her?

Nico11
April 3rd, 2015, 02:05 PM
I can't have a different opinion. As long as you're there, she'll have someone providing here the much needed security. Everytime her friends do it, you need to jump in to rescue. She'll eventually realize her friends are asses. Till then, you have to be the hero.