what do guys look for in girls. please be honest.

[ally-mai]

E.g. boobs, bum, legs, pubic hair, hair (on the head), make up, long nails/short nails. etc

[coolkid016]

i look for personality, independence, and some physical traits.

[jordanhardy]

Honestly, Eyes are a big turn on for me, blue eyes are my favourite. They have to have a good personality and take pride in their appearance. I'm not gonna lie, boobs, bums and legs do help, but aren't massively important.

[KingLiam]

As long as they like me and aren't heavily religious then I'm fixed

[Luminous]

Puberty for All :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[Abhorrence]

Awesome style, awesome hair, cute eyes :P

[DoodleSnap]

To be quite honest, I wouldn't say I have a set criteria for dating a girl (or a boy, for that matter). I more base attraction off of personality, intellect, speech, etc...
If I fall in love with someone, everything about them seems attractive, so I try not to focus on looks too much (but I will notice someone if I find them good-looking).

[Waleedbt]

eyes

[Turin15]

The face, eyes, hair, boobs (but not that much) and great personality

[NickTheStar]

Ass and boobs. Call me shallow but that's the first thing I see.

[smff]

Looks aren't all that matter, to a certain degree, they are important, but personality is much more important. Someone who I look forward to talking to and can have good conversations with. Sense of humour, kindness, blah blah blah...

[Mil1dreded]

A great personality and a good sense of humour of course I have preferences with looks but they aren't a big deal that much I'd rather them be interesting and fun

[Vermilion]

Good since of humour , lovely eyes, not a lot of make up, more importantly likes me for me, not what I can do for her/ who I know. But odd like not wearing what everyone else is wearing like piercings and tattoos, no fake tan.

[ally-mai]

A great personality and a good sense of humour of course I have preferences with looks but they aren't a big deal that much I'd rather them be interesting and fun What sort of preferences?

Looks aren't all that matter, to a certain degree, they are important, but personality is much more important. Someone who I look forward to talking to and can have good conversations with. Sense of humour, kindness, blah blah blah... By the sounds of it you think looks matter a little bit. What sort of thing do you look for in a girl?

Double posts merged. ~Hannah

[Remington10]

Good personality, beautiful eyes, looks amazing without make up, I can't ask for anything more than just an amazing good lookin girl.

[Professional Russian]

Its different from guy to guy. I look someone who I can connect with and we can be happy. Looks don't really matter. For other all of its looks...which pisses me off but I'm not getting into to that today

[dirtyboxer55]

Looks don't really matter.

biggest lie of all time lmao.

[tinybird]

i'm not a boy but i like girls with fun personalities, a good sense of humor, and a cute face. boobs and butt really dont matter that much.

[Professional Russian]

biggest lie of all time lmao.

No its not. You'll learn. Relationships are more mental. You'll say looks matter now but couple years down the road you'll think differently....unless of course your just in it to fuck it

[NickTheStar]

Yeah fuck that love shit.

[Tesserax]

Well for me, I look first for 2 things:
Personality and looks.
Out of 10, personality (nice, funny, sweet, understands me) must be at least 7/10, and looks have to be at least 5 or 6/10.

Next thing, you have to be smart. You can't be just a dumbass that doesn't know that the sun doesn't cool down in the winter, or has some stupid hatred for nerds because they're a million times smarter than you. You need to have some amount of brains.

Lastly, the more sexual part of it; I have to make a confession here, and it's that I love porn, but the stuff that turns me on the most, is really intimate stuff, missionary position, with a caring guy and lots of kissing. But in terms of body, a thin to average build girl (not muscular or fat), with preferably trimmed pubes, that sexy line down the middle, or just no pubes (but won't make a difference tbh) at the vag.

You asked for it, I gave it to you, sorry if anybody finds this weird or offensive

[Uranus]

biggest lie of all time lmao.

Actually that's not a lie. And I'm amused by your logic.

[Mil1dreded]

What sort of preferences?

Well most of the girls I've been out with have had big or massive boobs. But that's not why I went out with them as I said someone I get on with and is fun is far more important

[smff]

By the sounds of it you think looks matter a little bit. What sort of thing do you look for in a girl?

In terms of looks, I like natural things, eyes, nice hair, smile, not a lot of makeup, not a big fan of tattoos, piercings, etc.

[Axel_]

Attractive, kind, affectionate, honest, takes care of herself, easy to talk to, funny, girly, and smart. I'd like to think a good bum or boobs would be a bonus but aren't vital for me.

[dirtyboxer55]

No its not. You'll learn. Relationships are more mental. You'll say looks matter now but couple years down the road you'll think differently....unless of course your just in it to fuck it

looks always matter just as much as how much you connect.

Actually that's not a lie. And I'm amused by your logic.

and your logic is just that standards don't exist. lol

[Professional Russian]

looks always matter just as much as how much you connect

That's a load of shit. Looks do not matter. Im not sacrificing connects for looks. I want someone who understands me and connects with me.. Not someone who looks good.

[dirtyboxer55]

That's a load of shit. Looks do not matter. Im not sacrificing connects for looks. I want someone who understands me and connects with me.. Not someone who looks good.

realize that youre trying to say standards do not exist. you want someone who connects to you (which is a standard) yet you try and say that you dont care how they look (which is also a standard). even if it was true for you (lol) you cant just use that to say that physical standards are "a load of shit" and that nobody in the world has physical standards :lol:

[Professional Russian]

realize that youre trying to say standards do not exist. you want someone who connects to you (which is a standard) yet you try and say that you dont care how they look (which is also a standard). even if it was true for you (lol) you cant just use that to say that physical standards are "a load of shit" and that nobody in the world has physical standards :lol:

People who have physical standards usually only want to fuck. That's not a relationship. Do I like girls who look good? Yes. Would I fuck a good looking girl? Yes. But I would not have a relationship with them unless they connect with me.on other levels. Relationships aren't about looks. They're about connections.

[dirtyboxer55]

People who have physical standards usually only want to fuck. That's not a relationship. Do I like girls who look good? Yes. Would I fuck a good looking girl? Yes. But I would not have a relationship with them unless they connect with me.on other levels. Relationships aren't about looks. They're about connections.

so you agree with me that physical standards exist at least on a sexual level.
but when you want to take it to the next step (relationship)you need a emotional connection. so why are you trying to say that in elevating to a relationship physical standards are suddenly dropped? just because to you (one person) that emotional connection is valued more?

[Professional Russian]

so you agree with me that physical standards exist at least on a sexual level.
but when you want to take it to the next step (relationship)you need a emotional connection. so why are you trying to say that in elevating to a relationship physical standards are suddenly dropped? just because to you (one person) that emotional connection is valued more?

Because a sexual level is not a relationship. Physical standards are dropped to emotional standards because love is an emotion. Emotional standards are what make love. Not physical standards. Physical standards have nothing to do with love. And a relationship isn't a relationship without love.

[dirtyboxer55]

Because a sexual level is not a relationship. Physical standards are dropped to emotional standards because love is an emotion. Emotional standards are what make love. Not physical standards. Physical standards have nothing to do with love. And a relationship isn't a relationship without love.

sex and physical attraction is a component of a relationship. ive concluded that you are either asexual or gay.

[Professional Russian]

sex and physical attraction is a component of a relationship. ive concluded that you are either asexual or gay.

Not really. A relationship is about love. Love doesn't care if you have sex or not. Love doesn't care how you look. I'm not asexual and I'm not gay. I've spent a lot of time thinking about what love really is and what relationships are really built off of. One day you'll see what I mean. Because at one time I was just like you. Thinking looks mattered. Can't be with an ugly girl. But iemve learned that love doesn't care about that. And its not because I love a girl that's considered ugly....I actually don't think I love anybody even though I say I do love one girl. But I'm not sure of it yet. Bit yeah love doesn't care about what you look like its about emotional connections and relationships are built on love not looks. It actually really amuses me that you're argueing with someone who's spent most of their life looking for love and the perfect relationship. I have spent so much time looking at other peoples relationships and point out the good parts and the bad just to what makes it perfect.

[Luminous]

Let's stay on topic please before posts have to be deleted.

[targaryen101]

I have always loved long hair, a nice laugh, someone who is classy but still knows how to have a good time and not care of what others think. someone who teases me and laughs at my jokes. Luckily I found that person and thank whatever it is that is out there every day for it!

[HououinKiyoma]

Personality, eyes are main..
Secondary are boobs, and nice fit body and legs

[Southside]

Good personality, well spoken, intelligent, having dreams/goals, sense of humor, a little freaky.

Physical: Short, decent length hair, athletic,boobs(not huge), ass(not huge), eyes,

Oh and...a turn off is MAKEUP

[RedKnightHD]

Nice personality, beautiful body and hair. I actually like redheads more for some reason.

[Uniquemind]

I think it's in this order:

1. Looks (tastes very though as demonstrated here)

2. Personality

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And I think guys have two categories in how they rate females.

1 category is pure animalistic of "I wanna have sex with her"


2 category is " I like being with her and I wanna have sex with her"

[rioo]

For me asian girl is cute. I've live in japan once, and I've been rejected by asian mix girl once before, but it's not gonna stop me to looking for another one.
But basically I'm not into fat girl, and I like humor girl also who have good style. Too bad girls in there don't have much humor makes me confused. And of course I'm open to other girl type.

[SilverP]

nice personality

[roadwarrior]

beautiful, caring, smart, cool, kind, gorgeous, thoughtful, religious and truly loves me <3

[Daycent]

Well most guys want a girl that is trying to look good and able to take care of themselves but you also need to be pretty aswell

[mrmee]

Since this post is solely about looks I presume, I prefer long tan legs, no pubic hair, medium-large butt and boobs, a straight white smile, very little makeup, and long straight dirty blonde hair. But let's not be picky.

[Vocabulous]

That's a load of shit. Looks do not matter. Im not sacrificing connects for looks. I want someone who understands me and connects with me.. Not someone who looks good.

Late to the party, but if the person isn't attractive to you, you wouldn't be keen on finding out if you have a connection. Everytime I see a guy say that looks don't matter, I just sigh because sure, looks might not be the most important, but you will notice the looks first. If you don't notice the person, you'll never even find out if you have chemistry.

[Teeballin4lifebah]

Doesn't matter as long as she takes care of herself and feels good about herself

[hesaidhesaid]

Talent, personality and virtue. A girl needs to be the kind I wanna bring home to my friends and parents...the kind to be genuinely jealous of having and the kind that anyone would love to have a conversation. It's also good to love me honestly and wholesomely...fun thought!

As for looks, as long as you dont have makeup and fake looks on you, you should be okay. I cant really explain what I ever look for in a girl attractiveness wise because it just clicks to me when she does. Just dont be too flirtatious and be you as you would want me to treat you.