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[sakili]

Hey! So there is this guy at school, i met him three months ago, he messaged me on fb. We started chatting all the time, talking at school, and went out three times, but nothing ever happened. I'm quite sure he likes me, and I like him as well. But here's the problem: I've heard from a couple of people that he messages random girls from school and then flirts with them at school. I know that he's pretty experienced, but why would it take him so long with me? Now that I know this, what should I do? Btw I've never had anything close to boyfriend, and this guy seemed nice, and is really really smart, and kinda cute... :what:

[Abhorrence]

It would be best to know your age during this situation because maturity levels really fluctuate during the teen years among peers.

[sakili]

I'm 15 and he's 16. We're both freshmen

[Abhorrence]

I have no idea what a freshman is but okay. During these ages people generally become more mature. I'm assuming you both know each other well enough, couldn't you just confront him about these rumours? Rumours are usually just rumours at the end of the day and if you think you have potential with this dude then you should see what it's all about.

[SethfromMI]

well what do you want out of this? continue to talk to him about relationship stuff and figure out what the both of you want. the rumors may be true, they may not be. sometimes the only way you will only find out is after the fact. so you may want to proceed with caution but the only way you will ever know is by the both of you talking about where do you want to go from here

[jordanhardy]

Just because he's had a few girlfriends before doesn't mean that he doesn't like you. If you like him then give him a chance. It could be the start of a good relationship

[DoodleSnap]

well what do you want out of this? continue to talk to him about relationship stuff and figure out what the both of you want. the rumors may be true, they may not be. sometimes the only way you will only find out is after the fact. so you may want to proceed with caution but the only way you will ever know is by the both of you talking about where do you want to go from here

I have no idea what a freshman is but okay. During these ages people generally become more mature. I'm assuming you both know each other well enough, couldn't you just confront him about these rumours? Rumours are usually just rumours at the end of the day and if you think you have potential with this dude then you should see what it's all about.

As stated above; speak to him. Communication is one of the most important aspects of any relationship, so if you see yorselves having potential, learn to communicate. Working together towards a solution is much better than basing decisions off of guesswork. Good luck.