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Leprous
March 27th, 2015, 03:05 PM
Well, in school, there is a guy in my class. He has been trough depression allot and I've been the one to always pull him trough. However, he is nice and all but sometimes makes fun of me infront of people I don't know, he insults me and hurts me physicly, but he's such a great guy at times. Honestly I don't know what the fuck I'm supposed to do about this, as it's not fun for me, but at the same time I don't wanna leave him be.

So yeah, any advice?

Vermilion
March 27th, 2015, 03:49 PM
I'd ask what's his problem is and why if your their for him why he's a dick at times.

Abhorrence
March 27th, 2015, 03:57 PM
Could be trying to look cool in front of peers or something.

SethfromMI
March 27th, 2015, 06:17 PM
confront him and let him know as much as you are for him you will not be treated like that anymore

That's the Spirit
March 27th, 2015, 06:51 PM
Bipolar prolly.
Just because he has(d) depression doesn't mean you can't be a dick back?

Leprous
March 28th, 2015, 06:38 AM
Bipolar prolly.
Just because he has(d) depression doesn't mean you can't be a dick back?

You can't just say he's bipolar THAT easily you know.

Zachary G
March 28th, 2015, 07:32 AM
after all you have done for him, he treats you that way - ridiculous! you should pull him aside and let him know that you will not stand for it anymore and if he continues then he will be on his own the next time he is "depressed" and needs a friend. put your foot down because you deserve to be treated better than he is treating you.

That's the Spirit
March 28th, 2015, 08:38 AM
You can't just say he's bipolar THAT easily you know.

I did say probably

Luminous
March 28th, 2015, 09:26 AM
Bipolar prolly.
Just because he has(d) depression doesn't mean you can't be a dick back?

Just because someone's mood seems to change fast doesn't mean they're bipolar or even 'prolly' bipolar. Don't jump to conclusions.
And don't be a dick back, fighting fire with fire is never a good idea.

Bram, I'd pull him aside and calmly ask him what his deal is. He's probably just trying to look cool in front of his friends, but that doesn't make it okay. Make it clear that you're not going to keep helping him through shit if he's constantly being a dick to you.

That's the Spirit
March 28th, 2015, 11:31 AM
Just because someone's mood seems to change fast doesn't mean they're bipolar or even 'prolly' bipolar. Don't jump to conclusions./QUOTE]

I didn't jump to a conclusion, that's why I said ,,probably''.

[QUOTE=Luminous;3096296]And don't be a dick back, fighting fire with fire is never a good idea.
It worked/helped (for) me.

Leprous
March 28th, 2015, 01:26 PM
Just because someone's mood seems to change fast doesn't mean they're bipolar or even 'prolly' bipolar. Don't jump to conclusions.
And don't be a dick back, fighting fire with fire is never a good idea.

Bram, I'd pull him aside and calmly ask him what his deal is. He's probably just trying to look cool in front of his friends, but that doesn't make it okay. Make it clear that you're not going to keep helping him through shit if he's constantly being a dick to you.

Thanks Hannah, I'll try to do it. But it's hard for me, not sure how easily I can confront him about it.