Boyfriend brags...

[SmokyChica]

My boyfriend and I had sex a couple times a while ago and today I found out he bragged to his friends about it. We promises we'd keep it private but his friend was telling me how he always talked about it, and when I got mad at him for it he broke up with me. I don't know what to do... Any advice?

[Daniel2]

presuming that you dont want to un-breakup, if hes telling everyone, just say he wasnt very good, then he will stop as he will be too embarrassed then

if you do want to get back with him... then i dont know, sorry

[Melodic]

He broke a promise. It wasn't a good thing to do and he shouldn't have reacted by ending the relationship.
This is really hard to say. But if he can't handle how you feel, you just need to move on.

[Zachary G]

theres nothing for you to do, but find a new boyfriend. one who has more respect for you and the sanctity of your relationship because your now ex-bf surely didnt have any respect for you or your wishes when he told his friends about your sexual relationship.

[leahmae]

theres nothing for you to do, but find a new boyfriend. one who has more respect for you and the sanctity of your relationship because your now ex-bf surely didnt have any respect for you or your wishes when he told his friends about your sexual relationship.

Totally agree with this! You are much better off not being involved with him.

[niceguy44]

Move on
Find a guy that has a bit of respect for you

[Selestine]

Move on. He's not worth it. And if he really loved you that much he wouldn't have brag everything about you and him to his friends. There's always someone better. Meaning there's someone out there much better than him which is really deserving to have you. :)

[rachel_ballet]

You are the only one that can make the decision to stay with him or break it off. A good relationship involves a lot of things and trust is one of those things. He betrayed your trust by telling everyone something that should have remained private.

[ImCoolBeans]

Hate to say it, but mostly everyone you ever have sex with is likely going to tell at least one person/friend. That's one of the risks about having sex, if you want it to stay very private, be careful about who you sleep with. Especially when you're younger.

theres nothing for you to do, but find a new boyfriend. one who has more respect for you and the sanctity of your relationship because your now ex-bf surely didnt have any respect for you or your wishes when he told his friends about your sexual relationship.

I agree with Zack. It doesn't sound like he has much/any respect for you if he went around bragging about your sexual relationship, and then broke up with you when you confronted him about lying to you, and telling people about your private life.

[Abhorrence]

I agree with others saying that you deserve a lot better than this but unfortunately many immature male teenagers will brag about any sexual encounter they face. Many times they even boast about things that have never even happened. Look around the puberty sections on this forum for five minutes and you'll see exactly what I mean.

I hope you find happiness.

[JamesSuperBoy]

I'm dating a Puerto Rican guy and it's not that I have a problem with it, but I feel like certain things he does that I don't like he says is a cultural thing to get me to say it's ok. For example, the other day when we were in the hallway and I was about to leave, he smacked me on the butt before I left- not in a cute way, and I've had a lot of people come up to me and say it looked wrong and I've heard guys congratulated him on "tapping that", meaning sleep with me I'm assuming. I tried telling him it wasn't ok and it made me uncomfortable, but he said that it's a way Puerto Ricans show affection to girlfriends... I feel like it was just a way to get me to say it was ok but I'm not sure. Can anyone help?

Is this the same guy you also posted about getting into fights as well -

Maybe I hate to say it but I guess you are better off without sorry but not every relationship will work out.

[SethfromMI]

he shouldn't have told. I mean, most teens tell at least another friend. that being aid he did break a promise and you have the right to be upset. if he is willing to break up over it it is better to just move on

[Mad115]

What he did was not nice or fair to you. If the guy can't respect your right to privacy, he doesn't deserve your company. I suggest you move on.

[DoodleSnap]

I agree with others saying that you deserve a lot better than this but unfortunately many immature male teenagers will brag about any sexual encounter they face. Many times they even boast about things that have never even happened. Look around the puberty sections on this forum for five minutes and you'll see exactly what I mean.

I hope you find happiness.
^^^This exactly. Try to move on, and realise that you deserve better. You shouldn't have to settle for someone disrespecting your needs and wants in a relationship, especially when it involves breaching your privacy to that extent. Try not to let him pressure you, and move on. Learn to love yourself, be around people you are comfortable with, and you should find someone who respects you.
Good luck.