ex problems

[Vermilion]

So me and my ex were together for 6 or so months , but we had been flirting/ talking for a couple of month's before hand. So we ended up going on a break and didn't talk for a couple of months, then new year we started speaking and flirting again, I asked if she would like to give it another go to which she said maybe xx. I left it at that for a couple of weeks go by so I asked did she want a relationship with me so she said no because we don't see each other much and college is more important to her. We stopped talking for a month or so. I delete her from Facebook, twitter , ect then a week later she sent me a friend request so I accepted not wanting to be rude. She then got me to get snapchat she now sends me them a couple of times a week, she's on my mind a lot but I can't be friends with her I either want a relationship or nothing to do with her.how do I say this to her ? Without being rude .

[SethfromMI]

So me and my ex were together for 6 or so months , but we had been flirting/ talking for a couple of month's before hand. So we ended up going on a break and didn't talk for a couple of months, then new year we started speaking and flirting again, I asked if she would like to give it another go to which she said maybe xx. I left it at that for a couple of weeks go by so I asked did she want a relationship with me so she said no because we don't see each other much and college is more important to her. We stopped talking for a month or so. I delete her from Facebook, twitter , ect then a week later she sent me a friend request so I accepted not wanting to be rude. She then got me to get snapchat she now sends me them a couple of times a week, she's on my mind a lot but I can't be friends with her I either want a relationship or nothing to do with her.how do I say this to her ? Without being rude .

gently say after all you been through if she does not see even the possibility of being in a relationship with you, then it is too painful for you to be friends with her

[JamesSuperBoy]

So me and my ex were together for 6 or so months , but we had been flirting/ talking for a couple of month's before hand. So we ended up going on a break and didn't talk for a couple of months, then new year we started speaking and flirting again, I asked if she would like to give it another go to which she said maybe xx. I left it at that for a couple of weeks go by so I asked did she want a relationship with me so she said no because we don't see each other much and college is more important to her. We stopped talking for a month or so. I delete her from Facebook, twitter , ect then a week later she sent me a friend request so I accepted not wanting to be rude. She then got me to get snapchat she now sends me them a couple of times a week, she's on my mind a lot but I can't be friends with her I either want a relationship or nothing to do with her.how do I say this to her ? Without being rude .

Maybe start by deleting or blocking the snap chat ? then decide do you want to tell her personally - but you dont see each other much, or tell her on line email etc. You could say you just need to move on in life -

[Vermilion]

Thanks for the advice guys I got the balls and just said thanks again

[Zachary G]

it seems like that she doesnt want a relationship, but possibly wants a friends with benefits kind of situation.

if, for you, it is relationship or nothing then i would make it a point to just let her know that you care for her to much to just be friends and that you would rather be without her than to be tempted with the promise of nothing, then just walk away.

[Vermilion]

it seems like that she doesnt want a relationship, but possibly wants a friends with benefits kind of situation.

if, for you, it is relationship or nothing then i would make it a point to just let her know that you care for her to much to just be friends and that you would rather be without her than to be tempted with the promise of nothing, then just walk away.

Thanks for the reply , I told her how I felt and anything mike me having depression, she hates me now cos she thinks I blame her for it, which i do a bit. so I've blocked her on everything. Time to move on :)

[Zachary G]

Thanks for the reply , I told her how I felt and anything mike me having depression, she hates me now cos she thinks I blame her for it, which i do a bit. so I've blocked her on everything. Time to move on :)

good for you, dont look back because she will try to come back to you.