I did not realize this....

[Anastaysha Marie]

Okay, so is it wrong?
I had sex with this guy who told me he was 18. I mean, it's not like we didn't know each other or anything, but he seemed older but I assumed he was telling the truth. Anyway, we fucked and then he told me he was actually 21...I mean, I don't mind but is that wrong? He's not that much older....right?:confused:

[Uranus]

Well it really depends how old you are which will show if it's wrong or not. If you're 13, it's definitely wrong. If you're 18, I don't see an issue. However the fact that he lied, is wrong. But he might have said that because he was afraid you might have turned him down because of his age.

[Anastaysha Marie]

I'm 16

[Uranus]

Ok. Even though you are legal (Age of consent most commonly 16), it is somewhat wrong because he is 21. If he was 18, that'd be different. A 16 year old shouldn't be having sex with someone 5 years older than them. I'd suggest sticking with someone around your own age.

[SethfromMI]

he should not have lied and there can def be some questions about the age difference (it would be different if you were 16)

got to be more careful

[Nico11]

Depends on your age. tho you shouldn't be having sex with someone 21 If you're 15 or 16. The fact that he lied was wrong, and you should try to be sure in such situations. Assumptions can be dangerous.

[Dalcourt]

What's really wrong about the whole thing is that he lied. I mean I have been together with people way older than me and all but at least I knew their age.So would it have made a difference for you if you had known his real age? Or would you have had sex with him anyway?
You said you are 16, so legally I guess there's nothing wrong with it...but his lying is wrong.

[Melodic]

I actually find it quite odd that he lied about his age. You might want to stay away from him. I have a feeling that relationship is not safe.

[Zachary G]

What's really wrong about the whole thing is that he lied. I mean I have been together with people way older than me and all but at least I knew their age.So would it have made a difference for you if you had known his real age? Or would you have had sex with him anyway?
You said you are 16, so legally I guess there's nothing wrong with it...but his lying is wrong.

I agree with he above statement; the main point is that he lied about his age and it makes me wonder, did he lie about his age just to get you to have sex with him or was there some other reason? either way, there is no justifying his lying about being 18 when he was actually 21. unacceptable!

[tasminsmith]

it's wrong because he lied, and he's 5 years older than you.