Should I talk to my girlfriend about my insecurities

[EssentialAspiration]

Right now my self confidence is at an all time low. I'm absolutely miserable and my life is going nowhere and sometimes I feel like it'd be nice to talk to someone. I've been with this girl for nearly 10 months but I've never really revealed my feelings when I'm feeling down. Would it be a good idea? She's a lovely girl and I'm sure she'd be supportive but what if she just thought less of me?

[tasminsmith]

if she truly likes you then she will be supportive and won't think any less of you, I would tell her

[Vermilion]

Tell her then she can help you overcome it. I doubt she'll think less of you , I think if anything she'll think more or you being honest with her and brave enough to tell her.

[CuteGuy889]

YEah..many girls are truly amazing..They can help u in may life issues by chaning your attitude and how u see an issuse...whether its as a problem or as a change......mine was superb....I was lyk 15 and has been stick skinny all my life. I could not think of a "normal weight " life. I was devastated when my GF pinched a bit of love handle unexpectedly. I denied it & started to starve myself..felt soo self concious.....I shared my insecurity with my GF..she instntly understood the issue..... ..But my GF convinced me how cute a little padding looked on me, and that gaining weight is a normal part of gowing up, made the whole change a sexy experience. .
...She would undress me in front of a mirror and make fun of my skinny-fat body, and say how cute I look with my new weight on..check where I have gained..where she can pinch more....then if privacy permits take me to TV, sill in my briefs, and enocurage me to have a hearty normal meal....she would stroke my belly and push me to finish my portion and even eat more...
2 years later I've gone from 48kg to 65 kg and definitely not skinny any more...But i'm not fat and I carry my body with confidence.....
And not losing my concentration to mere weight issues helped me excel in my studies too.
She made me give up useless clubs, sports in school and concentrate on my studies...No I've become a star performer in school too.

[Anastaysha Marie]

I feel bad for you. But if you've been dating this chick for ten months, don't you think she would have noticed or at least asked if you were okay? She should be fine with it...not trying to put her down or anything. But try it.

[EssentialAspiration]

She's always asking if I'm alright she does care, I just tend to play off that I'm fine

[Vermilion]

Just tell her she'll understand. She knows something is wrong, it must hurt her knowing but not being let in

[SethfromMI]

yea you should let her know. she can try to help you . besides, since you are dating, she should know if something is up. communication is key to good relationships

[Selestine]

You should let her know. You've been together for 10 months dude! I think it's already been too long for the both of you to know each other. And if she really likes/love you she won't thought less of you and would be more than glad to help you out. :D

[Abhorrence]

You should. Sometimes relationships can grow stronger when the other realises that you truly trust them enough to open up to them.