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Penguinapple
March 24th, 2015, 01:36 AM
I have been sitting next to this guy in a few of my school classes lately, I have a crush on him. whenever he sits next to me or i sit next to him, he will sometimes touch my leg with his leg. he was also next to me today in class, with his arm touching mine, which he also does quite often. Does it sound like anything?
Vermilion
March 24th, 2015, 01:40 AM
He mite be or he's just seeing how you react. He could also be trying to experiment a bit.
Bull
March 24th, 2015, 02:01 AM
Are you responding in kind? When he touches your leg/arm, do you press back to let him know you like the touch? Do you ever touch him first? How does he respond? Do see him outside of school? Could be flirting, could be nothing. Play along and see where it goes.
Penguinapple
March 24th, 2015, 02:10 AM
Are you responding in kind? When he touches your leg/arm, do you press back to let him know you like the touch? Do you ever touch him first? How does he respond? Do see him outside of school? Could be flirting, could be nothing. Play along and see where it goes.
Yes I do press against him when he does it, I also do it to him. When I do it to him he doesn't move his arm or leg, which i think means he likes it.
I don't see him outside of school, as we have only just become to know each other recently. He was also tapping my shoe in class with his ruler the other day.
Bull
March 24th, 2015, 02:16 AM
Sounds like flirting. Keep it up and see where it goes. Do you guys eat lunch together? Get in conversation about video games or movies. If you have a game set invite him over to play, or say something like "hey, why don't we meet up at a movie?" Be pro active. Nothing ventured, noting gained.
Abhorrence
March 24th, 2015, 06:23 AM
I've gotta be honest, it sounds like nothing. He might not even realise and due to the fact you have a crush on him every single thing he does will make you want to believe it is a sign that he likes you. There's no way to know if someone is gay or if someone likes you unless you basically ask.
JamesSuperBoy
March 24th, 2015, 09:29 AM
I agree ^^ with MoonlightDemons maybe he is just bored in school and distracted.
Zachary G
March 24th, 2015, 11:40 AM
he could be testing the waters, are you out at school? follow his lead and respond in kind and see what happens.
ValentinClarke
March 24th, 2015, 12:28 PM
Somethign similar happened to me, and the bastard wasn't even gay and he broke my heart. Just be careful you know. You don't want your heart broken, it hearts like shit.
VC
OSUBuckEyes
March 24th, 2015, 07:31 PM
Nope. Sounds like you guys were close to one another and you were reading a lot into it because you are attracted.
Straya
March 25th, 2015, 06:09 AM
I have been sitting next to this guy in a few of my school classes lately, I have a crush on him. whenever he sits next to me or i sit next to him, he will sometimes touch my leg with his leg. he was also next to me today in class, with his arm touching mine, which he also does quite often. Does it sound like anything?
he might just be comfortable around you but then again it is a good sign that he might be interested in you
SethfromMI
March 26th, 2015, 08:34 PM
I've gotta be honest, it sounds like nothing. He might not even realise and due to the fact you have a crush on him every single thing he does will make you want to believe it is a sign that he likes you. There's no way to know if someone is gay or if someone likes you unless you basically ask.
yep Jack is right. in the end the only way you can know for sure is by asking
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