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TSUNAMI
March 23rd, 2015, 06:36 PM
Did you regret losing your virginity to your ex gf/bf after you break up or if you lost it on a one night stand did you regret it wasnt with someone you knew better

SethfromMI
March 23rd, 2015, 06:37 PM
no not really. I loved my first time. sure, there is something special when you do it with someone who is special to you, that being said. it shouldn't be something people just jump into necessarily, but if the time is right and you want to go for it, then go for it

Luminous
March 23rd, 2015, 06:52 PM
My first time was a one night stand and I don't regret it at all. There were some bad things to come of it but overall I'm glad it happened and I got the experience. I loved it, anyways.

Straya
March 23rd, 2015, 11:44 PM
Did you regret losing your virginity to your ex gf/bf after you break up or if you lost it on a one night stand did you regret it wasnt with someone you knew better

i lost mine on a one night stand and dont regret it at all was alot of fun. its nothing special and i dont belive in any of that waiting for the right one stuff

Turin15
March 23rd, 2015, 11:55 PM
I Dont regret it but i wish i would lost it with someone i love/like

Jeniferdelion
March 24th, 2015, 02:18 AM
Have u done it yet? YES

If u have he old were u? 13 years old w/ my father 42 years old

Did u enjoy it? A lot

Do u regret it? Not at all

Was it painful? A little bit at first because of the hymen

What convinced u to do it? My sister who had it first with our father. He is a gynecologist and makes our sexual education. The person I trust the most.

Hideous
March 24th, 2015, 03:42 AM
I honestly don't regret losing it. Doesn't change the way I feel about myself, or the way I behave, and it does not affect my personality. It's just for the experience tbh.

BlackParadePixie
March 24th, 2015, 03:18 PM
I didn't regret it at the time, but then he cheated on me...so yes, I do regret giving it to him. But I guess I really don't regret it over all...it would have happened sooner or later.

Reundlovu
March 24th, 2015, 04:43 PM
Have u done it yet? YES

If u have he old were u? 13 years old w/ my father 42 years old

Did u enjoy it? A lot

Do u regret it? Not at all

Was it painful? A little bit at first because of the hymen

What convinced u to do it? My sister who had it first with our father. He is a gynecologist and makes our sexual education. The person I trust the most.

Please tell me this is a joke

TSUNAMI
March 24th, 2015, 06:33 PM
no not really. I loved my first time. sure, there is something special when you do it with someone who is special to you, that being said. it shouldn't be something people just jump into necessarily, but if the time is right and you want to go for it, then go for it

was it a one night or were you in a relationship why did you break up

OSUBuckEyes
March 24th, 2015, 07:29 PM
no not really. I loved my first time. sure, there is something special when you do it with someone who is special to you, that being said. it shouldn't be something people just jump into necessarily, but if the time is right and you want to go for it, then go for it

It was pretty fantastic. I waited until I was ready for my first act of penetration and I'm glad I did.

SethfromMI
March 24th, 2015, 09:07 PM
was it a one night or were you in a relationship why did you break up

it was a one night stand

Zachary G
March 26th, 2015, 08:28 AM
no, not really because we were together for about 2 yrs before we broke it off. maybe i would have if he broke it off right after we did it.

Laraa.01
March 27th, 2015, 06:26 AM
Mine was with a friend after we agreed to start fooling around. Don't regret it one bit :)

Emerald Dream
March 27th, 2015, 11:01 AM
There are some things that I absolutely 100% regret doing, primarily because of circumstances and the people involved.

However, even saying that - I think I have learned a lot of things because of it and I am better prepared to make more mature decisions at this point in my life. So there's two ways to look at it.

Abhorrence
March 27th, 2015, 11:47 AM
I regret it, I wish I was still a virgin honestly.

TSUNAMI
March 27th, 2015, 01:08 PM
I regret it, I wish I was still a virgin honestly.

what went wrong

Abhorrence
March 27th, 2015, 03:44 PM
what went wrong

Nothing, I just wish I hadn't been a slut

Emerald Dream
March 27th, 2015, 06:00 PM
Let's keep on topic, please. Off-topic posts and unnecessary response to them have been deleted.

Sydneyy
March 27th, 2015, 08:25 PM
I'm still a virgin

jordanhardy
March 29th, 2015, 01:58 PM
I really enjoyed my first time. It was a great 14th birthday present

nicole97
March 29th, 2015, 02:48 PM
I was only 13 but don't regret it. We were in a fairly serious relationship and it honestly felt like a good time.

mattsmith48
March 29th, 2015, 04:29 PM
Did you regret losing your virginity to your ex gf/bf after you break up or if you lost it on a one night stand did you regret it wasnt with someone you knew better

I was 15 it was a one night i dont regret any seconds of it.

I really enjoyed my first time. It was a great 14th birthday present

thats a nice birthday gift


-merged double post. -Emerald Dream

jordanhardy
March 29th, 2015, 06:56 PM
I was 15 it was a one night i dont regret any seconds of it.



thats a nice birthday gift


-merged double post. -Emerald Dream

Yeah it was

SethfromMI
March 29th, 2015, 07:34 PM
I was absolutely thrilled, esp because the girl was 2 years older than me. no regrets

NickC
March 29th, 2015, 09:08 PM
Noped. I loved every minute of my first time.

TSUNAMI
March 29th, 2015, 11:09 PM
Noped. I loved every minute of my first time.

Relationship or one night

Meh Guy
March 30th, 2015, 04:35 PM
No. I didn't regret losing it to the person I did. I regret being so young at the time but that's a different story

NickC
March 30th, 2015, 04:57 PM
Relationship or one night

Relationship mainly. Also a few one nights

chiisaiaoiryu
March 31st, 2015, 05:09 AM
I lost mine to a one night stand. I don't regret it as it was mainly a moment for me to learn something new about myself and my body. That and his understanding mindset at that moment being my first made it even less if not anywhere near regrettable.

TSUNAMI
April 1st, 2015, 09:04 PM
Relationship mainly. Also a few one nights

i was talking about your first time was it a one night?

LITTLEANGEL19
April 4th, 2015, 02:05 AM
I have NOT lost it, and DON'T have any plans to

kanine
April 4th, 2015, 02:14 AM
Maybe a little afterwards because of the whole waiting until marriage thing but not anymore.

NickC
April 4th, 2015, 05:37 AM
i was talking about your first time was it a one night?

Eh...mine was complicated. But i guess you can say it was a relationship. It was an unofficial one because he was still "in the closet", not to mention he was a football player....but yea, i guess it was a relationship haha

harristhetank
April 12th, 2015, 07:54 AM
I lost my virginity to a girl whom I met a few days ago last night, didn't regret it!

TSUNAMI
May 21st, 2015, 09:08 PM
anyone else?

Beth
May 23rd, 2015, 08:53 AM
I have not lost my virginity yet, but when it does happen I'm sure I'd be ready and not regret it.

Kimhasquestions
May 24th, 2015, 02:01 PM
I lost mine, don't regret it at all, it was amazing

nrob1993
May 24th, 2015, 02:14 PM
16 when I lost it (to an older girl who wasn't a virgin)...it was a VERY intense and amazing experience

ClaraWho
May 24th, 2015, 02:31 PM
On the morning after of my 15th birthday, it was one of his belated birthday gifts to me and my first birthday gift for him (his birthday falls the day after mine). It was wonderful, he is the love of my life and I don't regret any glorious second of it or after.

Having said that, virginity is a nonsense concept that encomposses nothing but a heteronormative misnomer. Life's too short for such irrelevant labelling. I made love for the first time a year before I had 'full' sex, even sex itself is too generic and broad a definition. But I answered in the spirit of the question anyway (:

~ Clara

Bluebyrd
May 24th, 2015, 04:42 PM
I haven't lost my virginity but I wouldn't mind who it was with.

TSUNAMI
May 24th, 2015, 07:02 PM
Kimhasquestions nrob1993 one night or you were in a relationship?
ClaraWho Are you still with him?

nrob1993
May 24th, 2015, 07:10 PM
Kimhasquestions nrob1993 one night or you were in a relationship?
ClaraWho Are you still with him?

I had known her for a while but wasn't in a relationship with her...happened one night and wehad sex a few times after that but that was it

ClaraWho
May 24th, 2015, 07:22 PM
Kimhasquestions nrob1993 one night or you were in a relationship?
ClaraWho Are you still with him?

Ooo I never had a mention before heh xD.

We live together. It's complicated..

But I am very much still his, and he is still mine :wub: . We've been 'together' as a couple for over 2 years now :wub: .

Jaffe
May 30th, 2015, 06:19 PM
I lost it to a friend (we lost it to each other actually), not in a relationship. I have no regrets at all

TinyDancer
May 30th, 2015, 06:32 PM
I gave up my V card to my bf at the time. We had been dating for 6 months. We were together for about 2 years and I don't regret it.

badmanbean
June 1st, 2015, 10:51 PM
Not at all, it was with a friend of my sister who was six years older than me I learned alot and she was a willing teacher.