I really fucked up this time.

[Professional Russian]

I know me talking about this girl is getting redundant but she means the world to me and you guys are the only ones with advice for me. But I really fucked up this time. I kept texting her everyday for the past week and never got a response. With her recent break up and added stress from school I wanted to make sure she was OK. But on Thursday I broke down and annoyed the absolute fuck out of her till it was over. Well today I told I was worried that we're drifting apart and I don't want to loose her. Then a couple minutes later I texted her again telling her that I just wanted an answer to why we don't talk as much anymore and she responded all pissed off telling me to back off a bit and leave her alone for awhile. And like a dick I told her all I needed was an answer and I'll leave her alone for awhile. Now I'm feeling really bad because it seemed like I was being a dick about it. So I want to know what you guys would do in this situation. I can't text her because I always keep my.promises. and I told her dad to tell her I'm so sorry for what I did but I just want to save what we have
This girls the best thing that ever happened to me and of she left I don't know what I'd do. Someone please please tell me what I should do.

[HUSTLEMAN]

I would stop now. You should've stopped when she said back off but you did and well we are here right now. Listen to her a back off for a few days or so butkeep an eye on her so that she doesn't do anything bad.

[SethfromMI]

better just give her some space

[Professional Russian]

I would stop now. You should've stopped when she said back off but you did and well we are here right now. Listen to her a back off for a few days or so butkeep an eye on her so that she doesn't do anything bad.

better just give her some space

Thats what I'm doing. Ill just keep talking to her dad just to make sure she's OK. I'm sending her some of her favorite things to try to make her happier

[SethfromMI]

Thats what I'm doing. Ill just keep talking to her dad just to make sure she's OK. I'm sending her some of her favorite things to try to make her happier

even doing that though may get her angry. I am just saying to use extreme caution before you do something which you might not be able to change or fix

[dirtyboxer55]

go no contact

[Professional Russian]

even doing that though may get her angry. I am just saying to use extreme caution before you do something which you might not be able to change or fix

She doesn't know that we talk like that. Its just to jeep each other up on what's happening to try to help her a bit

[SethfromMI]

She doesn't know that we talk like that. Its just to jeep each other up on what's happening to try to help her a bit

what if she does find out? things like this often have a way of coming out eventually. and if it does, she may be furious

[Professional Russian]

what if she does find out? things like this often have a way of coming out eventually. and if it does, she may be furious

If she finds out I'll be the one telling her..he won't open his mouth for shit. He wants me to be with her. He'd never do anything to hurt me like that.

[SethfromMI]

If she finds out I'll be the one telling her..he won't open his mouth for shit. He wants me to be with her. He'd never do anything to hurt me like that.

these things have a way of accidentally being found out even if he doesn't tell her

[Professional Russian]

these things have a way of accidentally being found out even if he doesn't tell her

Yeah if I tell her. He would never let it slip. And if he did he'd fix it.

[SethfromMI]

Yeah if I tell her. He would never let it slip. And if he did he'd fix it.

then really why did you come looking for advice if your not going to listen to what anyone has to say?

[Professional Russian]

then really why did you come looking for advice if your not going to listen to what anyone has to say?

I'm listening. And I know this sounds onymoronic but I don't want to believe he'd do anything to sabotage this. I don't want to. I know it can happen I just don't want to believe he'd do it.

[SethfromMI]

I'm listening. And I know this sounds onymoronic but I don't want to believe he'd do anything to sabotage this. I don't want to. I know it can happen I just don't want to believe he'd do it.

there are other ways of finding out, even if he doesn't tell her. I'm telling you, these things sometimes have a way of coming out one way or another. I just don't want to see that happening. maybe it wont and if so great.

[Professional Russian]

there are other ways of finding out, even if he doesn't tell her. I'm telling you, these things sometimes have a way of coming out one way or another. I just don't want to see that happening. maybe it wont and if so great.

I don't want to believe shell know. I don't want to believe it at all. I want to us to get together perfectly. But in my life nothings perfect. I can't have anything perfect so more or less she'll find out but once she realizes why we did it shell hopefully understand

[SethfromMI]

I don't want to believe shell know. I don't want to believe it at all. I want to us to get together perfectly. But in my life nothings perfect. I can't have anything perfect so more or less she'll find out but once she realizes why we did it shell hopefully understand

well I wish you the best of luck

[Professional Russian]

well I wish you the best of luck

This is just hard for me. This girl is just so perfect and so amazing and I love her so much I just want it to work out with us. And with it like this recently this seems to be getting smaller and smaller chance and I hate knowing that.

[SethfromMI]

This is just hard for me. This girl is just so perfect and so amazing and I love her so much I just want it to work out with us. And with it like this recently this seems to be getting smaller and smaller chance and I hate knowing that.

well you got to do what you think is best and in the end, only you know what you think is best for you (well God does, but you get what I ma saying)

[Professional Russian]

well you got to do what you think is best and in the end, only you know what you think is best for you (well God does, but you get what I ma saying)

I want to keep texting her. Just so she knows I'm always here. But I don't want to because I know she'll get mad. I'm so confused. I love this girl more than anyone else before. I've never been with someone like this..never been this close to someone before. I just want it work out for once in my life.

[SethfromMI]

I want to keep texting her. Just so she knows I'm always here. But I don't want to because I know she'll get mad. I'm so confused. I love this girl more than anyone else before. I've never been with someone like this..never been this close to someone before. I just want it work out for once in my life.

your going to have to give it time and if texting was making her angry then I could not keep doing it

[Professional Russian]

your going to have to give it time and if texting was making her angry then I could not keep doing it
Her problem is she's depressed and stressed to the max right now. I've tried and tried to help but she won't take it. It just kills knowing she's in pain and I can't fucking help

[SethfromMI]

Her problem is she's depressed and stressed to the max right now. I've tried and tried to help but she won't take it. It just kills knowing she's in pain and I can't fucking help

I understand that. but sometimes the way we have to be there for someone is by giving them the space they need

[Professional Russian]

I understand that. but sometimes the way we have to be there for someone is by giving them the space they need

I know. I'm giving her it. I'll leave her alone. I just don't want it to get to the point where we stop talking. I need this girl. She makes me so happy

[SethfromMI]

I know. I'm giving her it. I'll leave her alone. I just don't want it to get to the point where we stop talking. I need this girl. She makes me so happy

it may come to a point where you may have to accept it will not work. till that time comes though, try to give her the space she needs

[Professional Russian]

it may come to a point where you may have to accept it will not work. till that time comes though, try to give her the space she needs

A relationship may not work but friendship is all I need from this girl.

[SethfromMI]

A relationship may not work but friendship is all I need from this girl.

but that can still require time and you need to be willing to give her space

[Professional Russian]

but that can still require time and you need to be willing to give her space

I know. But giving someone you love space like that is real hard.

[SethfromMI]

I know. But giving someone you love space like that is real hard.

yes it can be, but as I said sometimes that is what you just have to do

[Professional Russian]

yes it can be, but as I said sometimes that is what you just have to do

I know. I just want to know she's OK. It eases my mind seeing her name on my phone. It makes me know she's OK and she's happy. I've never been in this position before. I just don't what to do.

[SethfromMI]

I know. I just want to know she's OK. It eases my mind seeing her name on my phone. It makes me know she's OK and she's happy. I've never been in this position before. I just don't what to do.

well I wish you the best

[Professional Russian]

well I wish you the best

Thanks. It actually means a lot.

[Professional Russian]

***update*** well I sent the popsickles with her dad with a note on the side that said "it may not be much but I know they're your favorite and I also promised them so here they are. Hope they make you a little happier and a little less stressed, enjoy~Bert P.S. Bitches live popsickles." She's at work now so I'm hoping when she sees them she'll text me about them. I thought it was a nice thing to do. I'm exactly annoying her but rather giving her something she wanted and I don't like breaking promises I make. So do you think I did the right thing?