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USMC276
March 22nd, 2015, 10:50 PM
So, basically I had the courage to text this girl I really like and we were having a really good conversation. Anyway we have a senior trip where we go to Disney so we were talking about that and I said we don't have any classes together this year so we should hang out at Disney. She "of course!"
After that, I said "can I ask you one more thing?" and she said "yeah" and I said, "can you take a picture with you, me, and Micky Mouse at Disney with the crying laughing emoji"
Ever since then, she hasn't replied. I sent that about 3 or 4 hours ago at like 8.
Did I f*ck up or is it possible she hasn't checked her phone?
Plane And Simple
March 23rd, 2015, 01:28 AM
I'm sure she hasn't checked her phone yet. Don't over stress this as you'll get paranoid and fuck up then :) One thing you could do as confidence builds up is just ask her to hang out for a chat so you do t have this kind of problems :)
KangarooInMalibu
March 23rd, 2015, 01:31 AM
It could be a number of different reasons. I personally have some friends who wont text me back because they're busy at the moment and do so when they can. I also have some friends who will see the text and accidentally forget about it due to them being busy at the time they see it or because it just slipped their mind. It happens to me all the time where it may take me a while to reply to one of my friend's texts.
I don't think asking this girl to take a picture with you to mark a memorable occasion at Disney to be offensive or weird or anything like that; especially if she replied "of course!" to hang out with you while you're both there. If I were this girl and I replied "of course!" to hanging out at Disney, I definitely wouldn't mind taking a group photo while there to remember the fun time you're going to have.
Good luck & I hope everything goes ok!
Vermilion
March 23rd, 2015, 01:33 AM
Just wait she's reply when she gets a chance
USMC276
March 23rd, 2015, 03:07 PM
Ok, I hope so.
Cause I mean honestly, we had a good conversation and I kind of made her laugh considering the fact she typed a lot of "HAHAHAHA" which honestly i find when people do that are genuinely laughing or at least smiled
also, what if she doesn't reply back? Could that mean bad or should it not be something I'm concerned about?
Uranus
March 23rd, 2015, 03:08 PM
Did you send her another message after then?
Vermilion
March 23rd, 2015, 03:11 PM
Talk to her in person if you can. It could be something happened ,nothing to do with you. She mite be shy
USMC276
March 23rd, 2015, 03:18 PM
well, after like 2 hours, I said Ill see you in school tomorrow and then I went to bed.
Stronk Serb
March 23rd, 2015, 03:50 PM
You sometimes need to stop the messages and go to actual talking. If you need advice on how to break the ice, just ask. I dealt with that. If she is a good person, she will at least give you a reply, maybe she didn't check the ohone as others have suggested
KaraaaHope
March 23rd, 2015, 03:50 PM
I don't know what's up with her but I do know that what you said was really cute :P
USMC276
March 23rd, 2015, 03:57 PM
She's very sweet. I guess there are good reasons as to why she didn't reply.
Luminous
March 23rd, 2015, 04:23 PM
I'm sure there are good reasons she didn't reply, because if not that's a little ridiculous. Asking for that picture is absolutely adorable and if she did get offended, that seems silly to me.
SethfromMI
March 23rd, 2015, 04:35 PM
I am going to assume she just has not had a good opportunity to reply yet. do not fear
Vexste
March 23rd, 2015, 04:45 PM
I myself tend to be a natural worrier, but it usually turns out to be nothing. I'm sure it's fine. There are a million reasons why she might not text back immediately. Life kind of has a way of.... well.... Happening.
USMC276
March 23rd, 2015, 06:29 PM
this relieved a lot of stress. thanks for the input everyone.
but I'm not expecting a reply from her
-merged double post. -Emerald Dream
SethfromMI
March 23rd, 2015, 06:34 PM
but I'm not expecting a reply from her
why do you say that? I know there are a lot of reasons why I may not answer a text right away. even if she doesn't for some reason, it doesn't mean you won;t get to hang out with her
USMC276
March 23rd, 2015, 07:19 PM
that's true, but it would have helped me to fall asleep better at night knowing she replied.
But, I'm happy I talked to her. We was good friends at work with her but i lost contact with her sort of and its upset me lately. I'm happy ill be working with her too again this year.
SethfromMI
March 23rd, 2015, 07:21 PM
that's true, but it would have helped me to fall asleep better at night knowing she replied.
But, I'm happy I talked to her. We was good friends at work with her but i lost contact with her sort of and its upset me lately. I'm happy ill be working with her too again this year.
yea I know. some people are just bad about replying. I can be sometimes
USMC276
March 23rd, 2015, 09:35 PM
ya, but i don't think a girl would do that to a boy she might like.
if she liked me, she probably would have replied
SethfromMI
March 23rd, 2015, 09:54 PM
ya, but i don't think a girl would do that to a boy she might like.
if she liked me, she probably would have replied
is it possible? I guess so. try texting her tomorrow about something else and see what type of response you get
jenni31
March 24th, 2015, 10:26 AM
Both. many times us girls feel pressured and its our way of saying we need some space. So please be patient
USMC276
March 24th, 2015, 04:11 PM
Well, if she never replies back, does that only mean bad? I mean, if she never even initiates a text, does that only mean bad for me?
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