I need help establishing a relationship

[Dogrules23]

I like quite a few people, in my grade (11) and in 9th grade. I am a very shy person and I have told them I liked them via our school's email system. I got one response on the email and another after I asked for an opinion on Facebook. That's as far as I've gone. I have classes with the people that responded too but I'm afraid to talk to them in front of others and ask them out.

[tasminsmith]

like as in fancy or what

[Dogrules23]

As in fancy. (I'm from the U.S.) Do you have any tips?

[Dogrules23]

Anyone?

[Nico11]

Grow some balls, get out there, and ask. How long are you gonna shy away?

[Vermilion]

Just say to them how you feel or ask if you could get to know them better. You need to make the first move to show that you are interested in then.

[Emerald Dream]

Grow some balls, get out there, and ask. How long are you gonna shy away?

Unfortunately, it's not always that easy for some people (including myself).

Not that I condone anything that's considered overly "stalking" - but maybe watch what they are into (in class or on social media) and see if you have a common interest. I've found it's much easier to just start a conversation when two people like the same band or play the same game. I realize the hardest part is just starting the first conversation. Sometimes you will hit it off with someone quickly, and before you know it you will be ok will just a simple thing - like eating lunch together. Don't ever try to rush or force anything - if it doesn't feel right after talking a few times, then it may not be.

[Dogrules23]

Thanks for the help! If you have anything else, feel free to add in any tips.

[DoodleSnap]

Unfortunately, it's not always that easy for some people (including myself).

Not that I condone anything that's considered overly "stalking" - but maybe watch what they are into (in class or on social media) and see if you have a common interest. I've found it's much easier to just start a conversation when two people like the same band or play the same game. I realize the hardest part is just starting the first conversation. Sometimes you will hit it off with someone quickly, and before you know it you will be ok will just a simple thing - like eating lunch together. Don't ever try to rush or force anything - if it doesn't feel right after talking a few times, then it may not be.
^^^This. Try to spark conversation, and keep it natural and flowing. If it doesn't work out; it doesn't work out - life moves on. Keep positive, and be open and social, and I'm sure you will at least have a better understanding of some of the people around you, and maybe even a proper relationship.

Good luck.

[Dogrules23]

^^^This. Try to spark conversation, and keep it natural and flowing. If it doesn't work out; it doesn't work out - life moves on. Keep positive, and be open and social, and I'm sure you will at least have a better understanding of some of the people around you, and maybe even a proper relationship.

Good luck.

Thanks so much!

[CRH99]

id pick one first and then proceed, multiple girls you like is not something you want to get tangled up in

[Syzygy]

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[WanderingHeart]

I just gave up. If you can't get the very best then what's the point.

Could you elaborate on that?

[Syzygy]

Could you elaborate on that?

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[WanderingHeart]

Well if you feel that's the best thing to do...
You think quitting and hiring hookers will satisfy you?

[Syzygy]

Well if you feel that's the best thing to do...
You think quitting and hiring hookers will satisfy you?

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[WanderingHeart]

Why do you have such high standards for girls?

Wait is this off topic are we gonna get in trouble lol