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[dreameresse]

Hey guys I need a little help! So 2 months ago, this guy from another class started chatting with me. We started saying hi when we see each other in the hall and chatting all the time, ha flirted and soon he asked me out, but when we went out nothing happened, he didn't even show that he likes me, so I thought he wasn't interested any more. But at school he looked at me all the time and smiled sometimes, we continued chatting... We went out again to the movies, but it was like the last time, he didn't flirt and it seemed like we were friends. Yesterday we went for a walk, we talked ang laughed, but it was the same thing all over again, seemed like we were just friends. I'm very comfortable with him and like him very much, and obviously he likes me, but why doesn't he say or show anything? What's going on? Does he want to be more than friends or not? Btw, he's neither shy nor inexperienced (while I've never had a boyfriend,so I've got no idea what to do). Thank you :-)

[Vermilion]

When you flirt with him does he flirt back ? If not maybe he just wants to be friends. If you like him and quite sure he likes you just ask.

[Zachary G]

it could be that he likes you as a friend, or it could be that he really likes you but just wants to take things slow with you. who knows. if it is something you really want to know then you should have the talk with him and let him know how you feel and see how he responds. the dumbest question you can ever ask is the one you dont.

[dreameresse]

When you flirt with him does he flirt back ? If not maybe he just wants to be friends. If you like him and quite sure he likes you just ask.

Well this is totally new to me so idk what to do and how to show him my interest,so maybe he thinks I don't want a relationship... My friends claim that he likes me, I caught him staring at me a few times, but I'm so clumsy and confused...

[Vermilion]

Well this is totally new to me so idk what to do and how to show him my interest,so maybe he thinks I don't want a relationship... My friends claim that he likes me, I caught him staring at me a few times, but I'm so clumsy and confused...

I'd say he likes you, I use to stare at my ex and if she look back I'd turn away then watch her look at me. You could try insulting him jokingly and if he does the same back he's probably into you, it's an easy way to the first step. You said he's asked you out before so why don't you ask him out. Clumsy, most boys find sweet so don't worry.

[dreameresse]

I'd say he likes you, I use to stare at my ex and if she look back I'd turn away then watch her look at me. You could try insulting him jokingly and if he does the same back he's probably into you, it's an easy way to the first step. You said he's asked you out before so why don't you ask him out. Clumsy, most boys find sweet so don't worry.
Thanks for your help, I'll see where this goes... I've already asked him out and he said sure, so that's a good start, I'd say :-)

[Vermilion]

No problem I hope it works out for you two :)

[DoodleSnap]

Communication is one of the most important aspects of any relationship; so ask him. Speak to him about how you feel, and understand how he feels too. Try to work out what it is you both want from the relationship going forward, and build from that. Good luck.

[Emerald Dream]

The OP is banned. :locked: