Should I even care?

[MeliWelli]

I never want to be judgey but do not know how to react to finding out my sister regularly has threesomes. I was talking to her about things with my boyfriend and she wanted to know how far we've gone. We were pretty open with each other and she told me. I'm concerned, but another part of me thinks she's a grown up and she knows what she's doing. My parents couldn't stop her even if I told them, but at the same time if something happened I would feel terrible...Is there a right or wrong answer? Am I overreacting?

[Elysium]

Puberty for Girls :arrow: Family and Friends

[ImCoolBeans]

Well unless she's engaging with people she's meeting on the street, people who are dangerous, or destructive in her life, I think it's really not your business to intervene. If you thought she had her life together the day before she told you, and now you think she is a train wreck, then I think you might be overreacting a little bit. I would say she's fine, unless her life is really out of her control. An adult's sex life is really their own business -- she didn't tell you because she wanted your help -- she told you because she wanted to confide in her sister and share something personal with you to make your bond stronger.

[Vermilion]

As long as that what's she wants I won't worry like you said she's grown up. And like ImCoolBeans said if it's people she knows not random people I wouldn't care or say anything.

[paranoidforlife]

Well, honestly, unless she's under the age of consent (varies on location) and they aren't 18+ if she's still a minor (under 18), it's none of yours or anyone else's business.

[JVTeen]

I guess, just constantly remind her about the disadvantages of doing so, and aside from that HIV thing, STD's and whatsoever

[SethfromMI]

if she is an adult, then it is her life to do what she wants to do with it

[Wafflenado]

If that's what she wants her sex life to be like, then more power to her. What she does with her life doesn't concern you or anyone unless it directly relates and/or affects you in some way, which I don't think her having threesomes does.