WHY hasn't he asked me out yet?..

[souphat]

My friend and I are really close, and it's obvious he likes me, and I'm pretty sure it's obvious I like him. It's been like 3 months now... why hasn't he told me he likes me yet?

[Zachary G]

he could be really shy about talking to you about something like that and or he could just be searching for the right words and time to do it. be patient with him and just follow his lead.

[Hyper]

Maybe it's not as obvious as you think? Maybe you are misinterperting something?

Maybe he is just a bit scared to ''make the move''. Just asking ''someone'' out is often a lot easier than asking a friend out, often there's the fear that if you are rejected you also lose a friend.

So maybe be a little unconventional and ask him out yourself.

[dirtyboxer55]

maybe hes not into you or shy

[Melodic]

He's not ready to tell you or in an odd case he doesn't actually like you. But.. you know him better than any of us do, so I would go up and ask him yourself if I was you. It's not weird at all for a girl to make the first move.

[souphat]

ok, so I'll make the first move. Thanks guys. I don't really know how I'll go about it though.

[DoodleSnap]

ok, so I'll make the first move. Thanks guys. I don't really know how I'll go about it though.
I understand your fear, but it is hard for someone not directly involved in the situation to truly judge based off of your retelling alone. Only you know him properly, so speak to him. Communicating is important in any relationship, so ask him what is happening and try to help him feel comfortable enough to reply. It is possible that he does like you, but scared to tell you, or it could be something else - nobody really knows. No one is a mind reader, so the best thing you can do is make your position clear and let him open up un-judged and with no worries. Good luck.

[SethfromMI]

could be many reasons. why don't you make the first move?

[Selestine]

Make your move already! If the guy is too gay then it's up for us girls to make our moves. :)

[Vocabulous]

Guys are fucking clueless to that sort of thing(Source: I am a guy). I've only ever been in one relationship and the only reason I got into it in the first place is because she was the one who asked me out. Go ask him out yourself if you're so keen.

[Pitsirikos]

I believe he is too shy and that you have to make the first move.

[Uranus]

Alot of guys, and girls, are afraid of asking someone out because we are afraid of being rejected. I suggest you make the first move and see what happens from that point.

[NickTheStar]

Confront him