Brotherly Nudity

[Sabercat]

The teenage years are awkward for almost everyone involved because of everything that is going on hormonally and being judged by other people is a big part of that... So here it goes. I live in the basement with my stepbrother and we share a bathroom. Thing is he has been gone for like 6 months off playing hockey. While he has been gone i have been walking to and from the bathroom not a care in the world because nobody would see me, but he comes back tomorrow and I'm wondering what everyone else's opinion is on this, should I cover up? Or continue doing what I'm doing? He plays hockey so its not like he hasn't seen anyone naked before... And i don't really care if he sees me naked. It might take me a while to get used to though from never played any sports and never really changed naked with other guys in the locker room... This is longer than it needs to be but yeah!

By The Way I Am Almost 17 and He Is Almost 19 If That Helps

[ThatRandomGabby]

The decision is entirely up to you. If you're comfortable about your brother seeing you that way, then go for it. Try going nude for one time and see how he reacts, and then continue from there. Although if he is uncomfortable about it though, it would be the best option to stop. :yes:

[Iam_1]

Personally I would at least wear underwear, but I mean if you think he won't flip out then go for it. It's a hard question. Hope this helps .

[Vermilion]

All you can do is try and see how he reacts, I wouldn't be that comfortable with it unless he did the same thing

[sdude]

Considering your ages, I see nothing wrong or that a 19yr old guy would be uncomfortable with another male being nude...You shouldn't be changing your comfort level at this age. You need be upfront, if he says something, tell him "new rules" he's out of there at school, it's your space now! Be the Alpha!!

[Adventure boy]

You could ask him or if there's no lock in your bathroom pretend to walk in if he's in there and if he's naked and doesn't care just like get naked or something

[Zachary G]

The decision is entirely up to you. If you're comfortable about your brother seeing you that way, then go for it. Try going nude for one time and see how he reacts, and then continue from there. Although if he is uncomfortable about it though, it would be the best option to stop. :yes:

Best advice so far, this sounds like the best course of action to take:yeah:

[Hermes]

When you are in a private setting being nude 0or covering up is not so much a matter of right or wrong as what those present, in this case you and your brother, are comfortable with.

You know your brother better that we do but this could be one of the cases where it is easier to beg forgiveness than ask permission. In other words you could just carry on as you have been recently, being nude when it suits you, and see if he says anything. If he doesn't then there is no problem, if he does then you can offer to cover up or start talking about what you are comfortable with.

[SethfromMI]

I think your brother is pretty used to nudity by now. simply ask. if he has any problem, then go at least underwear (if he has a problem with underwear he just needs to get over himself)

[riverboy]

The decision is entirely up to you. If you're comfortable about your brother seeing you that way, then go for it. Try going nude for one time and see how he reacts, and then continue from there. Although if he is uncomfortable about it though, it would be the best option to stop. :yes:

I agree ..

[pjones]

what are you comfortable with? make your choice based on how you feel not on what you think your brother is comfortable with

[the darkness]

You're 16 and he's 18 - what's the problem?

If I was in your position (and had a better body!) I'd just go for it. If he's been away for 6 months he has no idea that you've changed, but it won't be a surprise that you've got more used to just being naked.


Go for it, if he has a problem he'll say about it. I'm sure he'd much prefer to chill naked because it's easier for him as well.

Good luck.

[colesixteen]

I wouldn't worry about it. I am sure he is used to it. My brother and I are very open about being naked in front of each other and even masturbating in front of each other - it is no big deal.

[Baileyy]

The decision is entirely up to you. :)

[pconnor2001]

We are not shy about nudity. At home or in school.

[Tendencies]

I would wear underwear and see how he reacts and if he reacts fine then ask him if it'd be okay to be naked. The worst thing that could happen is he would say he's not comfortable with it and that's that.

[hockeyfan]

If he's comfertable naked in front of u then he won't mind it vice versa. If he hasn't u could ask or just go naked and get his reaction.

[redjar14]

I would ask him.then if he said h he it's ok with it go free!!

[Sabercat]

UPDATE

So I have been walking to my room from the bathroom and just holding my clothes over my junk (Hope I can say that). But the thing is is that he has been in his room watching tv or whatever and hasn't noticed. I will keep you posted on his reaction if he ever sees me.

[RavenR]

Well, even if he noticed, what reaction did you expect? :) I think it is a signal that he doesn´t really care much if you are walking nude or not.

[canadienudist]

you know my answer my friend, just go for it, he showers after hockey, so he sees guys naked anyways, he won't care if he sees you, especially since your brothers.

[Jthompson]

My brother and I share a room, but strangely enough we're never naked in front of each other

[Thomas01]

If anything just say that it's really hot one day and ask if he would mind you getting naked.

Or you could just go about naked and if he ha a problem, he would say so

[SethfromMI]

UPDATE

So I have been walking to my room from the bathroom and just holding my clothes over my junk (Hope I can say that). But the thing is is that he has been in his room watching tv or whatever and hasn't noticed. I will keep you posted on his reaction if he ever sees me.

dude just ask him. if you don't want to then chill in your underwear or whatever. but otherwise, if you want to walk around nude, simply come out and ask. your brothers. it is nothing he has seen before, esp since he is in a locker room regularly for sports

[Sabercat]

dude just ask him. if you don't want to then chill in your underwear or whatever. but otherwise, if you want to walk around nude, simply come out and ask. your brothers. it is nothing he has seen before, esp since he is in a locker room regularly for sports

See. That's the thing. All my life I have never really been upfront with people. Any tips on how to make it easier to ask him? This is the sole reason I don't have a girlfriend. :(

[SethfromMI]

See. That's the thing. All my life I have never really been upfront with people. Any tips on how to make it easier to ask him? This is the sole reason I don't have a girlfriend. :(

that's understandable. you can simply approach him and be like "you know when you were away and I had the room to myself, I was used to being nude more often. I kind of got used to it and if it is alright with you, I would like to continue."

simple, easy, and to the point. like I said, if he says no, stick to underwear (that he really should not have a problem with)

[football matt]

just do it see what he says.

[riverboy]

I agree with Matt. Just do it and see what he says. He might be thinking the same thing you are.

[JVTeen]

Honestly, i find this awkward since your 17 and shouldn't this be not a problem anymore? Though i guess, continue being naked in my opinion haha your both guys, and he doesn't seem to mind. Cover up though, when you see a hard on coming haha

[Sabercat]

Honestly, i find this awkward since your 17 and shouldn't this be not a problem anymore? Though i guess, continue being naked in my opinion haha your both guys, and he doesn't seem to mind. Cover up though, when you see a hard on coming haha

It's not that it weird it's just that I didn't grow up that way. Never changed in locker rooms. Never played sports past middle school. I'm totally open to it though. My point was will he think it's weird that I'm doing it at home and not in a loner room situation. IDK. Hard To Explain.

[rioo]

You just need to make it natural. You can start with sleeping nude but little covered until he realize you want to go completely nude in room. Walking naked after wake up in morning is cool way.

[Sabercat]

Yeah. I sleep naked already and he knows that. Drug me out of bed one morning but I covered with my pillow because I had a boner after waking up. Haha

[Hideous]

I don't think he would care, honestly. If it does bother him, he would have said something. If you're overthinking the situation, then you should just ask him if he's comfortable with you walking around nude.

[JVTeen]

It's not that it weird it's just that I didn't grow up that way. Never changed in locker rooms. Never played sports past middle school. I'm totally open to it though. My point was will he think it's weird that I'm doing it at home and not in a loner room situation. IDK. Hard To Explain.

What do you mean by loner room situation?

[chrisgh]

Stand your ground and do it! If he complains just say I have been doing this for the past 6 months and if he has a problem with it he can move out. You guys are both at an age where it shouldn't be that big of a deal so go for it !

[Sabercat]

What do you mean by loner room situation?

Locker

[eggs2006]

Yeah. I sleep naked already and he knows that. Drug me out of bed one morning but I covered with my pillow because I had a boner after waking up. Haha

That's the most natural thing in the morning to have a boner, although I could see you not wanting him to see it. If it's semi hard after waking up or soft after getting out of the shower, just be naked for brief amounts of time even if he is around and see if he says anything. If he says anything, just say that "you didn't think you had to cover up because you are both guys". Let us know what happens.

[robbymas23]

Me an my (twin) brother are nude around each other all the time. No big deal.
Sometimes we are stiff and have boners, sometimes soft.

[jordanhardy]

I wouldn't worry too much about it if I were you. If you both have a good and relaxed relationship with each other then I doubt he will have an issue.

[radiotoast]

I think, brothers don't have to hide themeselfs from each other

[Lilo45]

i think you should just do it and see what he says

[Sabercat]

UPDATE

Over the weekend, we were pressed for time to leave for breakfast and he had the choice to wait for me to shave and bright my teeth of get in the shower and he chose to get in the shower... So thats a start!

[SethfromMI]

UPDATE

Over the weekend, we were pressed for time to leave for breakfast and he had the choice to wait for me to shave and bright my teeth of get in the shower and he chose to get in the shower... So thats a start!

well I don't think the question was about brief moments of nudity, but hanging out naked. he has showered with his team naked so many times he is not going to think about that. I guess it could be a sign in the right direction, but I think it is easier to either talk about it, do it and sees what he says, or be naked when you have to and wear at least underwear the rest of the time or a pair of shorts over it

[the darkness]

UPDATE

Over the weekend, we were pressed for time to leave for breakfast and he had the choice to wait for me to shave and bright my teeth of get in the shower and he chose to get in the shower... So thats a start!

If he's pulled you out of bed and he's done that, just carry on walking around naked!

Clearly he's comfortable if he jumped in the shower, and if he says anything just be like "Well we both have the same junk and you were in the shower one morning so I didn't think you minded?"

Honestly mate, just stop overthinking it so much and enjoy being naked!:)

[Scott10111]

But now do you want to be naked around your bro because you like being naked around others or because you just wanna be naked in your room whenever you want?

[Mercy99]

as long as both of u are comfortable with it then go ahead

[Dreamer98]

It's your decision . But whatever you chose to do , consult with your step brother . Maybe he doesn't like nudism ..

[jacshamy]

The teenage years are awkward for almost everyone involved because of everything that is going on hormonally and being judged by other people is a big part of that... So here it goes. I live in the basement with my stepbrother and we share a bathroom. Thing is he has been gone for like 6 months off playing hockey. While he has been gone i have been walking to and from the bathroom not a care in the world because nobody would see me, but he comes back tomorrow and I'm wondering what everyone else's opinion is on this, should I cover up? Or continue doing what I'm doing? He plays hockey so its not like he hasn't seen anyone naked before... And i don't really care if he sees me naked. It might take me a while to get used to though from never played any sports and never really changed naked with other guys in the locker room... This is longer than it needs to be but yeah!

By The Way I Am Almost 17 and He Is Almost 19 If That Helps

Just tell him how you do it now and ask him if he's cool with it. He probably won't care. If it's just me and my brother in the house we'll go naked to the bathroom and back. It isn't sexual to us. just convenient and comfortable.

[Hermes]

I'd agree completely with what the darkness said.

If you want to analyse it consider the time he pulled you out of bed. He knows you sleep naked so when he did that he knew he would see you naked. At the very minimum he wasn't bothered by the prospect and was more interested in the horseplay.

Then in the shower was obviously not worried about you seeing him naked.

So clearly he thinks being naked is natural and nothing to be embarassed about and maybe even something to be enjoyed. Just go for it.

[teenpeck52]

Sounds like you are all set, I don't think that it is that big of deal my older brother has seen me naked, and I have seen him. he never made a big deal about it.

[mychalo]

I have 4 brothers, share a bedroom with 2 and we all share the same bathroom. Seeing some of them naked happens everyday. It doesn't bother any of us.

[paletanner]

Just tell him how you do it now and ask him if he's cool with it. He probably won't care. If it's just me and my brother in the house we'll go naked to the bathroom and back. It isn't sexual to us. just convenient and comfortable.

lol yup! totally shameless! :P:D

[Snydergate]

Go for it if you feel comfortable doing it, if I was yur step bro I personally wouldn't mind

[Coleton]

I say keep doing what you're doing. I'm almost 100% sure that he won't mind seeing you nude. I don't care if I see any guys naked. We all have a dick, it's not like we don't know they exist and other guys have them.

[jjjohnson248]

If he plays hockey, he's probably used to it. I play lacrosse and shower and see teammates naked all the time. It isn't a big deal and your family so if he got in the shower, then he's probably cool with it

[Crona]

i think you should go for it hes a guy you both have dicks its not like hes seeing anything he hasnt seen a million times before, on himself and in the locker room for hockey hes probably comfortable with it so if youre comfortable too then there shouldnt be a problem good luck dude

[Bluebyrd]

Ask him about it and see if he'd be comfortable with it first

[Gopher]

I used to and still dop change in front of my family members, i have since i can remember, just try it and youll get used to it.

[Airrd]

my family hasn't seen me naked in a long time but if I had a brother who was close to my age I wouldn't have a problem with it but yeah it's important to ask beforehand so no one gets freaked out lol

[herokidd]

I think you should just try it once like a couple said. If he feels uncomfortable then Cover up but if not then keep doing it

[gig-guy]

UPDATE

Over the weekend, we were pressed for time to leave for breakfast and he had the choice to wait for me to shave and bright my teeth of get in the shower and he chose to get in the shower... So thats a start!

Sooooooo do you have any more updates?

[badblood]

Well she is your brother, she have a penis...

[Colton8]

Stay naked he won't care

[Ratman1234]

Try and see what he says

[Zerg]

See how he reacts, if he doesn't react then continue, be comfortable

[Drewboyy]

It sounds fine to me. Just do it

[brightlight]

I wouldn't do that just because you never know how he might react and he might not have the same opinion on certain things

[fandom_king]

Keep being naked. He won't care. My brothers and I see each other naked frequently. Just do what you want

[Sickkboi]

I don't think it matters at all. You guys are both old enough. I would just let him know my plans. He should be comfortable being that he plays hockey and sees guys naked as you mentioned.

[ejpete]

You've gotta see yourself naked before right? And if not your brothers. It's fine its family. Maybe he'll do the same things since he's been use to be naked around dude for the past 6 months.

[bswain98]

Personally, I would go with what you feel is most comfortable and makes you happy! I am sure, being 19, he would not mind being naked at all. It would be a rare case if he did.
Also, with you two being in the basement, it could open up a lot more freedom. A lot of people feel most comfortable naked. Maybe it could lead to you and him breaking down boundaries and being able to spend a lot more time in your birthday suits!

[ejpete]

Personally, I would go with what you feel is most comfortable and makes you happy! I am sure, being 19, he would not mind being naked at all. It would be a rare case if he did.
Also, with you two being in the basement, it could open up a lot more freedom. A lot of people feel most comfortable naked. Maybe it could lead to you and him breaking down boundaries and being able to spend a lot more time in your birthday suits!

Do build on this. You could also tear down the akward masturbation barrier.

[karl1999]

me and my brother have never been shy about being naked together.
yeah -we both have a penis -not a deal

[Jaseblader]

The teenage years are awkward for almost everyone involved because of everything that is going on hormonally and being judged by other people is a big part of that... So here it goes. I live in the basement with my stepbrother and we share a bathroom. Thing is he has been gone for like 6 months off playing hockey. While he has been gone i have been walking to and from the bathroom not a care in the world because nobody would see me, but he comes back tomorrow and I'm wondering what everyone else's opinion is on this, should I cover up? Or continue doing what I'm doing? He plays hockey so its not like he hasn't seen anyone naked before... And i don't really care if he sees me naked. It might take me a while to get used to though from never played any sports and never really changed naked with other guys in the locker room... This is longer than it needs to be but yeah!

By The Way I Am Almost 17 and He Is Almost 19 If That Helps

The decision is entirely up to you. If you're comfortable about your brother seeing you that way, then go for it. Try going nude for one time and see how he reacts, and then continue from there. Although if he is uncomfortable about it though, it would be the best option to stop. :yes:
yep,and he may be used to it but he may not like it he doesn't really have a choice with hockey

[Michael819]

I think its ok for him because he is in the hockey team

[lucaboy]

Sorry, I still don´t see the problem? You are both boys, he is even your (step-)brother, and you are one family. What on earth is the issue with it? I wouldn´t even give a thought, to being naked in front of my brother. It is the most normal thing on the world, isn´t it? I don´t even bother if my buddies see me naked at home, and vice versa. Are you really so shy where you live, even in your own family?

[Emerald Dream]

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