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Areus
April 5th, 2008, 02:43 PM
There's this girl in my school that I like and everything, and we know each other well, but then I tried asking her out and she said no. We're still good friends though, and she blamed her saying no partly on the fact that she thinks she's too young...
The point is, I still like her, and recently I've been receiving "signs" that tell me she might actually like me, for example she seems to prefer my company to any other girls, and usually girls just hang out with girls in my school. There are other things, too, but I'm just wondering if there's a chance she might actually like me, or if I should just give up on her.

dudesweet101
April 5th, 2008, 02:50 PM
Nah dont give up. Just wait for a really big sign before you ask her again. Just dont get trapt in the friend zone it sucks.

Bobby
April 5th, 2008, 02:51 PM
None of us can really tell we don't know. Don't give up though...just take a chance.

Oblivion
April 5th, 2008, 03:16 PM
If you ask her out again... Eh? whats the worst that can happen! She'll say no and you'll still be friends like before! But don't ask her like a million times then it might be considered harassment... I would says stop after 3 times asking her unless she says try again ina couple years xP

Areus
April 6th, 2008, 10:56 AM
O.K., thanks everyone. I'll take your advice into account, and mostly I think I'll just wait until I think the time is right.

Trampster
April 6th, 2008, 10:58 AM
The female; the most mysterious creature D:

Anyways, I'd say, being female myself - write her a letter; so she can't interrupt you. In this letter, you can explain how you feel, why you'd like your relationship to step up a notch.

:)

Close102
April 6th, 2008, 01:43 PM
dont go go crazy about it. im in the same position except after i asked the girl out we wernt the greatest friends. but now we are good friends again and she hangs out with me alot to. so my advicce to you would be to wait for something big and sense you already asked her out she knows u are interested in her so just make sure she still nos that and when she is ready you willl know.

NextToNormal
April 6th, 2008, 08:56 PM
dont give up on this yet. if you hang in there, you never know what will happen with time. giving up just closes a lot of opportunities...trust me.

Areus
April 7th, 2008, 11:36 PM
Yeah, thanks again, everyone, I think your advice will really help. I've tried getting advice from my friends at school, but they're no help, as one of them thinks I should give up altogether, one knows nothing at all about this sort of thing, and one attempts to throttle me every time I so much as mention her name. (I don't blame her, though, I do talk about her a lot...) But today seemed promising. She was laughing a lot when I talked, hanging out with me, and she actually sat next to me at an assembly!!! She's never actually done that before...
Well everyone's advice is appreciated, and thank you, again, for the third time!!!

dmeek7
April 8th, 2008, 04:32 PM
naw dont give up. the same things happening to me and i dont ever whant to give up

Nihilus
April 8th, 2008, 10:40 PM
DOOOOOOO NNNNNOOOOOOOTTTTT GGGGIIIIIVVVVEEEE UUUPPP!!!!
just be your self until shes ready:D:D

whowants2know
April 15th, 2008, 05:36 PM
yeh be urself and tell us if you get her or not k? :)

bbychop
April 15th, 2008, 06:01 PM
i agree with mainly what is said above, be yourself and also give her the note.
some girls would rather figure out themselves before getting involved with someone else, so keep that in mind.
i wish you luck though.