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thatcountrykid
March 18th, 2015, 10:25 PM
..i need you help folks!

Thats right i need help! so what i did was i asked a guy from my explorer post to talk me up to a girl he goes to school with ad i like and work with. well he talked to her and this is what he told me.

"So basically she said it was interesting that you(Me) liked her. later, we started talking about you and your work and when i asked her about you(Me) she said that it was weird that you liked her . also she said it was weird as due to her inability to realize how her love life works."

i under stand the way he wrote it was kinda hard to understand but its confusing to me anyway. Should i bring it up next i see her or just kinda hint that i like her and if so how? ive had bad luck and missed opportunities before and i dont want to screw up this.
Horatio Nelson
March 18th, 2015, 10:38 PM
Sorry, but that was really hard to read.


From what I can tell, she's not interested. Which, isn't a bad thing. Not everyone is just gonna fall in love with you.

Do you know her very well? Because I could see how that'd be kind of weird if you've never talked to her before.
thatcountrykid
March 18th, 2015, 10:55 PM
Sorry, but that was really hard to read.


From what I can tell, she's not interested. Which, isn't a bad thing. Not everyone is just gonna fall in love with you.

Do you know her very well? Because I could see how that'd be kind of weird if you've never talked to her before.

i just quoted as it was sent to me :/

well yeah i dont expect that to happen id just like a chance

yeah i know her from work and i talk to her when i get the chance. never outside though i havent asked for her number and cant find her on social media
Horatio Nelson
March 18th, 2015, 11:02 PM
Seems like your friend isn't much a help. Honestly, just walk up to her and tell her straight. Be confident in yourself. What's the worst that can happen?
CreativeUsername
March 19th, 2015, 12:48 AM
It seems like the secret is out, so you should just talk to her bits a hard thing to do, but sometimes it's what must be done. If you like her and she knows, you don't have much to lose by talking to her.
ImCoolBeans
March 19th, 2015, 10:31 PM
Seems like your friend isn't much a help. Honestly, just walk up to her and tell her straight. Be confident in yourself. What's the worst that can happen?

In my experience this is usually the best course of action. Confidence is key -- girls like it -- and like Zach said the worst thing that can happen is that she'll say no.
SethfromMI
March 19th, 2015, 10:47 PM
it might be best to just try to approach her yourself. depending how well you know her already, you may want to try to develop more of a friendship before you go for the dating route. it can depend on the girl though
thatcountrykid
March 20th, 2015, 02:11 PM
Well I'm going to work in a couple hours so we'll see how she acts around me
Nico11
March 21st, 2015, 03:44 AM
Seems like your friend isn't much a help. Honestly, just walk up to her and tell her straight. Be confident in yourself. What's the worst that can happen?

I totally agree. You have to be confident. Go up to her and be straight.
Abhorrence
March 21st, 2015, 05:39 AM
It's better not to have somebody else talk to someone you like, it's generally a thing you see in primary school playgrounds. :P
thatcountrykid
March 21st, 2015, 09:03 AM
It's better not to have somebody else talk to someone you like, it's generally a thing you see in primary school playgrounds. :P

Yeah I never told him to tell her I like her. I just said hey you should've toon me sometime or something like that and being ehonhe is he told her
Abhorrence
March 21st, 2015, 09:15 AM
Yeah I never told him to tell her I like her. I just said hey you should've toon me sometime or something like that and being ehonhe is he told her

Ah okay, that's kind of a bad move on his part then :/
AbyssalLight7
March 22nd, 2015, 01:41 AM
As has been said you have nothing to loose by asking her directly, and people's personalities vary greatly, but to me that seems she's dropping a strong hint that she does not like you but doesn't want to be direct because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings, but I could very well be wrong
Vexste
March 22nd, 2015, 02:32 AM
that's a tough one. but I think just telling her would be best, since she already seems to know.
DoodleSnap
March 22nd, 2015, 05:47 PM
In my experience this is usually the best course of action. Confidence is key -- girls like it -- and like Zach said the worst thing that can happen is that she'll say no.
^^^Good advice. Being honest and clear is a good trait, and even if she doesn't want to be in a relationship right now, she will appreciate the honesty and confidence.