Friend messing around (both of us are boys)

[LightlyBwoi]

Hi.
I've got a friend I met a few years ago. He's 14 and I'm 15. We started to spend time together and after some time, he started to mess around with me. He was doing it more and more, becoming more confident in what he's doing.
The "messing around" involves in making sex noises when he's with me somewhere or even humping me or an object or pretending to be "fapping".

I know most of you, including I think that this is just pure fun and he's just messing about, but he's doing it quite often and he even interacts with me, sometimes touching me or jokingly saying to take our pants off, you know, stuff like that, I lately started to play along with it and he seemed to like it.

I, personally, consider myself a bisexual male, I'm very curious about both genders and he, as I know considers himself straight, but it just seems like he's interested in something.

He seems to be very shy.
What could it possibly mean? What does he want?

[tret123]

Don't ask him out! Just keep it sexual... Make friends with benefits

[LightlyBwoi]

I don't mean ask him out, as in, ask him to be my boyfriend hahahahaha, I made it look wrong, I meant to say, like, ask him about what he's trying to accomplish.

[tret123]

I don't understand then...

[LightlyBwoi]

I can't send PMs. What I tried to say is that if I should ask him what he wants to do.

[Baileyy]

Hi there LightlyBwoi!

So many people have this person in their life, especially boy around the age that y ou probably are! Boys get curious, a lot of boys, and yes, I see what you are thinking about asking him!

I think, if you are close enough, then you should perhaps try and drop your own subtle hints back to him when he suggests stuff. If he seems to go along with that, then perhaps talk to him and perhaps you can gain a friend with benefits.

With this, though, make sure to tread carefully! Ultimately, you don't want to lose a friend!

[SethfromMI]

you can see if he is interested in possibly experimenting with you

[Straya]

act back with him somemore and see where things go

[LightlyBwoi]

Thanks for your help.

[Abhorrence]

TBH, he's probably just immature...

[LightlyBwoi]

Well, I've noticed he looks at my crotch a lot and he sometimes touches my leg gently sliding his hand on my skin. I think he wants to experiment but is too shy :p

[Noody]

Sounds like he is just experimenting - But I'm not too sure about your post saying he's shy, haha! If any of my friends did that I'd 1. Enjoy it and 2. Not think they are shy! :p

[Pat the Bunny]

To be honest I don't really think he wants to fool around with you. I do the same thing (messing around, sliding up peoples legs, placing my hand on their crotch, pretend to be fapping, telling them to take their pants off), but I just do it for fun, and to see how far I can go till people get really uncomfortable.


Then again, maybe he is curious. I dunno.

[LightlyBwoi]

Well, he does seem like he's into something, he often looks at my bulge and he sometimes tries to take my pants off and my bed cover when we're on a sleepover.

[Zachary G]

Hi there LightlyBwoi!

So many people have this person in their life, especially boy around the age that y ou probably are! Boys get curious, a lot of boys, and yes, I see what you are thinking about asking him!

I think, if you are close enough, then you should perhaps try and drop your own subtle hints back to him when he suggests stuff. If he seems to go along with that, then perhaps talk to him and perhaps you can gain a friend with benefits.

With this, though, make sure to tread carefully! Ultimately, you don't want to lose a friend!

I agree with Pokebails, hes put it pretty simply and seems to know what hes saying here.

[Iam_1]

Don't ask him out. That could turn into a very awkward situation. I've been in the exact same situation and I get you. I would play along just enough to not make it overly awkward but have fun. If he gets uncomfortable then you know that he might really just be joking. If you guys are really close then just play along. Who knows, he might open up.

[LightlyBwoi]

I didn't mean to ask him out, I said it wrong :p

[pjones]

he might just be curious or maybe attracted to you. if he continues to act the same way and your ok with it, flirt a little and see what his response is.

[ChaosEarthquake]

You could play along with him and do that, and see if he gets a boner. ;)

Or you could just play along and do whatever he says, "take off your pants", and you willingly do. ;) That'll surprise him!

[riverboy]

You could play along with him and do that, and see if he gets a boner. ;)

Or you could just play along and do whatever he says, "take off your pants", and you willingly do. ;) That'll surprise him!

Another way to be is if he says take off your pants say you will if he does. Maybe being suttle isn't the way to go with your friend since it sounds like he isn't suttle with you.

[RavenR]

I think he is just curious or maybe confused. He muy be telling everyone that he is straight but probably he has some doubts. Anyway, I think with time the situation will get clearer. And do you feel attracted to him?

[DoodleSnap]

I can't say for sure (not personally knowing him), but it sounds like he is curious about experimenting with you, and is trying to rationalise the slightly uncertain (for him) situation by making it out to be a joke. I know people who have done the same thing (to others), and turned out to be wanting to experiment. Make of that what you will, but make sure that you don't let him get scared by the whole idea of a different sexuality to the one that he labels himself as.