Alexwellace
March 17th, 2015, 01:35 PM
I like my brother, and while he isn't a bad guy, he is a terrible person. He is the kind of person that if you give him an inch he will take a mile. The kind of person that will always think of himself first before everyone else and will always make sure he is on top of every decision he makes, usually to the detriment of someone else.
He is 22 years old and recently moved back into my house after breaking up with his girl friend (The mother of his child) and he is being so disrespectful to the household it makes me sick. After my lovely Sister went abroad for university (In Barbados!) we set aside her old childish room and the Me and my Mom spent a lot of time and money to turn it into a wonderful bedroom for when she comes home. My Brother got kicked out of his Girlfriends first. Not wanting to turn him away, my Mom reluctantly let him have the room. He has ruined it, it smells of weed all the time and the linen drapes ripped down after the first time he crashed home drunk. And when my Sister came home for Christmas, of course, it was me who had to give up my room for her so i slept in the down stairs hall for 4 weeks.
He is so disrespectful to my mother, he absolutely wont pay more then £50 rent a week and he rarely even pays that, knowing that my Mom wont go through with threats to kick him out. That £50 by the way covers the enormas amount of food he eats (doesn't buy, just eats) and the ''maid'' service my Mom provides him with cooked meals and laundry. He stumbles in late, usually with a new 'partner' every other night and he shags her loudly on the air bed downstairs, then leaves early for work and expects ME to put the air bed down and take the blankets (Eww...) upstairs, because he never does it and leaves it in the middle of our family room. He isn't even there on the 2 days a week he would get to spend with his Son, he picks him up and drops him off at our house then goes out. No thank you, never a thank you.
I don't know how to let my Mom know she is being walked all over. He is taking everything and giving nothing back. The worst part is, as i mentioned, he isn't a malicious person. Everything he does he does because that what he is, no thought but for himself. I don't want him kicked out, but i want him to pull his wait and not make me and her clean up after him.
Is it possible to change someones entire nature?
He is 22 years old and recently moved back into my house after breaking up with his girl friend (The mother of his child) and he is being so disrespectful to the household it makes me sick. After my lovely Sister went abroad for university (In Barbados!) we set aside her old childish room and the Me and my Mom spent a lot of time and money to turn it into a wonderful bedroom for when she comes home. My Brother got kicked out of his Girlfriends first. Not wanting to turn him away, my Mom reluctantly let him have the room. He has ruined it, it smells of weed all the time and the linen drapes ripped down after the first time he crashed home drunk. And when my Sister came home for Christmas, of course, it was me who had to give up my room for her so i slept in the down stairs hall for 4 weeks.
He is so disrespectful to my mother, he absolutely wont pay more then £50 rent a week and he rarely even pays that, knowing that my Mom wont go through with threats to kick him out. That £50 by the way covers the enormas amount of food he eats (doesn't buy, just eats) and the ''maid'' service my Mom provides him with cooked meals and laundry. He stumbles in late, usually with a new 'partner' every other night and he shags her loudly on the air bed downstairs, then leaves early for work and expects ME to put the air bed down and take the blankets (Eww...) upstairs, because he never does it and leaves it in the middle of our family room. He isn't even there on the 2 days a week he would get to spend with his Son, he picks him up and drops him off at our house then goes out. No thank you, never a thank you.
I don't know how to let my Mom know she is being walked all over. He is taking everything and giving nothing back. The worst part is, as i mentioned, he isn't a malicious person. Everything he does he does because that what he is, no thought but for himself. I don't want him kicked out, but i want him to pull his wait and not make me and her clean up after him.
Is it possible to change someones entire nature?