Friends attractiveness?

[AustMan]

Hey straight guys, have you ever gain random feelings for a friend like out of the blue? I have and I feel really wrong about it. But he also acted like,the same way. But witty a look and how he jokes around with me. I know that there's been posts like this but I just gotta ask.
Any advice?

What would you do?

Should I feel wrong for this?

Any questions for me that would help you help me haha

******* And if you not straight you can awnser too ********
¡NEED HELP!

[otaku1998]

The same thing happen to me, I started feeling that way about a friend... well in the end I figured out I was bi... sadly I have not told him how I feel, all he knows is I'm bi..

So no it's not wrong at all.

What to do figure out how to tell him. Not sure how to tell you to go about doing that. Since I find myself unable to do the same.

[deltadart]

I know how you feel, I can honestly say I have had the same feelings about my friend. I don't think its wrong, just be sure that whatever you feel doesn't mess up the already resisting relationship with your friend. As we all are teens and our age most likely influences these kinds of thoughts, I personally would proceed with caution in this situation because you never know, these feelings may go away when we get older.

[Michael75]

It happens everyone, for a while I thought I was 100% bi because I wanted to suck my friends dick sooo bad, but its just hormones as I'm over it :)

[ChaosEarthquake]

It happens to everyone because of puberty. :)

[ImCoolBeans]

I think you might get more relevant answers in the sexuality section.

P101 :arrow: Teen Sexuality and Gender

[Vermilion]

You shouldn't feel wrong for it, it's really common. The feeling may fade over time or may get stronger
Only time will tell.

[Noody]

Hey straight guys, have you ever gain random feelings for a friend like out of the blue? I have and I feel really wrong about it. But he also acted like,the same way. But witty a look and how he jokes around with me. I know that there's been posts like this but I just gotta ask.
Any advice?

What would you do?

Should I feel wrong for this?

Any questions for me that would help you help me haha

******* And if you not straight you can awnser too ********
¡NEED HELP!

Please remember that sexuality is NOT BINARY. Everyone loves everyone on a different scale. I have a friend who is completely straight (to my knowledge, he is in a pretty good relationship with a girl atm) but we hug and hang out quite a lot. That doesn't mean he's gay, it just means that he is not anti-hugging guys etc.

It's hard to get accross what I really mean, sorry about that.. But if there's anything to take away from this, that is that it is completely normal to be attracted to guys and girls - Or anyone of any sex for that matter of fact! Just be yourself :)

Hope I helped 8)

-Noody

[DoodleSnap]

Please remember that sexuality is NOT BINARY. Everyone loves everyone on a different scale. I have a friend who is completely straight (to my knowledge, he is in a pretty good relationship with a girl atm) but we hug and hang out quite a lot. That doesn't mean he's gay, it just means that he is not anti-hugging guys etc.

It's hard to get accross what I really mean, sorry about that.. But if there's anything to take away from this, that is that it is completely normal to be attracted to guys and girls - Or anyone of any sex for that matter of fact! Just be yourself :)

Hope I helped 8)

-Noody
Yeah, finding out what you like and feel comfortable with sexually is much more important than conforming to or worrying about a certain label. People like to make things out to be black or white, and try to fit people into boxes, but people are nearly always grey; somewhere on a spectrum. I used to think I was straight, but found myself liking guys more and more, and only after a few months did I come to terms with the fact I might be somewhere else on the spectrum than I initially guessed. My point is, use whatever label you like, and just enjoy being attracted to who you are attracted to. Don't let your label define you, and don't worry about someone's gender if you feel for them; just let it happen naturally. Good luck.

[Landbuscus97]

Same situation! So, the only advice I could give you would be to come out first no matter what! Learning a friend of yours isn't straight is enough to think about, so be sure to give at least a month's buffer between telling him about your sexuality/feelings towards the same sex before moving on to your feelings for him specifically.

[SethfromMI]

it happens and no I do not feel wrong. I try not to think on them too much since I am dating (so occasionally I guess I do feel wrong) but that being said it is normal and you shouldn't feel bad