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jdukecantcm
March 15th, 2015, 11:44 AM
Ok look so I have this friend who is a year older than me. Recently we were together and he kept saying "OO let me suck you" and touching me and stuff. I know like a lot of guys act like that joking but like he kept doing it and doing it. We aren't close or anything and I think he's bi or curious. He's fit tan and so hot but like should I ask if he wants to do anything ? In the past LIKE HE would rub my dick at sleep overs but again "jokingly " but idk and we watch porn together. But IM Just really confused rn. Should I ask if he wants ? Should I do anything? Should I play along and see what happens? Just help me please !

Vermilion
March 15th, 2015, 12:05 PM
I'd play along if you comfortable with it and see what happens. If your not comfortable with it say something.

Troy35216
March 15th, 2015, 12:07 PM
I don't understand the confusion. if you want him to suck your dick, let him. if you don't want him to suck your dick, don't let him.

Zachary G
March 15th, 2015, 03:32 PM
I would play along just to see how far he takes it, and if you are comfortable with it then just let it progress to whatever its going to progress to.

I don't understand the confusion. if you want him to suck your dick, let him. if you don't want him to suck your dick, don't let him.

this is a pretty simple answer as well.

Michael75
March 15th, 2015, 03:34 PM
Like Troy35216 said, if you want him to suck your dick, let him. if you don't want him to suck your dick, don't let him.

Seth Green
March 15th, 2015, 03:56 PM
If you want him, I would definitely go along with it.

pjones
March 15th, 2015, 05:53 PM
only if you are comfortable, let him do it if he asks again. you might have a good time

Noody
March 15th, 2015, 06:02 PM
Ok look so I have this friend who is a year older than me. Recently we were together and he kept saying "OO let me suck you" and touching me and stuff. I know like a lot of guys act like that joking but like he kept doing it and doing it. We aren't close or anything and I think he's bi or curious. He's fit tan and so hot but like should I ask if he wants to do anything ? In the past LIKE HE would rub my dick at sleep overs but again "jokingly " but idk and we watch porn together. But IM Just really confused rn. Should I ask if he wants ? Should I do anything? Should I play along and see what happens? Just help me please !

Honestly, In my opinion - Don't do it unless you are planning a long term commitment. I have "played around" with a friend or two back when I was 13-14. I now have nothing to do with either one of them - Although the other I am in the same class with. Whenever he wants me to do something he practically blackmails me with what we did. Unless you are planning a long term relationship with your friend, I wouldn't do that. But hey, I guess I'm biased based on my demons. Whatever you do, play safe.

Canadian Dream
March 15th, 2015, 07:01 PM
Maybe play along, or if you're really willing to experiment just ask him at a sleepover or what not. I find I enjoyed that sort of stuff but it's up to you, just do whatever feels comfortable.

tret123
March 15th, 2015, 08:12 PM
Would you get hard when he rubbed your dick? If you want it, let it happen

SethfromMI
March 15th, 2015, 09:07 PM
I don't understand the confusion. if you want him to suck your dick, let him. if you don't want him to suck your dick, don't let him.

some of the best advice. never do anything you dont want to do, but if you want him to and he wants to, then let it be

Baileyy
March 15th, 2015, 09:14 PM
I'd play along if you comfortable with it and see what happens. If your not comfortable with it say something.

This guy rocks the best advice! :)

robbymas23
March 15th, 2015, 10:09 PM
Ok look so I have this friend who is a year older than me. Recently we were together and he kept saying "OO let me suck you" and touching me and stuff. I know like a lot of guys act like that joking but like he kept doing it and doing it. We aren't close or anything and I think he's bi or curious. He's fit tan and so hot but like should I ask if he wants to do anything ? In the past LIKE HE would rub my dick at sleep overs but again "jokingly " but idk and we watch porn together. But IM Just really confused rn. Should I ask if he wants ? Should I do anything? Should I play along and see what happens? Just help me please !

If you're not comfortable and don't want to fool around with him, don't do it - just be honest and tell him.
But if you are attracted to him and curious .. . . I'd GO FOR IT! :)

Straya
March 16th, 2015, 01:58 AM
Ok look so I have this friend who is a year older than me. Recently we were together and he kept saying "OO let me suck you" and touching me and stuff. I know like a lot of guys act like that joking but like he kept doing it and doing it. We aren't close or anything and I think he's bi or curious. He's fit tan and so hot but like should I ask if he wants to do anything ? In the past LIKE HE would rub my dick at sleep overs but again "jokingly " but idk and we watch porn together. But IM Just really confused rn. Should I ask if he wants ? Should I do anything? Should I play along and see what happens? Just help me please !

yea play along man if thats what you want, you got nothing to loose

Hermes
March 16th, 2015, 08:08 AM
There seem to be two questions here:

1. Is your friend indicating he may be up for some sexual fun?

2. If so should you take him up on that?

I think the answer to no. 1 is probably yes. No-one can tell you whether you should want to have some fun with someone else. If you are comfortable with it and would enjoy it then why not? If you'd feel awkard and regret it then don't do it.

GoGoDiego
March 16th, 2015, 09:33 AM
If your comfortable with it, go with it. If not, talk it over. Good luck with that!

ChaosEarthquake
March 16th, 2015, 11:34 AM
Puberty is about testing things, so test it if you want.
If you like it, then continue. If not, just stop and just masturbate together, but not touching. :)

vboy
March 16th, 2015, 03:40 PM
Do what u want to do
If ur not comfortable then man up and say so

riverboy
March 16th, 2015, 06:39 PM
I'd play along if you comfortable with it and see what happens. If your not comfortable with it say something.

don't be forced to do anything you don't want to do.

Iam_1
March 20th, 2015, 12:01 AM
Like most people said already, just play along and see what happens. He might take it further if you guys are close and comfortable . Have fun and good luck .

sdude
March 20th, 2015, 07:44 AM
That's why they call it "exploring" nothing ventured, nothing, well.....have fun!

Adventure boy
March 20th, 2015, 07:48 AM
Ok look so I have this friend who is a year older than me. Recently we were together and he kept saying "OO let me suck you" and touching me and stuff. I know like a lot of guys act like that joking but like he kept doing it and doing it. We aren't close or anything and I think he's bi or curious. He's fit tan and so hot but like should I ask if he wants to do anything ? In the past LIKE HE would rub my dick at sleep overs but again "jokingly " but idk and we watch porn together. But IM Just really confused rn. Should I ask if he wants ? Should I do anything? Should I play along and see what happens? Just help me please !

Your so so lucky I wish my friend did that just say do you want to hang at my house for a guys night and stuff say there's like food and games etc they at night you guys can have fun pm me if you have any questions

KING_OF _99
March 23rd, 2015, 02:13 AM
Allgood let him suck you off. A blowjobs a blowjob male or female.

TSUNAMI
March 23rd, 2015, 07:52 PM
yes you can ask him if he wants to do anything

hockeyfan
March 23rd, 2015, 10:44 PM
Talk about guys that experiment and get his reaction. If he says its disgusting than u know he's not interested.

Hideous
March 24th, 2015, 04:15 AM
If you're comfortable with him touching your penis "jokingly" then you should ask him, since it seems like he's pretty comfortable.

chrisgh
March 24th, 2015, 09:47 AM
Just see where it goes sometimes people may be str8 and joke like that but most of the time when they are doing all that they really want to do that and are serious. I think he's just trying to play it off as a joke just in case you don't want it he doesn't want to make things awkward between you two

Lskillz
March 24th, 2015, 01:58 PM
Ok look so I have this friend who is a year older than me. Recently we were together and he kept saying "OO let me suck you" and touching me and stuff. I know like a lot of guys act like that joking but like he kept doing it and doing it. We aren't close or anything and I think he's bi or curious. He's fit tan and so hot but like should I ask if he wants to do anything ? In the past LIKE HE would rub my dick at sleep overs but again "jokingly " but idk and we watch porn together. But IM Just really confused rn. Should I ask if he wants ? Should I do anything? Should I play along and see what happens? Just help me please !

I would just ask him I did the Same thing with my friend and I got it round by saying we should play truth or dare and just slowly getting more sexual

Adventure boy
May 1st, 2015, 04:17 AM
Ok look so I have this friend who is a year older than me. Recently we were together and he kept saying "OO let me suck you" and touching me and stuff. I know like a lot of guys act like that joking but like he kept doing it and doing it. We aren't close or anything and I think he's bi or curious. He's fit tan and so hot but like should I ask if he wants to do anything ? In the past LIKE HE would rub my dick at sleep overs but again "jokingly " but idk and we watch porn together. But IM Just really confused rn. Should I ask if he wants ? Should I do anything? Should I play along and see what happens? Just help me please !

So at sleepovers you jut lie down and he just rubs your dick does he put his hand on your dick and just rub it and for how long ?

mwatkins
May 20th, 2015, 04:16 PM
Only do see things with someone if YOU want to

Dreamer98
May 20th, 2015, 04:31 PM
I don't understand the confusion. if you want him to suck your dick, let him. if you don't want him to suck your dick, don't let him.

Well said . :D
I have nothing more to add . :D

Slashman1
May 20th, 2015, 11:45 PM
go for it ask him if he is serious and if you want him to then let him

Bluebyrd
May 23rd, 2015, 07:16 PM
If you are willing to do it then I don't see why not but just remember not to do anything that you don't feel comfortable with.

Ryan2013
May 23rd, 2015, 07:38 PM
Yes just make sure ur comfortable with it

Crona
May 24th, 2015, 12:47 AM
If youre interested in it, it sounds like you just have to play along with what your friend is doing and things will happen naturally. If you aren't, then you should just tell him you don't like what hes doing and ask him to stop. Personally I would do it since you two sound like youre pretty close and comfortable around each other, but that's just me. Do whatever youre comfortable doing

Dane00
May 24th, 2015, 02:05 AM
If you want it, go for it !

Jdog5513
May 25th, 2015, 12:21 AM
If your interested, just talk to him about experimenting and maybe getting into it more that your comfortable with it

Coleton
May 25th, 2015, 10:08 PM
I think you should just do whatever you're comfortable with. Personally I would take your friend up on the offer and mess around with him. I'm straight curious and I think it's fun to mess around with friends sometimes!

Short Circuit
May 26th, 2015, 03:30 AM
How much do you value your friendship with him? It could cost you dearly. Its alright people on here saying "go for it, I would", but only you can make that decision.

Sam-9876
May 26th, 2015, 12:02 PM
Honestly, In my opinion - Don't do it unless you are planning a long term commitment. I have "played around" with a friend or two back when I was 13-14. I now have nothing to do with either one of them - Although the other I am in the same class with. Whenever he wants me to do something he practically blackmails me with what we did. Unless you are planning a long term relationship with your friend, I wouldn't do that. But hey, I guess I'm biased based on my demons. Whatever you do, play safe.

If you're comfortable with it then let him take the lead. If he touches your cock first, or sucks it first, or whatever, then there's no way you can fall into the blackmail trap.