Virgins ...

[BabyGMarie]

I just wanna know have any of you ever felt like your ready to lose your virginity & start having sex, but something is just telling u not yet. Becuzz I been with my bf over a year & we both feel like we're ready to have sex with each other but I feel like my gut is saying not yet. Does anyone ever felt like this? Advice please.

[LITTLEANGEL19]

Hiya Marie plenty of people can tell you NOT to have sex. But NOBODY can tell you when your ready to have sex, Only you can answer that and be prepared for all that entails and could entail.

[rachel_ballet]

Listen to your gut! If you're not 100% ready, then you should hold off.
I'm the same way you are!

[prtygurl]

Marie, don't ignore your inner voice. Hormones drive desire, your mind may be putting the brakes on.

The consequences of NOT having sex when you want to are not as bad as how you'll feel if you go ahead and regret it.

I feel like you, BTW. (At least, I do when I have a boyfriend LOL)

[BabyGMarie]

Thanks u guys

[Abbeys]

Marie, don't ignore your inner voice. Hormones drive desire, your mind may be putting the brakes on.

The consequences of NOT having sex when you want to are not as bad as how you'll feel if you go ahead and regret it.

I feel like you, BTW. (At least, I do when I have a boyfriend LOL)

This speaks so much sense.

[jenni31]

I came close with this guy and had a condom on his penis and said no at the last minute. Proud of you and yes at 18 I am still a virgin

[SarahFox]

Trust your gut, go with your feelings. Its to important to give up something so precious. I lost mine v early (12th b/day), but it was right for me. Right guy, right time, and REAL horny.

[devon girl]

I dont feel like this but you should trust ur gut, wait till ur fully ready and have no dout about wanting it

[jenni31]

Yes ...listen to the advice of the girls here for it is special and it only happens once once you lose it it's gone forever