ughh so where to start

[Palm kid]

So this past week i went campin with my friend, his mom, and my family. his mom decided she wanted to set us up with two girls who were camping at the park to, so we got there and he of course made a good impression with his muscles and "smootheness" but i made things so awkward :(, i kneew it would happen im a nerd, and im not tht physically fit, plus i literrally blank when around girls i like, so later we met up witht them again and of course the girl was like ''ohh im acting s wierd" and i decide to say "oh well dont wrry i've met wierder people" which was a retardid comment (just ges to show u how bad it was). so tht night ended, the next night my friend decides to crash thier party at their campsite which btw, i didnt fell comfortable doing, but we went anyways, after getting there one little boy asks who william is and who grant is so i say im william and he goes "o ashley says u r the wierd one" "but she wants to make out with u grant, she thinks ur hot" tht abslutely crushed my little bit f self-esteem i had, so i left and sat alone for 2 hours, the next morning my friend decides to go tubing with them and nt wanting to hold him back from any action i stayed behind and got stuck ANTIQUING with my mom and his mom, i need advice wit talking to girls, and being mor smoothe its just so hard and i make myself look like such a retard

[iJack]

I have done that before,

Advice

Be yourself
dont just babble on and on
ask about her(as boring as it may be, it will help)
talk about her looks, personality,
be nice

[Bobby]

MOVING TO RELATIONSHIPS AND DATING

[Underground_Network]

I suck around girls too.. I don't even really know any girls that I can call "true" friends.. But anyways, you should just be yourself and stay calm around them. Don't think about the fact that they're a girl and you're a guy. Just pretend you're talking to any other person. Just make conversation, talk about anything. I'm sure even if it is strange or awkward if the girl is interested in you she'll help you out. Its okay to sound like an idiot sometimes. You're going to make mistakes around girls... Just try and stay calm thats my best advice. Think before you say anything, but don't overthink. If you want to say something, just say it. I know sometimes the wrong words come out or you misword something.. But practice makes perfect.. Even your friend is bound to screw up once or twice when talking to a girl, though he may fix what he said better or be able to rebound quicker, just be aware that not everyone is great around girls... It can be hard, but yeah, just stay calm, think before you speak, and do your best not to freak out or screw up. Its hard I know, and I don't exactly know how to avoid screwing up, because I always screw up around girls, but yeah, just talk about something they might be interested in... If you can't think of anything just say something general (not exactly sure what I mean by general lol, but maybe the weather or something.. lmao.. idk.. :/)

[Rutherford The Brave]

As jack said, dont be afraid to be yourself. Girls dont want liers and besides you are probably a nice guy. Even though that sterotypical middle and high school girls more than half of them date guys for the way they look. You should be in it for the personality and just try to show a girl a good time. So what if your weird sometimes being wierd can be a good conversation generator.

[The Batman]

Why don't you just talk to your friend and ask him to help you out.

[dudesweet101]

Im a little overweight and I have a really hot gf. Everyone ask me how I get such a hit gf.

The answer is being sweet and funny.

Say really nice things like wow ur hair looks good or her eyes are amazing.

[Nihilus]

Be calm and be your self.:D

[myskias]

hey dude i feel for you, things like this happened to me before. but alot worse.... my brother is better looking than me and a year younger than me. he is perfect around girls but he is a wimp at home and is really stupid in school. well back to the point. my brother got all the girls in my grade and his to like him and the girls in my grade all would come up to me and tell me how hot he looked and stuff. it really bugged me and eventually they all noticed that he had a bad personality and the girls stoped liking him. I have a better personality than him and i have gotten alot more action than him. goes to show that personality is better than looks. dont worry, if the girl thinks your wierd or something screw them they dont matter. find the perfect girl who will like you for who you are.

[Areus]

I'm like that too, or rather, I was, but I've gotten better at it over the years. One sure-fire thing to do is to ask about her, EVERYONE loves to talk about themselves, especially girls (no offense or anything), so you pretty much can't go wrong with this.

[DoNz93]

I wouldn't say too suck up too her. but compliment her regulary. even if she doesn't agree. it works for me.

[scatman]

girls like it when you are who you are, a wicked good friend, (was a girl) told me to be who i wanted to be. well look at me now i grew out my hair to a sk8ter look and skate as well

im not saying do what i did and become a skater but try being yourself and who you want to be... just make shure you do what you want to, if you like who you are then dont fool yourself by being someone ells. and please dont be a poser no one likes that

[sportyman1992]

all i have to say is there is a girl for everyone even if your a nerd or someone who cant speak properly.. there will be a girl for you.. but if u want why dont u lift weights or something to improve body muscle so girls can look at your muscles aswell?

and is your friend really a friends who makes u do stuff u dont want to do and embarresses u and makes u loose your self-esteem?

just think about it buddy

hope this helped u in any way :-)