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Coldfire
March 12th, 2015, 05:14 PM
Sadly we won't be alone because reasons. What are good things to say to someone who knows you like them but don't like you themselves. She knows i like her and i even told her she looked nice last time i saw her.
Any help?
Thanks
Michael
P.S for anyone who has read my previous post. I think "Eden" is a lost cause as i have never met her. This girl is a different one but she was mentioned in the other posts OP
Edit button not showing on mobile..
I am shy and have anxiety issues. Any tips on actually being brave enough and
go talk to her?
Can someone please help
Please don't double post ~Hannah
SethfromMI
March 12th, 2015, 06:56 PM
just be yourself. if you guys are meeting up it means you like each other, so be yourself and just talk normally/about normal stuff. get to know each other better as well
Coldfire
March 12th, 2015, 07:02 PM
We are not meeting for another... Instead we both go to the same thing. Last time i said she looked nice to which she replied awh thanks Michael. She knows i am interested im just not sure what to say..
Thanks,
Michael
As for me double posting. In the OP it said the edit button wasn't showing.
SethfromMI
March 12th, 2015, 07:05 PM
We are not meeting for another... Instead we both go to the same thing. Last time i said she looked nice to which she replied awh thanks Michael. She knows i am interested im just not sure what to say..
Thanks,
Michael
As for me double posting. In the OP it said the edit button wasn't showing.
sorry your first post was confusing. well when you get some alone time try to steer the convo to see if she is interested in anyone. try asking her if she is dating. then you can try to work the convo where you can say you are interested in her
Coldfire
March 12th, 2015, 07:17 PM
I found out of her friend she isn't dating. She knows i love her i just don't know what to say without it being awkward or me seeming to pushy.
WanderingHeart
March 12th, 2015, 07:43 PM
If I were you, being a girl myself.
Just tell her the truth. You like her, but you're not sure if she's interested. Ask her. If she truly isn't, maybe you'll have to move on.
SethfromMI
March 12th, 2015, 08:09 PM
If I were you, being a girl myself.
Just tell her the truth. You like her, but you're not sure if she's interested. Ask her. If she truly isn't, maybe you'll have to move on.
there ya go OP. I mean, you do know her better than we do, but it is better to ask. it is the only way you'll ever know.
Coldfire
March 13th, 2015, 09:42 AM
How is a good way to ask her?
Coldfire
March 13th, 2015, 02:20 PM
Im off to see her now. Ill tell you how it goes after. Ill try to talk to her.
Coldfire
March 13th, 2015, 04:27 PM
This girl is ripping me to peices. I love her so much and she is ripping me to peices. I was too scared to say anything but i was still being nice to her. I never said a word as i was too scared. I then left and here i am crying my eyes out. The reason for this is because she was snuggling up to someone else obviously hugging.
I just feel worthless. He is just better than me. I am so useless i can't even speak to her.
I am sitting here crying because i love her. I really do. She has just found someone better before i could say anything.
WanderingHeart
March 13th, 2015, 05:06 PM
She might have found someone else but she lost you.
If she really loves him, I think it's time to move on >_<.
Coldfire
March 13th, 2015, 05:30 PM
I feel heartbroken. I am talking to her on Facebook no just about stuff.
WanderingHeart
March 13th, 2015, 05:37 PM
I'm really sorry all this happened to you.
Coldfire
March 13th, 2015, 05:43 PM
I told her something i maybe shouldn't have.
I said.
" I self harm. I am also suicidal. There have been many times that i have stopped myself because i think of you. If i ended it. I would not be able to see you. You cheer me up even if i am having one of my darkest days. You make me a better person. Thank you. I hope this is not too much."
WanderingHeart
March 13th, 2015, 05:45 PM
Wow.
I'd never have the courage to tell my special one that.
What'd she say?
Coldfire
March 13th, 2015, 05:50 PM
She said
" that has made me feel so nice"
Then
" but im still really sorry that i make up upset"
WanderingHeart
March 13th, 2015, 05:52 PM
I don't know what to say, I think you two should talk things out.
Coldfire
March 13th, 2015, 05:56 PM
I don't know how we can. She doesn't even know what is happening between her and the other boy
WanderingHeart
March 13th, 2015, 05:56 PM
What do you mean she doesn't know?
Coldfire
March 13th, 2015, 05:58 PM
She is not sure what is happening apparently. She has gone off to bed now
WanderingHeart
March 13th, 2015, 06:02 PM
Oh...
Well, I'm not a love expert, just a random voice on the internet. I just think when you're able to, just be honest with her. If she doesn't accept you then she isn't worth it. If she does but stays with that other guy, move on.
There'll be someone else out there.
Coldfire
March 13th, 2015, 06:14 PM
Stopping loving her will be hard. Heart breaking. Any tips?
I will give it a bit to see if she stays with him but its still heartbreaking
WanderingHeart
March 13th, 2015, 06:18 PM
I know it must be very heartbreaking for you.
Well, you've got all of us here. And sometimes getting a bunch of snacks and ice cream and putting on a funny movie/show helps.
Relax yourself, keep your mind off her.
Coldfire
March 13th, 2015, 06:29 PM
Ill try my best. I might have to stop seeing her entirly
WanderingHeart
March 13th, 2015, 06:31 PM
If that's what's best for you.
I'm here if you need anything. Best of luck
Coldfire
March 13th, 2015, 06:43 PM
Im just stuck on her. I can't even sleep properly cause Im always thinking about her.
WanderingHeart
March 13th, 2015, 06:44 PM
I know it sucks.
Just do your best.
Coldfire
March 13th, 2015, 06:49 PM
I might try to just talk it out
WanderingHeart
March 13th, 2015, 06:51 PM
Do you best. Good luck!
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