Parents...

[Coldfire]

My parents are so pushy ..

Tl;Dr im lonely and keep getting pushed to tell my parents what's wrong.

I have a person on my mind (A crush) and im not telling my parents anything because i don't trust them. I don't trust them because last time i mentioned a crush i got chucked out the house and they wouldn't talk to me for weeks after they let me back in.

I love this girl but she doesn't know it anymore. I told her a couple months ago but i don't think she knows anymore. I don't see her much only once a Friday at youthclub and even then not every week. I didn't see her for a couple months and the time i stayed away from her only made me fonder. I am so lonely. I have never been with anyone. My parents think im too young to love.

This might be in the wrong section.

Thanks
Michael

[Vermilion]

I think you should make it clear to the girl how you feel about her and if she feels the same try your best to keep in touch more. With your parents I wouldn't tell them, I only have ever told my parents about relationships when they get an idea what's going on by then it's normal 2 months or so into the relationship. Are you lonely because you feel no one understands you ? How old are you if you don't mind ?

[Coldfire]

Im 14 , she is 16. I told her i had feelings for her months ago and a couple weeks ago i said she was pretty and to which she replied "awh thanks". I feel lonely as i have none to talk about my feelings to

[tasminsmith]

and why do you need to tell your parents

[Coldfire]

Because if they find out not from me.. They will be unhappy

[tasminsmith]

ouch I don't tell mine anything, next time you see her ask for her number im sure she would like to talk to you

[Coldfire]

I don't think she would be. I just feel worthless when around people because thy are all better than me

[tasminsmith]

im sure there not :( I don't know you but you don't seem bad at all :)

[Coldfire]

Well. I told my mum. She was ok with it. I didnt use the word love which helped and she is perfectly ok to chat about it. Im too scared to really talk about it but its a improvement. I also message the girl saying "You know i still have feelings for you?" and she went .. Yeah. I get to see her tommorow i hope i have the courage to talk to her more

[tasminsmith]

that's great good luck

[Coldfire]

Thank you for the help guys <3

I might make another post in Relationship and dating