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Thaliacea
March 12th, 2015, 12:58 AM
Ok so i am with this guy in a relationship for 2 months. I really like him and i feel comfortable with him . It was really great at beginning but not it starts to be a little uncomfortable for me .

I feel like i am boring and that i am "suffocating" him. I mean he is friendly guy and i am really ok with that. I said to him , i won't be jealous if you cheat on me and i don't find out than good for you , but if i find out we are done. Unnecessary jealousy makes me exhausted and stressed for nothing.

So i am not sure if i should talk with him about that , or just give him space 1-2 days . We talk every day we see regularly , have sex regularly , it is just like i feel i should give him space. If i talk i don't want to make him think i want breakup or something , i really don't i just want him to be comfortable in relationship.

Thaliacea
March 12th, 2015, 09:49 AM
UPdate: Today i sent him good morning message , he replied with "good morning :)" and then i didn't write anything . After few hours he said "you aren't so talkative today" .

I am a bit confused :/

Abhorrence
March 12th, 2015, 11:39 AM
He clearly likes you, I'm confused about the whole cheating thing though, what's that about?

Thaliacea
March 12th, 2015, 11:51 AM
I said he is a bit friendly , he likes to chat online on dating sites. I mean he tells me about something interesting he finds and so.

Zachary G
March 12th, 2015, 12:28 PM
the only way you will find out his thoughts about you and your relationship is if you sit down and talk with him about it. i am sure if he was uncomfortable about anything in the relationship, he would have said something. but always remember, the dumbest question you can ask is the one you dont ask. talk to him.

Thaliacea
March 12th, 2015, 12:45 PM
I think that everything is ok , i did something crazy so i am waiting for reaction , then , i will tell you :D