friends sleeping over

[jdukecantcm]

Okay so a few months ago me and my friend who is a year older than me would sleepover often at my house. the first times we kinda messed around since we shared the same bed and I touched his dick and he showed me his and I it basically became a Hj nothing more. Lately we haven't been talking and it's because of some friendship issues but I really do wanna talk o him again and we are going to a party on Friday a few weeks and we are sure resolve our problems. If we do we will PROBALY get close again and start sleeping over. If we do start sleeping over again , should it continue to be kinda sexual? Should we ask?should we even share a bed? Help me I'm confused ! He's striaght but I think curious. I just need help thanks !

[SethfromMI]

if you come to that point, talk it out with him beforehand and discuss what you guys do and don't want to do

[jdukecantcm]

THanks!

[SethfromMI]

THanks!

no problem

[matt_tgr]

If it happens, it happens. Don't try planning that sort of stuff

[Thomas01]

Yeah just let the atmosphere decide how things go. If you feel comfortable enough to talk to him about it or initiate things, just try to and see how he responds. If you don't feel comfortable, just enjoy the friendship.

Besides you have a lot of time to continue things, it doesn't have to start immediately.

[Zachary G]

if you really want to talk to him again, then you have to be the bigger man and humble yourself and goto him. as far as your sleepovers go, dont try to plan anything, just go with the flow of things and follow his lead.

[JamesSuperBoy]

Okay so a few months ago me and my friend who is a year older than me would sleepover often at my house. the first times we kinda messed around since we shared the same bed and I touched his dick and he showed me his and I it basically became a Hj nothing more. Lately we haven't been talking and it's because of some friendship issues but I really do wanna talk o him again and we are going to a party on Friday a few weeks and we are sure resolve our problems. If we do we will PROBALY get close again and start sleeping over. If we do start sleeping over again , should it continue to be kinda sexual? Should we ask?should we even share a bed? Help me I'm confused ! He's striaght but I think curious. I just need help thanks !

Try and sort the friendship issues first. Have you thought perhaps he just feels embarrassed about what happened and that has lead to the friendship issues.

[Turin15]

I think you should resolve your issues and ask him for the sexual things

[jay_]

Meh, I had a friend like this, we did HJ and he blew me I decided I wasn't interested end of.

[sdude]

Yeah, note closely the remark made by Jay above...this is what usually happens...I assume "end of" means end of friendship. Most straight guys, really most guys period, feel guilty after sex, even if they initiated it. It's scary stuff and even though you KNOW they enjoyed it, it can be a deal breaker! Best thing? TALK to him about it, let him know u are cool with it one way or another, no pressure to ever do it again and tell him your friendship means much more to you than a handjob!! The longer u wait, the more distant he will become..speaking from experience here...

[ChaosEarthquake]

Just have fun with it. ;)

[teenpeck52]

Get on the same level with him, see what he thinks & feels. If you both like it than go at it

[colesixteen]

I would say let things happen naturally. Sometimes curious guys like to experiment with other guys but don't want to talk about it. So if he starts something, just let it happen.

[jacshamy]

Okay so a few months ago me and my friend who is a year older than me would sleepover often at my house. the first times we kinda messed around since we shared the same bed and I touched his dick and he showed me his and I it basically became a Hj nothing more. Lately we haven't been talking and it's because of some friendship issues but I really do wanna talk o him again and we are going to a party on Friday a few weeks and we are sure resolve our problems. If we do we will PROBALY get close again and start sleeping over. If we do start sleeping over again , should it continue to be kinda sexual? Should we ask?should we even share a bed? Help me I'm confused ! He's striaght but I think curious. I just need help thanks !

I think you should worry about being friends again first.

[Canadian Dream]

I think it'd be safer to make sure things are ok between you two, and even if they are, it'd be best to talk to him beforehand.

[mwatkins]

As long as you both agree to some sex play go for it. He propably want to jack you off or suck you

[The captain]

point is that both of you're ok with that

[Bluebyrd]

I think you should ease into the sexual activity so he doesn't feel as uncomfortable or awkward.

[Jdog5513]

What your feeling now is being curious. If you want to try and do some sexual stuff with him again and just say you have felt like experimenting with him lately and he will probably be up for it tbh lol

[Hermes]

Like others I wonder if there is any connection between your friendship issues and the previous time you did stuff together. I think you need to be clear on your priority, i.e. friendship or sexual play because you may need to go back to him and say "What happenned last time was fun, and nothing to be embrassed about. If you enjoyed it we could do it again but if it makes you uncomfortable then we don't have to - we have done many other things as friends and could again".