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SimSailorNick
March 11th, 2015, 06:44 PM
So my friend asked for me for space. We had quite a complicated situation. He liked me but i liked him so much more back. In the end, i kinda overdid it.

So now, we've been avoiding each other. His friends, which were also my friends, are also avoiding me. Now, i can't hang out with so many people because they're avoiding me. I don't get why his friends would avoid me though. I mean, the problem was between us. They should mind their own business. (Unless they were asked to avoid me)

It's been almost 3 weeks now. I'm losing it. I feel so depressed all the time because all these friends i once had are now all avoiding me because of him. I dont know when this will end.

Should i just live it with? Or should i talk to him again? Ask him when this will end? Ask him if he even wants us to be friends again?

Abhorrence
March 11th, 2015, 06:54 PM
I would ask personally, you've got nothing to lose. I hope it goes okay!

JamesSuperBoy
March 11th, 2015, 08:30 PM
So my friend asked for me for space. We had quite a complicated situation. He liked me but i liked him so much more back. In the end, i kinda overdid it.

So now, we've been avoiding each other. His friends, which were also my friends, are also avoiding me. Now, i can't hang out with so many people because they're avoiding me. I don't get why his friends would avoid me though. I mean, the problem was between us. They should mind their own business. (Unless they were asked to avoid me)

It's been almost 3 weeks now. I'm losing it. I feel so depressed all the time because all these friends i once had are now all avoiding me because of him. I dont know when this will end.

Should i just live it with? Or should i talk to him again? Ask him when this will end? Ask him if he even wants us to be friends again?

If he has asked for space then I think you should maybe just leave him be and try and mend things with the friends. Not sure of the rest of the situation but maybe they are just minding thier own business and done want to get involved so yeah its much down to you to contact them.

Hope it resolves soon.

SethfromMI
March 11th, 2015, 08:34 PM
it is tough. you could always ask the friends and see what is up with them. as far as the one who you were having trouble with, just tread caution if you do decide to talk. when people ask for space, one never knows how much time they need. I guess after 3 weeks though, you could ask if he is ready to talk again

SimSailorNick
March 12th, 2015, 06:07 AM
Hmmm, maybe i should talk to the friends first. I'll try tomorrow. Hopefully it goes well. >.<