I'm still stuck on her!

[Jordan181]

I broke up with my ex girlfriend nearly a year ago now and I still can't get her out of my head. I see her everyday and I want nothing more than to just even strike a conversation with her but we had such a massive fallout and I did and said really horrible things to her that she will barely even make eye contact with me any more and I don't blame her. It really has been the biggest mistake of my life so far.

I've been in another relationship since but it didn't last long because I was just thinking about my ex the whole time!

I am in love with her still and it hurts so much I don't know how to cope any more. I don't think I've got any chance in hell of ever getting back together with her and it's so painful because I genuinely thought she was the one for me - she is perfect!

I'm not really asking anything in particular I just want to talk about it and try and get it off my chest :(

[Nico11]

Dude trust me getting over somebody that you used to know is really really hard. And I would know. I had a relationship with a girl, we had a fallout and I haven't talked to her since the last 3 months. The problem is that you still love her and maybe still think about how it would have been if both of you were still together. It sometimes can really hang you up. Learning to live without someone you loved is basically the hardest thing to do. Even I've been trying to, all in vain. Trust me those who tell you to move on don't know how hard it is. You can't just forget about the memories you have made. However if you do feel that she might forgive even after all that you said to her it than you can convince her that she is the only one, this feud will only make your love stronger. If you can't, then I really don't know coz I've I'm the same situation. Best of luck. Cheers

[SethfromMI]

it is good to try to get it off your chest. love can hurt sometimes for sure. if there is any possible chance at restoring the relationship or try to go for it. if not, try to take your time, but begin to start moving on

[Jordan181]

How can I start to make things better? I've tried apologising so many times but she just doesn't want to hear it