College Privacy

[becca07]

I will be going off to college soon in the fall this year and will be staying in a dorm with a roomate. I am really excited for school and the new experience! The only downside that I have been thinking about is the drastic change that will come with living with someone else in a small space.

I know that privacy will eventually become and issue for "alone time" and when urges strike at night. I know us girls too will run into this issue and I am sure most do. Any girls in college who have advice or just general advice of how to eventually deal with less freedom/privacy when it comes to this matter? Thanks.

[MeliWelli]

Depends I guess...Not sure how the dorm will be set up. When I visited my sister at her college there were a couple different style dorms. Some will be like apartments where everyone has their own bedroom and privacy. Others are more like the rooms you would share with a sibling. If that's the case there's always the shower ;) but I think you'll have different enough schedules that you'll be able to get some privacy. The 1st year of college life always seems to the big one for changes, but after that think you'll be pretty comfy wherever you are. Good luck!

[LITTLEANGEL19]

Rebecca don't let worry you so much, just be happy you are starting the next stage of your life, as the previous post says just wait to see the layout of the dorms, or if u have to share you may get another in the same situation :)
Hope all goes well. Good luck X

[Wanderer_]

Your room mate will have the same needs, just talk about it
Unless a real prude she won't care if you need to flick the bean

[becca07]

Depends I guess...Not sure how the dorm will be set up. When I visited my sister at her college there were a couple different style dorms. Some will be like apartments where everyone has their own bedroom and privacy. Others are more like the rooms you would share with a sibling. If that's the case there's always the shower ;) but I think you'll have different enough schedules that you'll be able to get some privacy. The 1st year of college life always seems to the big one for changes, but after that think you'll be pretty comfy wherever you are. Good luck!

Thanks Mel. From what I have seen so far from prior visits most of the dorm rooms are the style like if you would share with a sibling ( 2 person...beds are like feet away from each other). haha yea, the shower is always a option;)...but less than ideal ofcourse. It may be frustrating, but yeah...i guess planning around class schedules might be the best bet...but yea...not ideal when times are desperate.

Rebecca don't let worry you so much, just be happy you are starting the next stage of your life, as the previous post says just wait to see the layout of the dorms, or if u have to share you may get another in the same situation :)
Hope all goes well. Good luck X

Thanks, I am excited for sure! And yeah i guess with time I will adjust but still dont know how its all going to work out in that department because it will be a drastic change from how I go about my private time and stuff and not having to do a whole lot of planning when feeling horny and need relief.

Your room mate will have the same needs, just talk about it
Unless a real prude she won't care if you need to flick the bean

I do hope my roomie can be open to talk about that sort of thing. I will have to judge how to bring it up or if I will be able to or if it will just come up naturally. I am sure she will have the same needs so maybe she is having frustrations or whatever the convo will come up. But again...depends on the person i guess.

[Cangirl]

Ive heard that you make a schedule with a sock or sticker on the door if its not a good time to come in if you have a shared room. So yea the showers are good or wait for her to go to sleep or talk about it and then she'll probably say she was worried about it to haha then you don't have to hide it :) I guess its also sorta like changing right? Are you ok changing in front of her?

[Elysium]

Ive heard that you make a schedule with a sock or sticker on the door if its not a good time to come in if you have a shared room. So yea the showers are good or wait for her to go to sleep or talk about it and then she'll probably say she was worried about it to haha then you don't have to hide it :) I guess its also sorta like changing right? Are you ok changing in front of her?
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