Dating problems

[Seahawks15]

Okay,I've had enough! I keep getting rejected by probably the fourth or fifth girl now.I need some advice on how to let girls know that I like them and how to ask them out properly since Its obvious that I keep making costly mistakes.I simply tell them I like them over social media and it doesn't go farther than that.Pm me for more information please.

[tret123]

Pm me and tell me what you did to go for those girls.

[Bull]

Get off social media and talk face to face to girls. Build a relationship personality and then personally ask them to join you in a group activity (date) like a pizza party or movie night.

[Seahawks15]

Maybe I do need to get off of it.I would ask them like if they would like to come over or have lunch in the park but they are either busy or have other plans which I think is an excuse.

[Magenta]

Or perhaps they're just not interested. It happens. And saying they're busy may not be an excuse, they're just busy and it's not in the cards right now. I've had guys ask me out and I just felt too busy with other things in my life to get out and date at the time.

But definitely get off the social media and make an effort to do things face to face. It's one thing if you've met online, because that's getting more and more common, but if you know them then go up to them. Otherwise it's just so impersonal and just... why would I want to go out with someone who didn't even want to come up to me? Being behind a computer screen can be easier if you're shy but getting over that and putting yourself out there makes a much better impression 'cause man, we get it. It's hard to ask someone out and if you get up the nerve to approach someone to do so, it means you're really interested.

[Emerald Dream]

And saying they're busy may not be an excuse, they're just busy and it's not in the cards right now. I've had guys ask me out and I just felt too busy with other things in my life to get out and date at the time.


This is true. Some people don't want to be in a committed relationship because their life is busy or they are concentrating on other things for the time being. I bet it happens more than people realize.

Like others have said above - if you truly like someone it's probably best to actually spend some time with them. However, saying things like you've tried to contact "four or five girls" through social media and they haven't wanted to take it any further - I can kind of understand where they are coming from. You're just taking random shots with that, and it tells people that none of them actually mean anything to you...that you are only looking for a girlfriend just for the sake of having a girlfriend.

[riverboy]

Get off the computer and don't ask to go on a date the same day you ask for the date if it's the first one. Give each other some lead time for each other to get ready and plan for the date.

[Seahawks15]

I mean it's everytime I propose an idea of hanging out,it's im busy that day and time.I understand that it may seem that I'm jumping from girl to girl and I've realized that I'm overly desperate.I think I like the single life now.But,I wonder if I put my time and money into things,why don't they do the same for me? I've been in so many one-ended relationships where I put in my love and devotion and I get nothing back and then it's thrown back into my face.In a relationship,you should equally show love for each other,not just one person worshipping the other.

[Seahawks15]

I have talked to this one girl over a few months at school and social media and we have a ton in common but she rejected harshly for some reason when I asked her out face to face at school.

[lowride]

Its hard to get a girl i know that but don't go directly to her and say i like you start off as friends get to know her find out what she like and what she dosent listen to them and i mean listen to them don't just pretend to listen girl love a listener but becareful you could get friendzoned over time drop subtle hints that you have feeling for her but most importantly treat her like a girl not a piece of meat