Condom or no condom

[PaulDove]

I'm interested to know about general condom use. My gf and I sometimes don't use but we do try use most of the time.

We never use for BJ's.

Obviously as a guy it feels better to have sex without, but what about for girls?

[cami]

It feels better too ;) I use it only if I don't know/trust the guy enough.

[Adamhg]

I don't really use a condom, it feels a lot better than with one on. But some times you don't really have much choice, but to wear one.

[biancachica]

It feels better without one, but you can always use ribbed ones which feel better than plain ones. I usually stop wearing condoms in a serious relationship but if I don't really know the guy, I rather be safer than risk it to have better sex.

[Jour_Nuit]

We only used a condom the first time i had sex
Now i'm on the pill, no more condom .. I think you have to use a condom if you don't know the guy, but if you have to give a blowjob, maybe without a condom is better.. i don't like to suck a latex ..

[benj2]

don't know about condom as I am still a vingin

[SethfromMI]

me and my gf doesn't but she is on the pill and I made sure to get tested before we started doing stuff just to be safe

[TxMaddy]

I personally HATE comdoms!! I use them if I don't know the guy that well or know who he had been with.

[cutie123]

I don't use condoms! It feels so much better without for both people! For girls just make sure you can trust the guy enough to go without!

[Wanderer_]

If you don't know who he's been in and all, suit up

[tret123]

Same as Seth... I still don't trust without using condoms just I want to be on the safe side

[NickC]

Be and my bf dont, but we both make sure to get ourselves tested for STDs before we have sex.

[AnnaBeesley]

It feels lots better without, I love the feel of the hot skin and it's so intimate. With my ex we never used condoms and I loved it, but I don't have nexplanon implant any more so when I had sex with a boy at a party he had a condom on. It was good but I missed feeling his skin and feeling him come in me.

[KellyNC]

I basically agree with a lot of what's above. Physically the experience is better, but unless I'm in a monogamous relationship with the person then I'm not going to take the extra risk.

[nrob1993]

I have done both...with some long term g/f done it without
when I lost my virginity it was with an older girl and without a condom

[MeliWelli]

I have only done oral with my bf so far. Will use condoms when we start having sex to prevent pregnancy, but would consider not using them if I went on the pill or another form of birth control

[chiisaiaoiryu]

I would assume it feels better for a girl to go without a condom, but there are the obvious risks involved with, as the term is called, bareback. The #1 risk since this is guy-girl sex is the risk for pregnancy. Naturally, condoms don't eradicate the chances of pregnancy, but it greatly reduces the risk. If you are ready for a baby, then feel free to continue bareback. If not, which I assume you're not considering your age, then consider using condoms every time.

If you two are doing anal instead of vaginal, then it's a slightly different story. Just make sure that both of you are clean, both disease wise and anal/penis wise, and there will be little risk of anything bad happening during bareback on anal.

Regardless if there's a condom involved or not, just be aware of the risks and stay prepared to take on whatever consequences that might come your way from sex.

[SethfromMI]

I would assume it feels better for a girl to go without a condom, but there are the obvious risks involved with, as the term is called, bareback. The #1 risk since this is guy-girl sex is the risk for pregnancy. Naturally, condoms don't eradicate the chances of pregnancy, but it greatly reduces the risk. If you are ready for a baby, then feel free to continue bareback. If not, which I assume you're not considering your age, then consider using condoms every time.

If you two are doing anal instead of vaginal, then it's a slightly different story. Just make sure that both of you are clean, both disease wise and anal/penis wise, and there will be little risk of anything bad happening during bareback on anal.

Regardless if there's a condom involved or not, just be aware of the risks and stay prepared to take on whatever consequences that might come your way from sex.

very smart advice. whatever you decide to o, be smart about it

[mattsmith48]

you should always use a condom

[Laraa.01]

I've only had sex with a condom but once I can get on the pill I'll use it instead for serious relationships. I never use ccondoms during oral though.

[Mad115]

For BJ's there's little risk unless she gets an infection like herpes
but for penetration always use a condom unless you want a disease

[jordanhardy]

I don't use one if the girl I'm having sex with is on the pill. I only ever use one if i'm having a one night stand. Never used one during oral sex.

[nicole97]

I never use one with my BF, but only because I'm on the pill, we're both clean and exclusive to one another.

[butterflykisses69]

I've never used a condom for a bj, but you should use if you're with a stranger or someone that you don't know has been tested. And yes, bareback sex feels loads better for girls too

[Swedish_boy]

Condom is the safest way.. Always use it with a new girl. But non condom feels better.

[Zachary G]

if its a new relationship I use condoms until such time as we get to know and trust eachother more, then we go without.

[ClaraWho]

Have to unfortunately for full on making love, wish we didn't :(

[ashleigh7]

Did no condom for the first time a little while ago......felt totally different!!!! in a awesome way. :)

[Kimhasquestions]

I can't tell a difference with or without, but I've heard the guy enjoys it a lot more without

[Jaffe]

Of the four times I've had real sex, I've use a condom all 4 (well, I used it 3, and the other guy used it once). Never used one for oral sex.

[deepthroat_tacos]

Tried it without a while ago and cant imagine going back!! Condoms are a thing of the past for me

[Jaffe]

Tried it without a while ago and cant imagine going back!! Condoms are a thing of the past for me

That sounds kind of risky. I can't imagine that anything would be worth that risk.

[bcranst]

i've used it lots of times times but if i'm in a relationship and the girl is on the pill i'd rather not use it. i can't say i like condoms very much

[PicklasNoulsen]

Feels better without one, but if she is on the pill and your in a relationship then do it without

[lliam]

condom, even it feels better without it

[ryanjones]

I'm a virgin but I'm going with condoms unless I seriously trust the girl and know she's on contraceptives.

[Canadian Dream]

I really think it would be a good idea to use one, even if it feels better without one because there's always a risk with precum and stuff for pregnancy.

[AutumnWinds]

i'm super paranoid about getting pregnant. i've only had sex with one guy, and i'm on birth control, but i still almost always make him use a condom when we have sex. it works kind of well, though, because while my guy says it feels better w/out one he's just as worried about pregnancy as i am.

[UserMissing]

I never had sex so i never used on

[NCronter99]

Depends on the situation. If I just met the guy, then we'll go with the condom, but if I've known the guy for awhile, then we'll go without it. I honestly prefer no condom, because it feels a lot better

[Rickmckay111]

depends me and my mate said we wouldn't use condoms for bjs coz we aint been with anyone else!

[Patri6k]

It depends

[JaceySmiles]

I've done about 50/50 with condoms, I like without but I don't like the risk

[Kuroshiro]

Do wish to get someone pregnant or contract an STI/STD?
Yes = don't use a condom
No = use one (even in oral, there are flavoured condoms for a reason)

[Andre 99]

Ive neverv worn one for a bj.
Wore one once for a hj
And my current gf and i used one first time we had sex, but don't now

[Cangirl]

Condoms are important to help not get sti's but feels way better with no condom and i know guys like that a lot better to. But also have to be on the pill or else condom for sure.

[Anomaly]

It's safer with unless you know the person really well..

[deepthroat_tacos]

I don't use condoms! It feels so much better without for both people! For girls just make sure you can trust the guy enough to go without!

Likewise!! Will never go back...

[deepthroat_tacos]

Did no condom for the first time a little while ago......felt totally different!!!! in a awesome way. :)

It does! I never use them anymore.

[hesaidhesaid]

I used to with my current bf but it was to develop trust and know each other's points, fantasies, limits etc. Not anymore do I use it but I hold to the fact we don't cheat on each other.

[cutie123]

Likewise!! Will never go back...

Agreed!!!

[SillyShyGuy]

I did not use it my first time. So never used one.

[Rubbish]

me and my gf dont since shes on the pill

[iChrisbtv96]

U should always use one!

[Ashleigh01]

I have only really fully had sex once, we dint have condoms so I don’t know what it would be like with them. I’d like to do it without just for the 1st couple of times, I know that sounds dumb

[BrianT]

depends me and my mate said we wouldn't use condoms for bjs coz we aint been with anyone else!

What does a BJ taste like?

[Sweeper]

Tried them once. It was all rubbery and awkward. I hated it.

Went on b/c not long after, but for a while we just used withdrawl. Worked just fine.

[Sweeper]

What does a BJ taste like?

chicken?

[Tyler97]

What does a BJ taste like?

my gf said it doesn't taste like anything, at least the penis, she said she swallowed the semen too fast and the only way she described it was it's warm.

[Brieftime]

Cami why would you be having sex with a guy you don't know/trust?

[shamrockgirl02]

It feels soooo much better with no condom. I only use them when I absolutely have to, which is usually when I don't know the boy's history or he's never been tested

[xcherriesncreamx]

I dont usually use them

[xcherriesncreamx]

Have to unfortunately for full on making love, wish we didn't :(

How cum you have to cause you said you wish you didnt have to

[Omgtheykilledkenny]

Used a condom when i started dating my boyfriend but haven't worn one for sex for like over a year. Me and him have only ever had sex with one other guy and he was clean so we don't worry about getting anything so it's fine.

[Grisham]

If you know very well your boyfriend/girlfriend you can do it without
Anyway i prefer to use condom

[Jordan99]

It feels better without one, but you can always use ribbed ones which feel better than plain ones. I usually stop wearing condoms in a serious relationship but if I don't really know the guy, I rather be safer than risk it to have better sex.

This although I haven't had that many partners and I usually quickly get to the point we don't use condoms since I am on the pill. Also, unlike some girls here we never use them for BJ's.

[PinkFloyd]

I have only gone bareback twice with my girlfriend because she was a day from being on her period and the other time she had just got off of her period and fertilization can't happen in those windows of time. But other than that, we use a condom every single time.

[Cadanance00]

I have only really fully had sex once, we dint have condoms so I don’t know what it would be like with them. I’d like to do it without just for the 1st couple of times, I know that sounds dumb

We tried using one for our first time and it didn't work out well so we did without. BUT THEN...there was the dreaded COUNTDOWN!! until she had her period. Like WTF are we going to do if she's pregnant? It's like a bad dream.

[auser_name]

Ive never had to use a condom before. The only person I've ever slept with is another boy and when we did eventually carry out the act he was a virgin as was I so we both knew that neither of us had any diseases.

[Emily 13]

I haven't done it with a condom yet. What do guys really like? Guys I have done it with have not had any.

[Atlantis]

Ive never had to use a condom before. The only person I've ever slept with is another boy and when we did eventually carry out the act he was a virgin as was I so we both knew that neither of us had any diseases.

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