Mom does not mind...normal?

[PaulDove]

So I have started seeing this girls who is a few years younger than me. We go to her house after school most days to have sex. I know her mom knows what we do all afternoon but she seems cool with it. She has even seen us once when she came home. I know my mom would kill me... Is it weird that her mom is fine with it?

[Cpt_Cutter]

I suppose it depends on the ages involved. If you're 18 dating a 16 year old, I assume it would be easy to accept. If you're like 15 however, and she's 13, then I don't see how she can be ok with it.

[PaulDove]

She is 15

[JamesSuperBoy]

So I have started seeing this girls who is a few years younger than me. We go to her house after school most days to have sex. I know her mom knows what we do all afternoon but she seems cool with it. She has even seen us once when she came home. I know my mom would kill me... Is it weird that her mom is fine with it?

I would think its not weird but unusual her mom iis fine with that situation.

[Reundlovu]

She is 15

I'm guessing you're 17 or 18 then?

[cami]

I don't think it's weird. Families are different and they take things differently. My mom doesn't make a big deal either if a bring someone home, neither my dad.

Her mom probably trusts her very much and knows she doesn't need to worry.

[Zachary G]

I don't think it's weird. Families are different and they take things differently. My mom doesn't make a big deal either if a bring someone home, neither my dad.

Her mom probably trusts her very much and knows she doesn't need to worry.

I think Cami has a good point here, some families are different and look at things differently, so maybe there is a trust there between them, so I wouldnt worry, but I wouldnt take advantage of it either.

[Meh Guy]

I guess it may be a little out of the ordinary. Although, especially recently, I think more people have come to terms with the fact that teenage sexuality is a thing and is happening quite frequently. She may have to come to terms with that or have been brought up in a family that was very open about those things.

[PaulDove]

Yeah I guess Cami is right. And I won't take advantage of the situation.

Do you think I should be open about it? Like instead of just going to the room we should say we are going to go have sex and will be back in a bit?

[Gizmo RC]

I live in an area where it's acceptable to do that. I don't have much experience with age differences, but every person I have sex with is cool with people knowing, including parents. You might want to check with her before you say openly that you're gonna screw.

[nklarke]

Her mom is just super open mind, liberal. Good for you :-)

[Seth Green]

I don't know about "normal" but there's nothing WRONG with her not minding, and no matter what you're definitely lucky.

[SethfromMI]

it can depend on a lot of things. maybe not totally normal, but lucky you n that situation haha

[Wanderer_]

My mother had me on the pill before a vacation when I was 13 and got me stuff like tiny bikinis etc. for it so I assumed at the time that was a green light for sex if I wanted to. Same thing with my friend from the family who went on the cruise with us
I feel now it was more mothers living vicariously through us

But to some that's normal- is your gf's mum young/was a young mother?
Might have been what she did at that age so thinks it's normal

Or one of the low self esteem types that feel having a bf is the most important thing for them, their daughter etc. to have