Can you win someone over?

[CreativeUsername]

So there is a girl that I really like, but she didn't want to go out with me. Is it possible to win someone over?

[Elysium]

I wouldn't. It's less romantic to pursue someone once they've rejected you and I know that from experience.

[JamesSuperBoy]

So there is a girl that I really like, but she didn't want to go out with me. Is it possible to win someone over?

Might depend on why the answer was no the first time. But yes it is possible.

[Straya]

So there is a girl that I really like, but she didn't want to go out with me. Is it possible to win someone over?

you can but it is alot harder after theve already said no and it just makes you look desperate and that also works against you

[CreativeUsername]

Does anybody have advice on how to do it?

[jssixna]

There isn't a really a way to win her over since you said she rejected you..
You should start off as trying to be her friend and take it from there.

[Screw Attack]

Well, if she doesn't want to go out with you, wouldn't you be doing a favour by dropping it? I mean, if she rejects you again, it'll be a blow to your confidence. Don't be persistent like that. You can always find someone else who's willing to go with you.

No to be rude though, just my opinion :)

[ashdyn]

Normally I'd just say to move on to the next girl but if you really like her then you kinda owe it to yourself to keep trying. When I first met me girlfriend she had a boyfriend and I was the new kid at school. We just so happened to have art class together. After I really got to liking her I really made an effort to just always be around and flirt a little but in a mostly friendly way (her bf ended up hating me lol). Eventually they broke up and we were already really good friends so she talked to me about everything. I didn't want to just be a rebound guy for her so I let her get over her ex while also being her best guy friend. First time I asked her if she'd ever date me I got totally rejected. But I kept at it and kept showing her how great of a boyfriend I could be and it all worked out in the end.

So if you really like her and she's already rejected you...go sown the friend route. It will take forever and it'll suck sometimes but it almost always works. The hardest part for most guys trying this is that they don't have the courage to ask her out after all they've been through cause they're afraid they'll mess up the awesome friendship that they built. You just gotta do it. If it doesn't work you'll probably hate her and you won't have trouble moving on to the next girl after lmao

[Nico11]

Dude you gotta convince her how much of a great guy you are and how better you can be (and that is the hardest thing-Personal Experience) . Once you've done that, she'll gradually start showing interest in you. I've read your post in one of the threads I kinda know your situation (assuming it's the same girl). If you're gonna convince her, you better buckle up, coz it's gonna be one hell of a job. Hope you can make it work. Just don't leave any oppurtunity that you might regret.

[dirtyboxer55]

unlikely