a little confused

[otaku1998]

I don't know if this is the right area to post this... I'm new here.

Err, ok... so for quite sometime now I've noticed I really like one of my friends...... but my friend is a guy, I've had a gf before... so does this mean I am bi? Because I honestly really him... really could use some advice.

[Straya]

it could just be a crush because hes your friend or you could actually be bi. do you look at other guys or just him

[otaku1998]

Thanks for the reply.

To be honest with you I have looked at other guys... just right now he's the only person I think of like that. So I'm not sure what to do. Should I say something?

[Straya]

Thanks for the reply.

To be honest with you I have looked at other guys... just right now he's the only person I think of like that. So I'm not sure what to do. Should I say something?

if you feel comfortable with him and you dont think hell take it bad then go for it. a good way to start would maybe just telling him that your bi but dont say anything about liking him straight away. just wait and see how he reacts to that

[JamesSuperBoy]

I don't know if this is the right area to post this... I'm new here.

Err, ok... so for quite sometime now I've noticed I really like one of my friends...... but my friend is a guy, I've had a gf before... so does this mean I am bi? Because I honestly really him... really could use some advice.


It could be you are bi but at the same time it is normal for teens to have a crush maybe you just need to be at the point you can decide for yourself.

[Joe Bloggs]

Yes you are bi, but that is a good thing! If you can firstly admit to yourself that you are gay, and then to others then you will be able to have the best of both worlds as it were. And not even in a sexual way, from my understanding most gays tend to like warm relationships opposed to hot ones (warm being hugging and snuggling, hot being well... sexual). Good luck!

~Joe B

[otaku1998]

if you feel comfortable with him and you dont think hell take it bad then go for it. a good way to start would maybe just telling him that your bi but dont say anything about liking him straight away. just wait and see how he reacts to that

Thanks for the reply. Yeah I just need to figure out how to say this. I don't think he or my other friends would care I was bi. I've known them ever since 2nd grade.

It could be you are bi but at the same time it is normal for teens to have a crush maybe you just need to be at the point you can decide for yourself.

Thanks. Yeah I do need to get to that point. I'm honestly 85% sure I'm bi.

Yes you are bi, but that is a good thing! If you can firstly admit to yourself that you are gay, and then to others then you will be able to have the best of both worlds as it were. And not even in a sexual way, from my understanding most gays tend to like warm relationships opposed to hot ones (warm being hugging and snuggling, hot being well... sexual). Good luck!

~Joe B
Thank and really sure I'm bi. Just not sure how to tell my friends I am. Not sure how to bring that up.

[thetransylvanianguy]

Are you attracted romantically and/or sexually to him? If yes, you may be either gay or bisexual (but being bi is more likely). Don't worry about it too much though.

[otaku1998]

Are you attracted romantically and/or sexually to him? If yes, you may be either gay or bisexual (but being bi is more likely). Don't worry about it too much though.

Yeah I am.

[Straya]

Yeah I am.

the friends iv told, i pretty much just came straight out and told them. the way i saw it if i was gonna tell them there was no point beating around the bush about it

[otaku1998]

the friends iv told, i pretty much just came straight out and told them. the way i saw it if i was gonna tell them there was no point beating around the bush about it

I know my friends will be fine with this.... but what has me nervous is how my parents will take this news...:(

[Straya]

I know my friends will be fine with this.... but what has me nervous is how my parents will take this news...:(

Don't tell your parents then. I haven't told mine and they don't need to know unless I start dating a guy and want to bring him home

[otaku1998]

Don't tell your parents then. I haven't told mine and they don't need to know unless I start dating a guy and want to bring him home

I plan to tell my friends today... :)

I'd tell my parents, but I'm honestly scared they may kick me out over this.... they aren't exactly the type to like this...

[Straya]

I plan to tell my friends today... :)

I'd tell my parents, but I'm honestly scared they may kick me out over this.... they aren't exactly the type to like this...

Well in that case probably best not to tell them then till your out looking after yourself in your own place then you can think about telling them if you want to.

Let me know how things go man and good luck

[mopper]

You shouldn't tell your parents until you know for sure as well as if he is interested also. It might have something to do with your going through puberty

[cami]

I'm sure you're bi, or at least bi-curious.

Good luck :3

[otaku1998]

Well in that case probably best not to tell them then till your out looking after yourself in your own place then you can think about telling them if you want to.

Let me know how things go man and good luck

Thanks, I'm about to be going to his house to stay the night. All of us are getting together and playing the new dbz game. :) will tell you how it goes.

You shouldn't tell your parents until you know for sure as well as if he is interested also. It might have something to do with your going through puberty

That's true.

I'm sure you're bi, or at least bi-curious.

Good luck :3

Thsnks!!! :) hopefully everything goes good tonight.

[DoodleSnap]

Sexuality is complicated thing; made worse by the chaotic changes of puberty. Only really you can decide what sexuality you are. The most important thing is that you are comfortable with your own sexuality, then choosing a label comes after. In this case I think bisexual fits well.
If you are worried about your parents reacting badly, just remember that you don't have to tell them straight away; I have told some of my friends, but haven't told my parents yet. You could wait until you are responsible for yourself, or try to introduce gay rights and that sort of topic into the household, to try to make them sympathetic to it. However, it is important that you don't alienate your family, so be kind, but make sure that they know that the decision to use that label is important to you (when you do decide to come out).
Anyway, good luck with telling your friends, and, there is always the possibility that they might say the same thing back. In which case, you could see how things go with your friend, and maybe consider asking him out. Hope it goes well.

[Seth Green]

You might be Bi or Gay. But at the end of the day only you can really find out what sexuality you are.

[OSUBuckEyes]

I don't know if this is the right area to post this... I'm new here.

Err, ok... so for quite sometime now I've noticed I really like one of my friends...... but my friend is a guy, I've had a gf before... so does this mean I am bi? Because I honestly really him... really could use some advice.

Depends what you mean by really like him. Is it platonic (as friends), romantic, physical/sexual, curiosity, etc.?

All men have their bro-crushes, even straight ones.

Is this guy someone you could open up to about your feelings?

[otaku1998]

Sexuality is complicated thing; made worse by the chaotic changes of puberty. Only really you can decide what sexuality you are. The most important thing is that you are comfortable with your own sexuality, then choosing a label comes after. In this case I think bisexual fits well.
If you are worried about your parents reacting badly, just remember that you don't have to tell them straight away; I have told some of my friends, but haven't told my parents yet. You could wait until you are responsible for yourself, or try to introduce gay rights and that sort of topic into the household, to try to make them sympathetic to it. However, it is important that you don't alienate your family, so be kind, but make sure that they know that the decision to use that label is important to you (when you do decide to come out).
Anyway, good luck with telling your friends, and, there is always the possibility that they might say the same thing back. In which case, you could see how things go with your friend, and maybe consider asking him out. Hope it goes well.
Thsnks for the advice.

My parents would not care... they think it's wrong

You might be Bi or Gay. But at the end of the day only you can really find out what sexuality you are.
:p I'm bi , thanks for replying to this.
Depends what you mean by really like him. Is it platonic (as friends), romantic, physical/sexual, curiosity, etc.?

All men have their bro-crushes, even straight ones.

Is this guy someone you could open up to about your feelings?

Yeah he's someone I could open up to... he's the one person I'd do anything for.


So I told my friends and that went really good. Told them last night.

[Laura Crofty]

I'm sure you're bi, or at least bi-curious.

Good luck :3

I agree, I was a bit confused a few years back, but now happy with liking both guys and girls.

[otaku1998]

D: well my parents kind of kickrd me out... every since they found out I was bi... I've been at my friends house, which is where they took me after finding out... which is why I haven't been posting... I'm at the guys house I like, and we go to the same school
He just doesn't know I like him but knows I'm bi

[Zerep2016]

I think you are bi