Question for everyone...

[tammyk]

Hi guys!

Recently me and my boyfriend were talking and he was asking what is was like to give head to a guy. He was really interested and kept asking details and how it felt. I was a bit confused cause he straight but i finally got out of him, and he said he really wants to try, he is straight, not bi. But he said he thought about it. Is this normal??? Do guys think about it?? Have you ever had thoughts?

Or girls, has this ever happened to you?? Did your boyfriend ever say anything and how did you take it? What would you do if he did???

Thanks guys! Advice is appreciated!! :)

[Magenta]

Some guys get curious. I know there's some taboo about straight men thinking about "gay" things but it doesn't necessarily mean sexual attraction to males. A lot of the time it's just about exploring their own bodies and what it's like to give rather than just receive. And considering a lot of dudes aren't flexible enough to do it themselves, you kinda do need another dude. It's very normal, a lot of guys just may not feel comfortable enough to talk about it without being judged.

I've never been asked but I say that if you are genuinely okay and comfortable with your boyfriend just figuring out these curiosities, maybe let him. If you're not okay with it though, make sure he knows that.

If it were me, I'd say go right ahead, just let me know and make sure your other partner is clean before you come back to me. If it's safe, consensual, and healthy, simple curiosity isn't the worst thing in the world. Communication would be a deal-breaker for me if I were in an exclusive relationship. I dunno, my way of thinking about it may be a little weird but I mean, how else is he gonna find out?

But a lot of girls may think it's completely inappropriate if you're already in a relationship and that's okay to. Just know what you're comfortable with and that's really the only advice you need.

[OSUBuckEyes]

It's called curiosity and wondering for a reason....Just like he loves you for a reason, because he's straight. I wouldn't encourage him to sleep around while he's with you though!! But plenty of straight guys have done stuff with other men before.... LOL

[lisa S]

I've had bf's and guys I've given a bj to ask like all sorts of ?'s about it...One guy I jokingly asked why he cares so much about the minute details about a girl sucking a guy off. He said it's a turnon. Most guys I've been with are completely obsessed about getting head, like getting a bj is like a trip to Disney World. Why is it such a big deal?

[mopper]

I think every guy has some kind of curiosity about stuff like this. I have thought about it, but not too deeply, but I know people who have been very interested in trying it.