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ZzeWatermelon
March 4th, 2015, 04:51 PM
Guys,

Everyone is making out. Like all of my friends. Have made out, are currently in couple and are probably making out or will. I HAVE NEVER. I am fifteen and I feel like everyone gets everything in these terms. Everyone kisses, has sex. Even younger kids than me... and I feel left out.

How can I feel better about this? It's a stupid thing but it's sad!
cami
March 4th, 2015, 05:06 PM
Just take your time, be patient and don't think too much about it. You'll do it sooner or later when the right time comes. For now, try to keep yourself busy.
Magenta
March 4th, 2015, 09:47 PM
Dude, don't worry about it. I made out with someone when I was 16 and had sex with that person and man, I regret it. Like... it wasn't anything special or halfway decent. You're not being left out, you're doing things at your own pace and that's okay. I haven't done anything since and that was four years ago. Kinda glad, honestly.
Elysium
March 4th, 2015, 09:56 PM
My friends & I are all older than you and none of us have even had a relationship, let alone kissed anyone. Don't worry about it - you're far from being alone.
thetransylvanianguy
March 5th, 2015, 08:46 AM
No, you should get through these things according to your own pace. Don't let yourself be taken by the 'wave' - do it when you want it.
DoodleSnap
March 5th, 2015, 11:14 AM
Socrates said (I paraphrase, as always); we should base our decisions from our own rational thinking and logical deduction, rather than what the majority that surrounds us or what those in positions of authority suggest and/or do.
Basically, you are going at your own pace: and that is great. Maybe others are going faster, maybe to their detriment, or maybe not, but just know that you are doing the right thing for you, whatever pressures are put upon you by society. Being independent of those around you isn't easy, but be sure that you're doing great.
ZzeWatermelon
March 5th, 2015, 12:00 PM
Thank you guys, these comments are really uplifting.
OSUBuckEyes
March 5th, 2015, 03:28 PM
It'll happen sooner or later babe. I was sort of a late bloomer with sexual things (kinda) but I made up for lost time and got way more popular so don't worry!!