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mopper
March 4th, 2015, 03:57 PM
Hi, i'm andrew, and i'm probably depressed. I don't even know.

so basically, i'm going to give the entire story of my life and feelings. not leaving anything out. first, i'm going to tell about myself

age: 15
height: 6'
weight: 220lb
interests: minecraft
sports: baseball


okay, so i'm going to start with my emotions. i was always a fairly short-tempered person, but ever since my depression started, i've been prone to lashing out at people, especially my friends/siblings/parents. Sometimes, i am masked as happy, having fun but still crying inside, and sometimes i'm just straight up sad.

i've also always been a very shy person, and this has changed a little. there are certain people who i am able to talk to like my 'friends' who i don't even really connect with. and there's this girl who i really like, but she's outgoing and pretty and friendly, but i can't find the nerve to talk to her. she'd probably not feel the same way anyway. i have no confidence in myself.

so as for minecraft, i am a member of a very large multiplayer network called mcpvp (over 5 million total players to date). i've been there for 3 years, and i am one of the longest tendered player on the network. i've been working to be a moderator of that for a long time, and i've come to know a few of their administrators ( all in their 20's). anyway, not being a moderator has never really bothered me until recently, when I got really upset about it. these are things that shouldn't really bother me, but they do. I feel like by getting a position, i will feel less invisible within that community, as well as in real life. I also really need the confidence boost.

I really need some kind of help. I'm always sad, and I have no one to tell me feelings to. My biggest problem is the girl who i feel like is so far out of reach.

JamesSuperBoy
March 4th, 2015, 04:15 PM
Hi, i'm andrew, and i'm probably depressed. I don't even know.

so basically, i'm going to give the entire story of my life and feelings. not leaving anything out. first, i'm going to tell about myself

age: 15
height: 6'
weight: 220lb
interests: minecraft
sports: baseball


okay, so i'm going to start with my emotions. i was always a fairly short-tempered person, but ever since my depression started, i've been prone to lashing out at people, especially my friends/siblings/parents. Sometimes, i am masked as happy, having fun but still crying inside, and sometimes i'm just straight up sad.

i've also always been a very shy person, and this has changed a little. there are certain people who i am able to talk to like my 'friends' who i don't even really connect with. and there's this girl who i really like, but she's outgoing and pretty and friendly, but i can't find the nerve to talk to her. she'd probably not feel the same way anyway. i have no confidence in myself.

so as for minecraft, i am a member of a very large multiplayer network called mcpvp (over 5 million total players to date). i've been there for 3 years, and i am one of the longest tendered player on the network. i've been working to be a moderator of that for a long time, and i've come to know a few of their administrators ( all in their 20's). anyway, not being a moderator has never really bothered me until recently, when I got really upset about it. these are things that shouldn't really bother me, but they do. I feel like by getting a position, i will feel less invisible within that community, as well as in real life. I also really need the confidence boost.

I really need some kind of help. I'm always sad, and I have no one to tell me feelings to. My biggest problem is the girl who i feel like is so far out of reach.






I think you have to look and see if you can give yourself the confidence boost you want/need

You also have had some advice re talking with the girl in these threads.

http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=221636

http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=221778

Although talking about things is hard for everybody Maybe you need to boost that confidence yourself and try.
There may be other opportunities around you that could give you a boost - and lets face it I guess a lot do need some help with confidence along the way.

Is there anyone around maybe school counselor or similar and hey you can use the wing man tip form the other thread if it is difficult to get appointments at such.

maybe also this hows about you set the talking with this girl plan on one side just for now and look for that confidence boost etc.

gioman97
March 5th, 2015, 03:51 PM
Hey Andrew :) I play minecraft a bit not to much I really play BF4 but I have a premium minecraft account would like to play a match with you if you don't mind wanna get to know you and if you have a mic then we can chat VOIP via (teamspeak/skype/ect ect) hopefully you get to read my message bro!

mopper
March 5th, 2015, 08:40 PM
Hey Andrew :) I play minecraft a bit not to much I really play BF4 but I have a premium minecraft account would like to play a match with you if you don't mind wanna get to know you and if you have a mic then we can chat VOIP via (teamspeak/skype/ect ect) hopefully you get to read my message bro!

I'd like that :)

gioman97
March 5th, 2015, 10:59 PM
I'd like that :)

PM your info so we could play :cool:

add me on Skype @ live:gioman97_1