Is my best friend bi too?

[Skaterdude1998]

My best friend and i have being messing around for 2 years now. He is 17 and i am 16. I know i am pretty much bi i deff like dudes and girls. He says he only likes girls and that he messes with me because he is curious and he feels comfortable with me. He doesn't like guys according to him. Is this just natural exploration for him or is he bi?:coo

[okaitvdto]

He could always just be saying that because he's afraid of admitting that he's bi? Are you really close? It might be just that he doesn't trust you with his secret but if you're close then he should have no problem with telling you.

It might just be exploration, though.

[NewZealand]

My best friend and i have being messing around for 2 years now. He is 17 and i am 16. I know i am pretty much bi i deff like dudes and girls. He says he only likes girls and that he messes with me because he is curious and he feels comfortable with me. He doesn't like guys according to him. Is this just natural exploration for him or is he bi?:coo

I think of your sexual orientation as a scale like bellow
|straight-----------------------—bi—----------------------gay|
It's just where your placed, he coulbe be in between bi and gay :)

[Skaterdude1998]

He and i are very close. He is the only person that i have told so far. He came to me a cpl months after i told him i was bi and that i had tried stuff with other dudes one of our friends. he said he wanted to try some stuff to and we have just been doing it for 2 years now.

I am between str8 and bi.

He deffintely likes chciks he has a gf and he and i have done stuff with girls together. We both deff like girls. I just like dudes too he likes what we do we don't kiss or do anything anal. just like jo each other 69n. neither one of us like the other more then a bestfriend. i was just asking because sometimes he gets really into when he is sucking me he has his eyes closed and he makes noises and other times he seems kinda weird after like idk he is quiet and he and i won't talk for a day then we are fine again.

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[Jake2001]

He deffintely likes chciks he has a gf and he and i have done stuff with girls together. We both deff like girls. I just like dudes too he likes what we do we don't kiss or do anything anal. just like jo each other 69n. neither one of us like the other more then a bestfriend. i was just asking because sometimes he gets really into when he is sucking me he has his eyes closed and he makes noises and other times he seems kinda weird after like idk he is quiet and he and i won't talk for a day then we are fine again.
I'd say from that he's either gay or bi

[Zachary G]

He deffintely likes chciks he has a gf and he and i have done stuff with girls together. We both deff like girls. I just like dudes too he likes what we do we don't kiss or do anything anal. just like jo each other 69n. neither one of us like the other more then a bestfriend. i was just asking because sometimes he gets really into when he is sucking me he has his eyes closed and he makes noises and other times he seems kinda weird after like idk he is quiet and he and i won't talk for a day then we are fine again.

sounds to me like he is in the questioning mode of his bi side; dont push him on it, let him enjoy himself and you do the same and maybe when he is ready and comes to terms with who he is, he will confide in you. he seems to be pretty safe with you, so guard that and just be patient with him.

[Skaterdude1998]

Yea,we feel safe with eachother .I'd never push him to do anything. We are very close and i accept him for who he is. He is not as out going or good at expressing himself as i am. I also have know i was bi since i was 13 and have been doing stuff with guys since 13 and girls since 15. Even though he is a year older i am still like his protector i always look out for him. He is not a big dude for 17 and ppl try to pick n him sometimes and i protect him.

[Luminous]

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[basketball33]

It's hard to tell but to me it sounds like he is. But if you ever do want to anything make sure that you know 100% that he is because it could get super awkward IMO

[Skaterdude1998]

He and i have been jo each other and sucking each other for 2 years now basketball33. He just say he is comfortable with me and is not into guys.

[pjones]

i think him being comfortable with you is a reason he does it. me and my best friend are the same, we do everything but anal. we love it but we both like girls too. at our age any sex is pretty nice imo, so he may not be bi, just likes being with you and sex is a benefit

[OSUBuckEyes]

Yo, sounds like you're having fun and staying friends. I mean Idk. I'm straight but I also realize that stuff with a willing dude is a hell of a lot easier than stuff with somegirls sometimes. LOL

[Skaterdude1998]

Yea,he is my roll dog for life. Yea i hear ya pjones it is deff cool. It is a very casual thing it just kind of happens while doing friend stuff. playing video games or fishing riding bikes skating. But it always goes back to just doing friend shit. Once in awhile he seems a little weird after but 90 percent of the time it's just something we do and move on. His gf is 15 and he says she is terrible at giving head. Like OsuBuckeyes said if you have a bestfriend that is bi and is good at givign head and your gf sucks at it and your cool with it why not. So i am glad he feels cool with me. I just want to be there for him if he is going through the bi denial stage.

[basketball33]

He and i have been jo each other and sucking each other for 2 years now basketball33. He just say he is comfortable with me and is not into guys.

Oh okay, well the way it sounds to me now is that he is bi I would guess. But idk if he's saying he's not into guys maybe he is insecure about his sexuality or something.

[OSUBuckEyes]

Yea,he is my roll dog for life. Yea i hear ya pjones it is deff cool. It is a very casual thing it just kind of happens while doing friend stuff. playing video games or fishing riding bikes skating. But it always goes back to just doing friend shit. Once in awhile he seems a little weird after but 90 percent of the time it's just something we do and move on. His gf is 15 and he says she is terrible at giving head. Like OsuBuckeyes said if you have a bestfriend that is bi and is good at givign head and your gf sucks at it and your cool with it why not. So i am glad he feels cool with me. I just want to be there for him if he is going through the bi denial stage.

Bro. It sounds like you totally are there for your boy. Just sayin.

How could you be more there? Right?

Oh okay, well the way it sounds to me now is that he is bi I would guess. But idk if he's saying he's not into guys maybe he is insecure about his sexuality or something.

If he's emotionally attracted to women and wants to have a girlfriend and wants to get married and have kids some day (addin' something into the mix now....) but enjoys a close buddy and his mouth from time to time why fuck with it or change his label? lol

Not saying this kid's in denial, but not saying what he wants is so weird for a straight day. It's funny for being such a "progressive" society these days too many gay/bi dudes want to cram straight dudes into labels that sometimes really just don't apply.

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[Straya]

My best friend and i have being messing around for 2 years now. He is 17 and i am 16. I know i am pretty much bi i deff like dudes and girls. He says he only likes girls and that he messes with me because he is curious and he feels comfortable with me. He doesn't like guys according to him. Is this just natural exploration for him or is he bi?:coo

definatly sounds like he is someway between been bi and straight but more towards the straight side and he might just act on his feelinga with you because he trusts you

[DoodleSnap]

It sounds like he is somewhere on the scale of bisexuality, but if he wants to use the 'Straight' label, and feels comfortable with you, then there is no need to take any action.

[Skaterdude1998]

He and i are both into girls and he has a gf and i sort of do. I haven't officially asked her out yet. But i have no problem with mine and his set up the way it is. I just wanted a third person perspective on how i should approach it. it's not that he or i label each other or anything. i was just looking for advice on how to be there for him as best i can.

[Emerald Dream]

The OP is banned. :locked: