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soccerbeth
March 2nd, 2015, 10:09 PM
Ok, I'm really not trying to be inappropriate, but I'm hoping somebody may have walked a similar road and help make sense of what I'm feeling. I have lately been experiencing a really increasing attraction to girls. I used to not have any attraction to girls at all, like not even in the locker room. But even that has been a lot harder for me. And today, I was in a coffee shop, and saw this incredibly gorgeous girl wearing tight pants and just looking at her got me so turned on.
I've never considered myself bi or lesbian, maybe bi curious. If it was just this once, I would say it's just hormones. But this has been happening a lot lately. I don't know where this attraction is coming from. Has anyone walked this road before? I'm confused...help.
Stephanie 15
March 2nd, 2015, 10:44 PM
Ok, I'm really not trying to be inappropriate, but I'm hoping somebody may have walked a similar road and help make sense of what I'm feeling. I have lately been experiencing a really increasing attraction to girls. I used to not have any attraction to girls at all, like not even in the locker room. But even that has been a lot harder for me. And today, I was in a coffee shop, and saw this incredibly gorgeous girl wearing tight pants and just looking at her got me so turned on.
I've never considered myself bi or lesbian, maybe bi curious. If it was just this once, I would say it's just hormones. But this has been happening a lot lately. I don't know where this attraction is coming from. Has anyone walked this road before? I'm confused...help.
I am having the same feelings, and I consider myself bi-curious.
diaearls
March 2nd, 2015, 10:53 PM
I think any girl has been down that road before, I know I have and decided to date a girl. It didn't last long but it was mainly to see if I like being with a girl or not. So you may be bi-curious at the moment, so you just need to get a better idea of these feelings.
soccerbeth
March 3rd, 2015, 12:06 AM
I guess for clarification, I'm definitely bi-curious. It's just that in the past, I would usually have to know a girl well or we would have to be fooling around a little bit before I would get aroused. It seems that now, I get horny by just seeing someone wearing something I consider halfway sexy. I'm not sure why I have changed to being so easily stimulated.
Wanderer_
March 3rd, 2015, 05:27 AM
I think it's natural, doesn't mean you are going to be into girls
But we are the prettier of the genders to look at ;)
LITTLEANGEL19
March 3rd, 2015, 11:25 AM
Ok, I'm really not trying to be inappropriate, but I'm hoping somebody may have walked a similar road and help make sense of what I'm feeling. I have lately been experiencing a really increasing attraction to girls. I used to not have any attraction to girls at all, like not even in the locker room. But even that has been a lot harder for me. And today, I was in a coffee shop, and saw this incredibly gorgeous girl wearing tight pants and just looking at her got me so turned on.
I've never considered myself bi or lesbian, maybe bi curious. If it was just this once, I would say it's just hormones. But this has been happening a lot lately. I don't know where this attraction is coming from. Has anyone walked this road before? I'm confused...help.
I guess for clarification, I'm definitely bi-curious. It's just that in the past, I would usually have to know a girl well or we would have to be fooling around a little bit before I would get aroused. It seems that now, I get horny by just seeing someone wearing something I consider halfway sexy. I'm not sure why I have changed to being so easily stimulated.
Beth I know girls at school and friends who has the same feelings it's a very normal thing for girls and even boys to go through to have a attraction or crush on someone of the same sex. Beth don't worry about it go with the flow and what ever will be will be, I hope it all works out for you soon. X
cami
March 3rd, 2015, 01:45 PM
It started like that to me, so IMO you're at least bi-curious. Maybe you should give it a try :P
But we are the prettier of the genders to look at ;)
Yeah, I've always found us more attractive than boys :yes:
Taryn98
March 3rd, 2015, 09:20 PM
Many girls are at least a bit curious about other girls. This is totally normal. There's nothing wrong with you so don't worry about it.
Jennboh
March 4th, 2015, 03:55 AM
The same thing happened to me. So I consider myself to be totally bi. Embrace it!
Abbeys
March 4th, 2015, 06:17 AM
I often look at other girls and think,she's pretty or, something she is wearing is really nice and sometimes I think I would love to touch her hair or her face and even sometimes more intimate parts of her body.
But the thing is,I don't know if I would,I probably would just to see how I felt:).
And more importantly how she would respond.
Would she be disgusted and slap me around the face???
I don't know.
soccerbeth
March 4th, 2015, 10:00 PM
I often look at other girls and think,she's pretty or, something she is wearing is really nice and sometimes I think I would love to touch her hair or her face and even sometimes more intimate parts of her body.
But the thing is,I don't know if I would,I probably would just to see how I felt:).
And more importantly how she would respond.
Would she be disgusted and slap me around the face???
I don't know.
I think this describes where I am at perfectly. I mean, I've done stuff with a friend, but not a complete stranger. Yet recently I reallly really want to. I just don't know if I could/would.
Living For Love
March 6th, 2015, 03:36 AM
Puberty For Girls :arrow2: Teen Sexuality and Gender.
DoodleSnap
March 7th, 2015, 08:06 PM
Sexuality is complicated for everyone, and some people go through phases of liking certain genders, and some find that they consistently like a certain gender - it is different for everyone. However, what I can say is that being comfortable in your own sexuality and what you find attractive is much more important than adhering to one label. The only real person who can fully understand your sexuality is you; and once you understand it and feel comfortable with it. I guess what I am trying to say is, don't feel confined by one label; just be yourself and happy with you are. Hope all goes well.
Laura Crofty
March 11th, 2015, 07:37 AM
I think it's natural, doesn't mean you are going to be into girls
But we are the prettier of the genders to look at ;)
I agree with this so much, we all are curious about sex so why not with a girl. I was having the same feelings a few years back but have now come to terms with my bi side. I love my bi side, and playing with my friends.
ChaosEarthquake
March 11th, 2015, 12:47 PM
It's perfectly fine with whatever you are attracted to.
If people don't accept that, fuck them.
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