Mom and Boyfriend arguing...

[DylanDanger]

So my mom and her boyfriend are arguing. It's been happening a lot lately. I don't really like him and kinda wish they broke up cause my mom can do better. I kinda want to get involved and tell him to leave but not sure if i should or if it is my place to get involved. What would you do? Would you get involved or just let them argue it out?

[nklarke]

I recommend you to talk to your mom, not with him. It's she who eventually has to invite him to leave, not you. And point out that the way their relationship is with the arguing and all the staff is disturbing you.

[Plane And Simple]

I would do what has been said above. Sit down and talk it through with your mom, because it's definitely not a good idea to just take over your mom and ask him to leave, as you'll make both your mother and her boyfriend upset. When you talk with her, don't just say how you want him to leave straight up, just let her know you're not feeling good because they're fighting, and offer your help, see if you can do anything. Make sure to be there for your mom and they'll eventually either fix it or part ways,ehatever has to happen

[Vermilion]

I would tell your mum how you feel about him. However it's her choice as it's her relationship and not yours. I think it's something that you have to ride out. Every relationship has arguing, over the littlest things remember that.

[Straya]

i would tell her what you think but id also let him know what you think about him as well. even though your mum has the right to be dating someone she has to put you first and if he isnt giving you a good homelife then he needs to go

[DoodleSnap]

I would do what has been said above. Sit down and talk it through with your mom, because it's definitely not a good idea to just take over your mom and ask him to leave, as you'll make both your mother and her boyfriend upset. When you talk with her, don't just say how you want him to leave straight up, just let her know you're not feeling good because they're fighting, and offer your help, see if you can do anything. Make sure to be there for your mom and they'll eventually either fix it or part ways,ehatever has to happen ^^^This. Sit down and talk it through, and tell your mother how you feel. Support her and cooperate with her to find a solution, instead of loading the statement staight off of the bat. Good luck.

[JamesSuperBoy]

I would talk to your Mom - make sure you have that space. when b/f is out. Maybe its just a rough bit in any relationship How long have they been together?

But you take care.

[DylanDanger]

I would talk to your Mom - make sure you have that space. when b/f is out. Maybe its just a rough bit in any relationship How long have they been together?

But you take care.

they have been together for 4 months now. i told her this morning that i want to have a talk with her tonight so we will see how it goes. thanks everyone.

[Plane And Simple]

they have been together for 4 months now. i told her this morning that i want to have a talk with her tonight so we will see how it goes. thanks everyone.

Let us know how it goes if you want. Hope everything turns out good for you two

[DylanDanger]

Let us know how it goes if you want. Hope everything turns out good for you two

I will :) my mom just needs to stop dating guys in punk bands. they all seem to be the same and act the same lol

[Plane And Simple]

I will :) my mom just needs to stop dating guys in punk bands. they all seem to be the same and act the same lol

Hahaha There's always the exception that confirms the rule :P

[DylanDanger]

forgot i didn't update. I had a talk with my mom about it and she said i should have come to her sooner with my feeling about him. She said i am her first priority and next time tell her sooner. She ended up breaking up with him, and told me she knew the relationship wasn't working and my feelings about him and them arguing confirmed it for her.

[Plane And Simple]

forgot i didn't update. I had a talk with my mom about it and she said i should have come to her sooner with my feeling about him. She said i am her first priority and next time tell her sooner. She ended up breaking up with him, and told me she knew the relationship wasn't working and my feelings about him and them arguing confirmed it for her.

That's the best possible ending. Nice to hear you're both good.

[SethfromMI]

forgot i didn't update. I had a talk with my mom about it and she said i should have come to her sooner with my feeling about him. She said i am her first priority and next time tell her sooner. She ended up breaking up with him, and told me she knew the relationship wasn't working and my feelings about him and them arguing confirmed it for her.

well glad to hear it sounds like it is going to work out for the best. I am glad she was so understanding and so concerned, just like what am other should do