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zombieahh
April 3rd, 2008, 11:31 PM
i really like this girl but ive never really asked out a girl except once and what i said wouldn't really go for this time but i dont wanna say like hey do you wanna hang out or something? because we already hang out and go to movies and stuff but like what could i say to see if we could be more than friends? PS im 16
Antares
April 3rd, 2008, 11:35 PM
Boys Puberty :arrow: Relationships and Dating
zombieahh
April 3rd, 2008, 11:40 PM
oh im sorry =/
Prince Jellyfish
April 4th, 2008, 05:51 PM
Shalalalala
My oh myyyyy
Looks like the boy's too shy
Ain't gonna kiss the girl!
Serenity
April 4th, 2008, 05:52 PM
Keep your posts constructive. That post is spam.
dudesweet101
April 4th, 2008, 06:23 PM
Just ask if she wants to be ur gf
zombieahh
April 4th, 2008, 09:24 PM
yeah that seems simple enough, i think im just gonna say something like i dont do this much but do you wanna be my girlfriend, like the guy above me said :cool:
The Batman
April 4th, 2008, 09:47 PM
Just tell her that you like her as more than a friend so you can see how she feels about you before you ask her out.
Rutherford The Brave
April 4th, 2008, 09:57 PM
Um not exactly how it works guys. Girls aren't going to jump into a relationship, take sometime to get to know her, maybe ask her to go to the bowling alley or movie theatre just become close to her than ask the question. All girls like to know who this boy is and what is his personality they wont jut choose a boy on his looks, ok they will but thats just wrong.
The Batman
April 4th, 2008, 09:59 PM
Read the whole thread he said he already is friends with her and the already hang out and go to the movies and stuff
zombieahh
April 4th, 2008, 10:55 PM
ive known her for like 5 years, didnt talk for about 2 because we went to diff schools and now were starting to hang out alot, and do alot of stuff togeather., its not like i just met this girl
dudesweet101
April 5th, 2008, 01:43 AM
Do you think she has the same feelings back?
If you do just discuss it with her. Take a chance you nothing to lose. There plenty of other girls! ;)
toytoy2448
April 5th, 2008, 01:44 AM
do you hang out in a group or do u just hang out alone
Rutherford The Brave
April 5th, 2008, 07:22 AM
Sorry, really no need to jump on me for a mistake. Well thats good, just take her out somewhere than ask her when you feel the time is right.
zombieahh
April 5th, 2008, 07:32 PM
alone, ok heres what we did last, i picked her up at her house, we went to the movies then we went to eat dinner and then we went to the beach at like midnight and talked but like i really like her and when im with her she makes me feel diffirent but i dont think she likes me like that
dudesweet101
April 5th, 2008, 11:12 PM
OMG ASK HER. She wouldnt do all that unless she like you.
Dude be serious with yourself. Take a chance :)
zombieahh
April 6th, 2008, 12:33 AM
ok right about when i was gonna ask her out it all backfired. i think she did like me but i think i missed my chance and now i dont even think were friends. shes being all weird now saying oh i dont have friends i just have people i like to see on ocasions, and im not gonna put up with that bullcrap. ohwell ill find someone else some day, she was a big waste of time, as a friend and maybe for more
Close102
April 6th, 2008, 01:49 PM
u still have time just go up to her and ask her out or atleast make ur friendship up. explain to her that u arent great with girls and u were nervous. friendship is a lot more important then a girlfriend.
zombieahh
April 6th, 2008, 04:06 PM
no its not like that, i always knew she was diffirent but she has mood swings, like we hung out that night and the next morning shes like i dont have friends, so whatever i just dont wanna deal with it
myskias
April 8th, 2008, 11:55 PM
well shes probably depressed alot, i have a friend JUST like her. she will feel like that or say she has no friends because shes insecure. i talked to her and gave her advice to help her feel better about herself. she probably is sad/depressed and she is saying these things to you because shes asking for your help in a different way. but i do not know this girl so i do not know if this is the actual reason. maybe she really doesnt want to be your friend, or shes depressed, but i would talk to her and see if you can make her feel better. and in the mean time doing this you might even get her to like you and then you can ask her to be ur girlfriend again. if necesceary
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