How do I do it?

[mopper]

So there's this girl that I'm really interested in, and I want to express my feelings, but I never have any opportunities.


How can I get an opportunity to talk to her without tons of people around to eavesdrop? So basically I need to be able to talk to her when she isn't with her friends. I feel really ridiculous talking to people, and I don't want to be too forward in front of her friends.

So how do I get this opportunity? Is contact through Social Media an option? (to set up a time to talk)

[mopper]

Someone please help :(

[ManyPearTree]

Hey buddy. Do you see this girl on a daily basis at school? When do you see her with her friends? How long have you known her? Have you ever talked to her? Do her friends come off as being potentially mean? Let me know man!

[Straya]

So there's this girl that I'm really interested in, and I want to express my feelings, but I never have any opportunities.


How can I get an opportunity to talk to her without tons of people around to eavesdrop? So basically I need to be able to talk to her when she isn't with her friends. I feel really ridiculous talking to people, and I don't want to be too forward in front of her friends.

So how do I get this opportunity? Is contact through Social Media an option? (to set up a time to talk)

if your just gonna set up a time to talk to her over facebook then yea thats fine and probably the easiest way to get her on her own

[mopper]

Hey buddy. Do you see this girl on a daily basis at school? When do you see her with her friends? How long have you known her? Have you ever talked to her? Do her friends come off as being potentially mean? Let me know man!

I see her pretty much every day in English class/On the bus (both horrible times to talk. too many people around). I also see her at lunch sometimes but that's when she's with her friends. I have known her for ~4 years. I have talked to her in the past, but we hated eachother for a while (we made up a few months ago when I first started feeling this way, but I said it over social media so...) I don't know most of her friends but I get along well with the ones I do know.

[ManyPearTree]

I see her pretty much every day in English class/On the bus (both horrible times to talk. too many people around). I also see her at lunch sometimes but that's when she's with her friends. I have known her for ~4 years. I have talked to her in the past, but we hated eachother for a while (we made up a few months ago when I first started feeling this way, but I said it over social media so...) I don't know most of her friends but I get along well with the ones I do know. If you aren't comfortable talking to her in person right now I would break the ice again by sending her an innocent message on social media. Maybe start it off with a question about an assignment. Then you could possibly ease into being comfortable with an in person conversation about the same topic on the bus or before class.

[OSUBuckEyes]

Bro. As scary as it is at first you eventually have to find the balls to do it. If you get shot down, you get shot down. But hopefully you won't.

GIT IT!

[luq_]

Unless she's with friends, no one really gives a fuck about you two (tested). Ask her whenever you get the chance, preferably when there are none of your and her friends around (as in, literally besides or behind, not farther away).

[mopper]

Unless she's with friends, no one really gives a fuck about you two (tested). Ask her whenever you get the chance, preferably when there are none of your and her friends around (as in, literally besides or behind, not farther away).

She never is alone. That's my problem. I also don't like catching people by surprise and I would prefer she expect it.

[Jackrabbit7]

She never is alone. That's my problem. I also don't like catching people by surprise and I would prefer she expect it.

Use that to your advantage, talk to her friends, get into her group. Then ask them if she like you, make it obvious that you want to ask her out, and they'll tell her because you know girls. Try to hang out in a group and break off and ask her. Do you have a first date in mind?