Avoiding my sisters reputation...

[MeliWelli]

I have an older sister who is great, but did a lot of things that ended up sending her to boarding school. She's back after graduating, and is just waitressing until she's ready to go to college. Since she's back there's a bit of a buzz...Some guy's older brother still had the pics that got her in trouble, and now a lot of the boys in my high school have seen them too. I'm not surprised but I'm being approached by more boys than ever. Guess some are trying to get to know me to meet my sister, and I think other's are hoping I'm like her in "that way". How would you handle the unwanted attention and make it clear I'm not the girl you call for "a good time"?

[Wanderer_]

Wow I'm not sure that's a tough situation, I feel for you

[Abbeys]

You made this a question but actually it's your answer.

I'm not the girl you call for "a good time"?

They will eventually learn.

[diaearls]

Woah that's tough. But I understand wanting to get out the shadow of an older sister. But if you know you're nothing like her then just hold your head up high and just let it fly over your head.

[Taryn98]

You made this a question but actually it's your answer.

I'm not the girl you call for "a good time"?

They will eventually learn.

I think this is a great answer. Be direct about it.

[Stephanie 15]

I think this is a great answer. Be direct about it.

I agree be direct.

[SethfromMI]

You made this a question but actually it's your answer.

I'm not the girl you call for "a good time"?

They will eventually learn.

this. keep on saying it until you don't need to anymore

[Wanderer_]

I think that's the thing, be direct and don't behave like they think she did

[LITTLEANGEL19]

You made this a question but actually it's your answer.

I'm not the girl you call for "a good time"?

They will eventually learn.

Well said Abbey great answer :) X

[cami]

You made this a question but actually it's your answer.

I'm not the girl you call for "a good time"?

They will eventually learn.

Yup, this.

Abbeys, you deserve a cookie.

[MeliWelli]

Thnx guys :)

[Wanderer_]

Or embrace it and have fun ;)

[rachel_ballet]

It must be hard living in the shadow of your sister, but you are you and not your sister!
You have to make everyone aware of that!
I also think you answered your own question by saying you are not the "go to for a good time girl"

[Laura Crofty]

Be your own person, be direct

[jenni31]

unfortunately it is a really tough situation. But you need to work and commit yourself to a positive you and to step out of your sisters unfortunate reputation. It will take time and if you have very attractive you're going to attract boys thats just a part of life. Just keep saying no and keep working on your own reputation ��������