Still attracted

[diaearls]

I'm still attracted to my best friend who I dated during high school for about two weeks. After having a make out session and me giving him oral for the first time we decided to become friends with benefits. We were fwb throughout high school even we were in relationship, and I honestly didn't feel bad because I knew I could make him feel good and they couldn't.

But I wanted more then that though, Ive always wanted to be his girlfriend even to this day and we both have someone. I guess maybe because he knows so much about me and can make me laugh and he can make me feel ways my boyfriend can't.

So I honestly don't know what to do. Do I need to stop being his friend so these feelings can go away? Even though I'm not very happy in my current relationship. I do need advice.

[tret123]

Leave your current relationship and run to him! Tell your current what's up and he'll understand... Hurry up before you miss the chance of a lifetime....

[diaearls]

Leave your current relationship and run to him! Tell your current what's up and he'll understand... Hurry up before you miss the chance of a lifetime....
Yeah trust me I've thought of it before but he's in a relationship himself and I don't want to make things weird between us and even if he wasn't I feel like he wouldn't date me still.

[tret123]

You wouldn't know for sure unless you try... Maybe he feels the same way

[diaearls]

I guess you have a point. I just don't want to keep having theses feelings of what if going into each relationship I go into.

[OSUBuckEyes]

this is a big risk whe you start screwing around with someone haha

why didn't you ever date

[diaearls]

this is a big risk whe you start screwing around with someone haha

why didn't you ever date
We did date but for like two weeks and then he called it off because he felt like he was dating his sister

[OSUBuckEyes]

you still hookin up babe? you better just put an end to it and work to move on. sucks, doesn't it?

[diaearls]

you still hookin up babe? you better just put an end to it and work to move on. sucks, doesn't it?
No I live in Oklahoma now with my boyfriend, he's back in Texas. And it does suck :/

[OSUBuckEyes]

sorry ya gotta go through that

[diaearls]

sorry ya gotta go through that

Its OK, I'll get over it eventually.

[indoxyl]

I've come to the conclusion that boys are no help in this situation.

I read through your other thread about your boyfriend and obviously that relationship isn't good for you at all.
But maybe you're only seeing yourself as your friends girlfriend because he treats you like a better friend than your boyfriend does?
Some times in this kind of situation people will go after, and dream of being with, whoever is the easiest to get to so they can feel better. This person being your friend.
I think you should really think over if you really have feelings for the guy or just like the idea of him because he's better than your boyfriend and maybe talk to him about it. It might not go any where because he has a girlfriend but it doesn't hurt to try

I really hope I made sense

[diaearls]

I've come to the conclusion that boys are no help in this situation.

I read through your other thread about your boyfriend and obviously that relationship isn't good for you at all.
But maybe you're only seeing yourself as your friends girlfriend because he treats you like a better friend than your boyfriend does?
Some times in this kind of situation people will go after, and dream of being with, whoever is the easiest to get to so they can feel better. This person being your friend.
I think you should really think over if you really have feelings for the guy or just like the idea of him because he's better than your boyfriend and maybe talk to him about it. It might not go any where because he has a girlfriend but it doesn't hurt to try

I really hope I made sense
Actually you made perfect sense. Geez why didn't I sign up for this site sooner? Lol.