Stop messing with my head

[Broken Toy]

My best friend seems to be fucking with me and given my constant state of being on a knofe edge its really causing problems.

In school, we're best friends and act like we're going out (i also has feelings for her) but out if school i just get fucked with.

So i self harmed for the first time in like a month, and she said 'do you know how bad i feel my best friend is doing that' and i felt bad and didnt want to do it again, but yesterday i text her and said can i see you tomorrow (today) and she said yeah. But i text her this morning because something had happened the day before and i wanted to help her sort it out, but she blanked me. I would say fair enough but she was on facebook like all day and she doesnt have a laptop.

Whats going on?

P.s. Older members must hate this girl, theyve heard enough about her, so sorry

[diaearls]

Honestly if I was you I would sit down with her and figure out why she acts like that. And honestly if she doesn't give you an answer then I'll just unfriend her and move on.

[Plane And Simple]

I would agree with diaearls. Sit down and talk it through, I'd do it in school because you guys act cool in there, so she might be a little calmer if you do dit then and not outside. Tell her how that is making you feel and she should realize that it's hurting you, and then act just like she did when you self-harmed. Good Luck :D

[Wanderer_]

Why hurt yourself though? Is it just a cry for attention or what?
I don't understand it

[DoodleSnap]

I would agree with diaearls. Sit down and talk it through, I'd do it in school because you guys act cool in there, so she might be a little calmer if you do dit then and not outside. Tell her how that is making you feel and she should realize that it's hurting you, and then act just like she did when you self-harmed. Good Luck :D
This is good advice. As I always say, communication is very important in any relationship, so talking through things and sharing how you feel is an important way to allow the other person to understand you. Misinformation, misunderstandings and presumptions can really distance relationships, so make it clear how you feel. Good luck.

[Broken Toy]

Why hurt yourself though? Is it just a cry for attention or what?
I don't understand it

No nothing like that (although thinking about it all self harmers, to generalise, kind of want to be caught and someone say all the right things and make you happy)

Basically i have low self confidence (like hearing voices calling you, i bullied myself?) and she was going with this lad who was beating her up, so i took it as there was something wrong with me that she liked him and not me. I felt like i wouldnt be good enough to do anything so whats the point of life.

I see where i was wrong but i have off days, and today some girl told me she knew what id been doing and explained its different whem youre in love with somebody.

Hope i cleared it up, although my ability to go off topic is amazing i hope it makes sense :D

[Wanderer_]

No nothing like that (although thinking about it all self harmers, to generalise, kind of want to be caught and someone say all the right things and make you happy)

Basically i have low self confidence (like hearing voices calling you, i bullied myself?) and she was going with this lad who was beating her up, so i took it as there was something wrong with me that she liked him and not me. I felt like i wouldnt be good enough to do anything so whats the point of life.

I see where i was wrong but i have off days, and today some girl told me she knew what id been doing and explained its different whem youre in love with somebody.

Hope i cleared it up, although my ability to go off topic is amazing i hope it makes sense :D

No thank you so much for explaining I really appreciate your sharing that

You hang in there are look after yourself
I don't think she's the one for you but it's admirable you care for her wellbeing